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mmcpower · Jul 11, 2007, 07:20 PM

My boyfriend decided he wanted to start hanging out with his female friend that he has known since 3rd grade, should I be worried? He also talks to to his ex-girlfriends all the time. I am very insecure about this because the girl that he wants to hang out with is really beautiful and skinny, I'm not fat but no means skinny like her. I am crushed I have never met her and she just started coming around again in the last couple of weeks. Please help :(

sGt HarDKorE · Jul 11, 2007, 08:21 PM

Please stop asking this question. This is your third time repeating yourself, thank you.

AKaeTrue · Jul 11, 2007, 08:30 PM

Honey, I feel for you.
I know this is tough on you.
Some guys are trustworthy and capable of having female friends and others tend to be tempted and end up messing up.
It depends on their whole demeanor - is he a trustworthy, honest person?

Shaunta · Jul 11, 2007, 08:55 PM

Originally Posted by mmcpower

My boyfriend decided he wanted to start hanging out with his female friend that he has known since 3rd grade, should I be worried? He also talks to to his ex-girlfriends all the time. I am very insecure about this because the girl that he wants to hang out with is really beautiful and skinny, I'm not fat but no means skinny like her. I am crushed I have never met her and she just started coming around again in the last couple of weeks. Please help :(

The only thing you can do is trust him!! Has he done anything to make you not trust him? If you can't trust him you don't need to be together... if he wanted to be with the girl he would be with her and not you... he obviously likes something about you that's why your with him.. tell him to introduce you to her... then maybe all three of you could hang out..

Dennis777 · Jul 11, 2007, 09:24 PM

Hello.

I have many Female friends and have never cheated on my wife. If your husband hasn't given you any reason to think he is cheating then relax.

We all need a person to vent to. Men can't always vent to other male friends so having a good female friend works great. It can make your relationship much better if she is an honest friend. You can't be her friend also if you do he can't vent to her anymore. BUT you can meet her so you know they are being honest and not hiding their friendship.

If you tell him he can't see her and he needs her to vent to or her him. You will force him to lie to you about it.

Good Luck
Dennis777

huno · Jul 11, 2007, 11:35 PM

I wouldn't worry too much... I have purely plutonic friends that are really attractive... plus if he knows her from the 3rd grade it's probably likely they're like brother and sister...