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qwe1 · Sep 4, 2007, 03:42 AM

Hi all,

Last Thursday I met this girl at a night club. We were talking for a couple of hours and she gave me her phone number and she missed called mine on to her phone. We said that maybe we were both going there the next day so she said to call her.

I called her but she said that probably she wouldn't go out so we said to meet each other next week. This was Friday. On Sunday late afternoon I sms her (she was on vacation) just a simple message how are u... and she replied on Sunday night that she is tiered and she just got back and to meet up within the week. And I never replied.

So today I called her and she answered saying that she is a bit sick and that she mustn't talk a lot and I told her OK and she said I will call you when I get better.

Can anyone tell me what does this girl want from me?? Why did she ever give me her phone number in the first fu&@#&) place?? I'm sick and tiered of these situations they really think they can do what they want. What should I do call in a couple of weeks delete her phone? Or wait for her to call!!

Thanks to anyone!!

Geoffersonairplane · Sep 4, 2007, 05:03 AM

My honest opinion is that she is not interested. She gave you her number in a night club when she was likely a bit drunk, happens all the time. Forget it and stop calling her now, if she was interested she would let you know but the excuses are likely a way of telling you inderectly thanks but no thanks.

That does not mean there is anything wrong with you, she just is not interested and actually calling her day after day will make her even less interested.

Perhaps also consider meeting women in places other than pubs or nightclubs. Try joining an activity group or something along those lines where you can meet a woman who has a mutual interest and is at least sober. Nightclubs and bars are fun but not a place for meeting people for a relationship most of the time.

qwe1 · Sep 4, 2007, 05:07 AM

She was perfectly all right, believe me...

And if she didn't want to meet me why did she reply in the first place and why did she even write that we will meet next week (I didn't even say anything)

Geoffersonairplane · Sep 4, 2007, 05:11 AM

Well, I'm not sure (for sure) why she said what she said. It was just my opinion, right or wrong. It just sounds as if she is not interested to me but I may be wrong. I just think it is perhaps best for you to wait now for her to call you, if she wants to, she will call you.

Capuchin · Sep 4, 2007, 05:34 AM

Yeah. Get on with your life. If she calls then she calls and you can go from there. If she doesn't then you'll already be getting on with it :)

Dave1986 · Sep 4, 2007, 05:41 AM

Yeah she definatley not interested, sorry pal but it happens a lot... maybe she did it purely for ego boost! Happened to me a few times, but I just think their loss! Ha!

bayareaslapzz · Sep 4, 2007, 04:55 PM

Maybe you bore the crap out of her... what do you guys talk about on the phone? Probably some boring... lol

bayareaslapzz · Sep 4, 2007, 04:56 PM

OH TTT... SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!! lol

talaniman · Sep 4, 2007, 05:10 PM

If I were you I wouldn't make this a big deal.

4me2know · Sep 4, 2007, 07:22 PM

Originally Posted by qwe1

hi all,

last thursday i met this girl at a night club. we were talking for a couple of hours and she gave me her phone number and she missed called mine on to her phone. we said that maybe we were both going there the next day so she said to call her.

i called her but she said that probably she wouldn't go out so we said to meet eachother next week. this was Friday. on Sunday late afternoon I sms her (she was on vacation) just a simple msg how are u... and she replied on Sunday night that she is tiered and she just got back and to meet up within the week. And i never replied.

so today i called her and she answered saying that she is a bit sick and that she mustn't talk a lot and I told her ok and she said i will call you when i get better.

can anyone tell me what does this girl want from me???? why did she ever give me her phone number in the first fu&@#&) place??????? I'm sick and tiered of these situations they really think they can do what they want. what should i do call in a couple of weeks delete her phone?? or wait for her to call!?!?

thanks to anyone!!!!!!

First off, met at a BAR go figure... that isn't that place for all people to meet their soul mates, and to be honest with you sweetie she was?? Drunk and didn't realized that she might be in a relationship already woke up the next morning and forgot what she did, cheap thrills...

Sparkle1 · Sep 4, 2007, 07:45 PM

Get on with your life, because it's too fun, busy, exciting (or whatever) to worry about some stranger you met at a night club.

I wouldn't take it personal. You could be the hottest, nicest guy she's ever seen but maybe she's on this very forum all broken up over some loser, and that night she could have been on the re-bound but now her pathetic loser boy ex took her back...??

Who knows, who cares. Right?