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    Dec 10, 2007, 11:20 AM
    I cannot answer this one for certain. (married/previously married folks may help)
    My old college roommate asked me to weigh in on his girlfriend's angst.

    His girlfriends ex-husband remarried and he says she's been a bit "off" since for weeks.

    I said it was normal since she has kids with her Ex and now they have a new family for her to deal with etc... Anyway, he thinks she's jealous even though SHE divorced HIM.

    I ain't a woman and I've never been married but I'd imagine she is just re-evaluating what she was doing for all those years. And he has to be patient.

    That said, I don't know what's a "normal" reaction to marriage of one's former spouse etc....

    Thoughts?
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    Dec 10, 2007, 01:03 PM
    That is wise.

    My only concern is that she may be wanting to go back in some way, and he could get hit if he gets more serious. I told him to not press. Is she giving him a signal?
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    Dec 10, 2007, 03:21 PM
    Probably not. Emotions take time to sort out. She will probably drop mooning over her ex and resume her new life with her boyfriend.
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    Dec 10, 2007, 03:31 PM
    Sorry ash, I replied to your question, messed it up, and deleted the wrong one... senior moment. Carry on.

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