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    DEVRAHAMILTON Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 7, 2007, 07:59 AM
    Coming on too strong
    I took a chance.. I met a man at his house. He is a fixture in his neighborhood for over 20 years, widowed... older. But married for 6 months last year.He has substantial assets.. plane, businesses, home, etc. Great looking guy,great personality,huge chemistry, very disciplined.We had a great time together. Continued communication afterwards. But.. I really like him! I don't want to come on too strong.. or too slow. What do I do next? Please help?
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    Jul 7, 2007, 11:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by DEVRAHAMILTON
    I took a chance ..I met a man at his house. He is a fixture in his neighborhood for over 20 years, widowed...older. But married for 6 months last year.He has substantial assets..plane, businesses, home, etc. Great looking guy,great personality,huge chemistry, very disciplined.We had a great time together. Continued communication afterwards. But..I really like him! I don't want to come on too strong..or too slow. What do I do next? Please help?
    Invite him over for a meal you fix really well.. A man likes a woman that can cook.. This isn't too forward since you have already been a guest in his home.Ask him questions about himself. Be a good listener. As far as a relationship goes , let him take the lead, don't push it.. Before he leaves let him know you enjoyed the day and ask him if he did also, then say "We should do this again soon" If he wants to, ask him to set the date , around his work schedule..
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