[mylovec]

I shared a long passionate kiss and touch with a married man who is a work colleague in his car, he first ask me for a dancing date, then he came and meet me at some place where we sat in his car and we passionately kissed, we did not do the did because I controlled it being the first day, from there he did not call or text back, we met again after a week and he took me to his house where we hugged, kissed and touched when we were both naked, then I could see that he is not into the game as I was also not into the game, I could feel he is having questions, we sat and talked about it and he said he is attracted to me and he is in two halves beause he feels guilt he is maried, I am also married and am attracted to this man, why is he pulling back?should I think we will get together sometime? Is it because am a black woman and he is not? Why is he pulling back after the passionate kiss and touches?

[Synnen]

Because he is MARRIED.

Most people feel that no matter how much you are attracted to someone other than your spouse, acting on it is an act of betrayal to your spouse, and therefore have guilt.

Why are YOU cheating on YOUR spouse?

[mylovec]

I am not cheating on my husband, but this is a felling I have for him and can not control it

[Tuscany]

The man knows that cheating on your spouse is wrong. He feels guilty for being in the situation, and his conscious is getting the best of him. It has nothing to do with race, it has to do with the pure fact that you are both MARRIED!

Maybe you should look at your own relationship. Obviously something is wrong otherwise you would not be looking elsewhere.

If you are naked in bed with another man, then you are cheating on your husband.

[Synnen]

i am not cheating on my husband, but this is a felling i have for him and can not control it

You may or may not be able to control your feelings, but you CAN control your actions.

I suggest you get naked in bed with your husband and see if you can get some sparks THERE instead.

[JoeCanada76]

Hello, Why do you think he is pulling back? He is married and his concience is getting to him. He knows it is wrong.

On the other hand, you do not seem to have any guilt and seem to think there is nothing wrong with cheating on your husband. I feel bad for your husband.

If you have any concience at all you will stay away from this married man. You will stay home and be ONLY with you husband and never ever do this again.

Joe

[Fr_Chuck]

Dear cheating low life women, who has found a cheating low life man, actually you both deserve all of the sadness and pain that comes from this, but sadly your partner does not.

Do them a favor, give them the kids if there are any and leave, your spouse deserves a much better partner than someone who would kiss, get naked and wonder way thing are not happening in a cheating affair.

[Ash123]

This has no chance.

To unravel a marriage takes years. You are hot for each other. It will pass. I read the post thoroughly and I am sure... This has ZERO chance.

Is he serious? No.

(Thank God)