Originally Posted by
Tyne26
Am I overreacting???????
YES!
Seems like you want instant results.
You've been given good ideas and suggestions here.
Change is a process and takes time and work.
Maybe a first step would be to have a "heartfelt conversation" with yourself before going out. One that involves
letting go of the idea that people (girls) have to like you at first glance or first meeting.
You seem to be constantly worrying about whether they'll like you.
What about whether you'll like them? You'll just take any ole person who comes along whether they're a good match for you or not?
You're not giving yourself, nor them, a chance.
Re-read the posts of good ideas!
Work on yourself, from the inside out.
You'll be amazed at the change!