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ad_lin · Oct 19, 2007, 12:22 AM

I think I've got a problem to start a conversation... I don't know how to overcome this problem.. I just onboard about a month but my boss already scold at me twice about my silent attitude.. every time I try to start a conversation I got a -ve feedback.. when I ask a question people will answer it so rough so I being scared to ask them for a 2nd time.. but then my boss always told me to ask question.. ask question.. ask question.. so now I'm doubt.. am I was at the right place or not.. why people can't be nice to me.. or is there anything else I can do? My commodity is supplier quality and incoming QC, and this is my first job.. Please help me to be a better workers.. :(

me_angel · Oct 19, 2007, 12:59 AM

I was also suffering problem like that. I think only your hardwork and deternination will help u in overcoming from this problem. Just try to read good books and watch good english movies. Believe in Yourself n Have confidence in yourself that whatever you are saying is right.

ad_lin · Oct 19, 2007, 01:17 AM

Thanks angel for your advise.. anyway you said you suffered problem like this too.. are you overcome it with this way... its need a courage isn't to believe in myself.. its so hard.. all the time when I try to put determination on myself but it will melting whenever I go faced all that people..

me_angel · Oct 19, 2007, 01:42 AM

I used to be very silent. But I changed myself after graduation. I started with my friends. I joined a English speeking course and then tried to speak up in front of many people. I was not very confident when I went first time on stage. But after some time I can do better if I'll speak. Now may be I am not very talkative person but not silent too. I am able to express my view and people also believe in me.