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New Member
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Sep 6, 2005, 07:09 AM
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What if she doesn't contact you?
Hypothetical question that sprung to mind:
You've broken up/ on a break with your girlfriend. You do the whole 2 months of no contact... but she doesn't contact you either. Is it worth it to even bother sending her a message after 2 months on how she's doing, or is it just a waste of your time?
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Ultra Member
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Sep 6, 2005, 09:07 AM
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It depends on how you feel - see, she has to be the love of your life.
AND your break up should not have been bad, meaning no cheating, abuse, etc.
Also - have you changed? Did you figure out what may have turned her off?
IF you have not made in contact in two months and the above applies - send a simple e-mail if she has e-mail saying:
"Hi, how are you? I wanted to see how you were doing? Everything is great here. Take care, ----"
No pressure, no dumb questions, absolutely no relatinship questions, no date questions.
IF she doesn't respond after 4 days - send one more ans say something funny.
Wait a 10 days - try a call. BUT THAT WOULD BE it if she doesn't respond.
Sometimes woman are way to prideful to contact you.
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New Member
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Sep 7, 2005, 09:06 PM
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:p:p:p
Do what you feel like doing...
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Junior Member
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Sep 7, 2005, 09:15 PM
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My ex contacted me a few times, lately she has been saying how much she's misses me and such. I think it's worth a shot, I mean if she turns you down, she turns you down. At least you will know and can move on.
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Junior Member
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Sep 8, 2005, 07:45 AM
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I always like to know, but at the same time take a hint. If you call someone 3 times and she never calls you back, she doesn't want to talk to you.
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Ultra Member
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Sep 8, 2005, 08:20 AM
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Yes - please no stalking.
She had to have been a pretty significant love and you had OR her could NOT have done something major to cause the break.
ALSo, again, you have to change.
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