[Wildcat21]

Great points by Turtle.

I read an article this morning on relationships. The top thing woman find attractive is a man who can make them laugh! If he has George Castanza looks (short, fat, bald) and he makes them laugh - they don't care.

[turtlegirl]

Unless they're REALLY fat. Lol

[DomYbOsS]

Great points by Turtle.

I read an article this morning on relationships. The top thing woman find attractive is a man who can make them laugh! If he has George Castanza looks (short, fat, bald) and he makes them laugh - they don't care.

NO WAY!

LOL

[turtlegirl]

Way. (Except for the fat part, you can't help your hair or your height.)

[turtlegirl]

1. Funny
2. intelligent
3. interesting
4. curious
5. paying attention

I think everything else filters off those things. Like you can't be sweet, thoughtful or generous if you haven't been paying attention. You're also probably not going to be too creative if you're not intelligent and curious. So off the top of my head, those are the requirements.

[turtlegirl]

Oh, plus you should like the Red Sox. :p

[Wildcat21]

No Cubs Fan!!

[Wildcat21]

This is what you need to do - make sure to QUALIFY them first:

If you spend a couple of hours having regular,
Normal conversation... being Cocky & Funny,
Enjoying yourself, NOT trying to impress her, and
Generally demonstrating that you could care less
How things turn out, you'll be FAR more likely to
Take things further than if you act as if she
Might be the love of your life and you wind up
Acting so nervous, stilted, and DUMB that she runs
Away.

So here it is again... one thing that most guys
Who are unsuccessful with women do that screws
Things up... one thing to AVOID:

DON'T TREAT A WOMAN YOU'VE JUST MET AS IF SHE'S A
POTENTIAL FUTURE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND.

Instead, lean back. Be cool. Make jokes about
Her screwing up her chances with you. Tell her
That she's a nice friend. Assume that she has
Qualities that are going to annoy you, then point
Them out (in a Cocky & Funny way, of course).

Don't lose your composure. It can be fatal if
You do.

[Wildcat21]

Great list Turtle - I agree with that 100% - this is wha tmost woman WANT!!

NOT what they prefer!

There are the occasional few who want Money only. You do NOT want this type of woman anyway.

[fan9]

Ok, Wildcat is a pimp, we read that. Turtle, I think you should forget about your shy guy and just start dating Wildcat. Wildcat, you make some really good points. I see that by the way that Turtle, a woman responds to that. I guess it's all a matter of saying what you do. It's impressive things to read, yet more impressive to apply them to real life scenarios.

[Wildcat21]

I do. I don't want anyone else to make all the mistakes I have made in the past. Heartache is avoidable.

But yes - it's MUCH hard for a person to do these things in real life. People usually screw it up a couple times and get hurt.

Turtle is my cyber babe!

[turtlegirl]

That's cool, because I'm taking a break from real guys at the moment! Too much. (And whatshisname's not coming back until the end of October. I'm dying... )

[Wildcat21]

Great - it's a date.

October? Wowwww. Does absence make the heart go fonder?