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    sahar236 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 9, 2007, 06:33 AM
    Is it safe to have sex during pregency?
    Hi I am sahar.. iam 4 month pergnant and my husband want 2 have sex with me.. he also want his 2 friends to join... he says it is his fantasy and he want to fullfil it... I have no problem in having sex with hi friends but is it safe to have sex during pregency? as I want this child.. help
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    Dec 9, 2007, 07:20 AM
    Hello sahar:

    Sure. Have sex with all of 'em.

    excon
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    Dec 9, 2007, 07:31 AM
    Sarha, even though excon's answer may be more fun for you, your hubby and his friends. I caution against it.

    You will be sleeping with 3 men, you may safely assume that your hubby's penis is not infected with any kind of diseases,
    But these 2 other men... do they have sex with other women and men... do they use protection. If you can assure yourself that you will not get aids, or another disease that will harm the baby... then I guess go for it just remember, Rubbers break and pre- will have those little disease's in it or the shaft, surronding hair of the penis could have little friends waiting for you. Critters, warts, blisters etc.

    We have a medical person on here , it really would be best if you could hold off until she answers you. She can tell you a lot more than I can.
    I just did not want you to go ahead with out at least some type of warning... who's knows you could all be a little impatient.
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    Dec 9, 2007, 07:51 AM
    First none of us here know what type of pregnancy you are having, high risk, normal or so on. Only your doctor you are seeing about the pregnancy can tell you if it is safe for YOU.

    As for as having sex with 2 of your husbands friends, that is just wrong, any husband that really loves you would never ask that.
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    Dec 28, 2007, 09:41 PM
    Look I am a guy. I like the idea of a holle plether of naked women in my bed, but I love and respect my wife. Your husbend is a child and you only got room for one baby in your life right now and it is in your belly. Having sex with the hole world seams as thouw he is not yet a man. As he showed you he loves you. You are smart, you are beautiful, you are loved. You are loved and so is your baby. If he gets all pissy over you not being a slut then you need to leav him and get you a life and a man that will love and respect you.
    You are not a toy!!
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    Dec 28, 2007, 10:05 PM
    It all depends on the pregnancy. Why would you even consider having sex with others, besides your husband? That is just plain stupid and risky. Sex during pregnancy can be risky depending on if it is high risk or not. Having sex with other people would put you and your baby at risk for sexually transmitted diseases and other possibilities. If your truly thinking about doing this. Your put yourself at risk, your baby, and your marriage. Is that what you want?
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    Dec 29, 2007, 02:26 AM
    Okay... I let this slide the first time through because I figured it would blow over.

    BUT--it's revival is too much.

    Thread closed, for suspicion of a troll who hasn't been back since she posted.
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