[nicespringgirl]

If a gentelman constantly messages you saying hi and you are cute nothing else what's that mean?
Is he flirting?

[Fr_Chuck]

He is not very good at messaging you. And he is intersted

[nicespringgirl]

Thanks... I thought so too. He got to make a move since it has been half a year.
Only two sentences, back and forth.LOL

[alanalov]

He has ZERO social & communication skills. He tries to get your attention.

Makes me wonder: how do u respond? Why do u keep him writing that over and over again?

[nicespringgirl]

I try to be nice and polite so I usually write back, once in a while I won't, then he would send me a sad face ":(, I miss talking to you." I am like "what? we don't even talk!!"( I of course didn't say this to him)lol
I tried to start other conversations but he didn't reply. Then after couple days he starts like these two sentences again.
Is he weird?

[Trouble321]

If you are really interested I suggest making the first move and approaching him.
Texting is not a good way to communicate with another person.
It sounds like he is shy. I wouldn't wait around for him to come to you though... if its already been over a year and he hasn't.

[nicespringgirl]

I agree, and I called but he never picked up the phone, I asked why he said he didn't get the calls.
Do u think he is stingy about his cell phone bills? I think he gets charged even if he is receiving calls?
Is that crazy?

[Trouble321]

Honestly that's the stupidest thing I have ever heard of. Sorry to sound negative but who doesn't mind txting all the time when plans or even single texts cost money yet can't make phone calls or receive them.
Now I think he may be playing games.
I wouldn't waste my time if I were you. Let him see you date a guy who will call you and respond to your phone calls.
You didn't say you are hung up on this guy, but if you are... you are not letting yourself be seen as available to others.

[nicespringgirl]

honestly thats the stupidest thing I have ever heard of. Sorry to sound negative but who doesn't mind txting all the time when plans or even single txts cost money yet can't make phone calls or receive them.
Now I think he may be playing games.
I wouldn't waste my time if I were you. Let him see you date a guy who will call you and respond to your phone calls.
You didn't say you are hung up on this guy, but if you are.......you are not letting yourself be seen as available to others.

Texting is $5 / month and calling is more.
I will take what you say!;) I haven't replied to him for the past month,LOL.
He is really weird about money, he would skip meals and try not to drive saving gas...
C'mon he is getting his PH.D.now. He doesn't have to be frugal like that does he?

[Trouble321]

good luck!
trust me...
You don't want to end up with someone who is happier ordering off the value menu.

[alanalov]

He's weird and immature. Forget about him! Be straight forward with him and tell him to quit his stupid little game.

[alkalineangel]

hey now I order from the value menu ;)

[goldilox]

I think he's a weirdo because if he's interested I don't c why he hasn't said anythign else other than these two lines... he's probably just foolin around trying to get your attn for whatever reason that may be... and id think if he was that interested he wudn't have made calling you or even answering your calls much of an issue...

[bushg]

Nicespringgirl You are much to sweet of a person to be trying to guess what some silly guys motives are. I am afraid he sounds weird to me. I think you need to watch out for him. He gives me the creeps esp. the part where he says he misses talking to you. What is going on in this mans mind??

[talaniman]

He is going for a PHD and can't talk to a female?? Too much books, not enough people skills. Are you interested is the question, because he is. Is he the same face to face??

[nicespringgirl]

We used to talk before, mostly email, he talked about philosophy, self improvement, cultures and stuff which was pretty in depth.
We didn't meet again for half a year, so he started texting me like this.
He problly doesn't have people skill.Tal you are right, too many books! ;) Bushg, you make a lot of sense too. I haven't reply to any of his message for a month. I just don't want to mistake him and accuse him being a wierdo, so I am asking you guys for advice.
Seems like I was right!:)

Another thing is , almost all his friends are females. It seems to me, he is just friend with them, nothing else. I can't understand a guy like that.Doesn't he have anything to talk to a guy? Is he weird?or he is just afeminate?

[bushg]

Well since he talked with you indepth on emails maybe he is not weird. He may just not be as comfortable with texting. But you would think that he would say something beside that you are cute. Has he ever asked you out for coffee or for a study date? Something besides your cute. Next time he texts you ask him why he no longer has real conversations with you? If he can not be mature and answer you, stop responding to his text. Lol if it were me I would have already had him run through every police/court records of any place that I could find out he lived in. You know even educated people can be whacky, do not let the PHD throw you off.

[statictable]

We have NO IDEA who this person is, do we. Could be a woman, a child, old man, anyone. How did this person get your phone #? I would take it with a grain of salt.

[benn11]

What if you call him and ask for an explanation of what he is really trying to achieve with all the text messages? Put him on the spot and see whether he comes clear or if he is just being nice. We really can't jugde a guy just because he is texting a girl!

[nicespringgirl]

Hi Benn11,

Thank you, I think your advice is great. So What would u suggest me to say?

What is a polite way to ask him about the fact? I also don't want to be someone who mistakes his interest, maybe he is just being nice.