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    Hitch21 Posts: 35, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 3, 2007, 10:21 AM
    How to get his attention without pushing him away
    I am suspecting my boyfriend is cheating on me, and I have found some proof , but he is not making time to seee me. I am getting very upset because this is really bothering me. I need to talk to him and get everything off my mind and know what is going on. But he hasn't called me, he'll maybe text or message me online, but he won't answer or he hasn't called.
    I don't know how to make him understand that what I have to say is important aand I'm not doing any of it to get his attention because he thinks I have nothing to say to him and I am lying just so I can see him.
    I am hurting, I haven't slept, I have been crying for the past 4 days. And I don't know what else to do.
    I tried telling him, he wouldn't listen, he wouldn't pick up, I'm ready to just go knock on his door and grab his attention that way.

    I dontknow... what should I do?
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    Sep 3, 2007, 03:18 PM
    Sounds like he already knows what you are about to tell him and he either is embarrassed or just doesn't care. Sweetie, it will get easier. Love hurts. I wouldn't go knocking on his door because it might be considered "stalking".
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    Sep 3, 2007, 03:25 PM
    Ok don't spend your life crying over some jerk that won't listen to you. There is one person for every person on this earth. Your soulmate is out there trust me I'm 15 and all I believe in are disney movies. Lol just move on break it off. Don't let him. There's plenty of jerks out there what's so special about this one? Did I help? Mail me
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    Sep 3, 2007, 03:31 PM
    This is not your soulmate. Don't waste any more tears and energy on him. Don't contact him but get on with your life. If you don't know how to do that, ask us for ideas. We at AMHD have great ideas!!
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    Sep 3, 2007, 06:43 PM
    I need to get a hold of him though because he has a lot of my stuff and some other personal financial stuff.. I need to take care of everything and say what I have to say to make him feel like before I end it...

    He just actually called me.. he said he doesn't want to see me because he's mad at me... when I know in fact he has no reason too...

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