Decipher this message.
Her ex won't leave her alone and it is killing me and I am not sure if she is stringing along or not. I am dying just don't know. We are long distance she doesn't cheat you just never know. I bolded the one line I think is weird. She said she hasn't talked to him in a long long time. I am furious but keeping it inside. Aight here it is:
I don't like doing this , but I have to write how I feel, because it's too hard to tell you these things in person without breaking down.
I know at times when we hang out it seems like I'm not having fun, or maybe you thought I was upset. That's not the case at all. It is the absolute best feeling in the world to see you happy, smiling, and enjoying yourself. I can't even describe what it's like being with you now. It makes me the happiest man alive just to be around you. I love you and care about you so much, and your happiness is honestly one of the few things that mean anything to me...
It's just that I'm constantly fighting feelings about how much I hate myself for what I did and how I took something great and completely screwed it up. The thought that you may not love me anymore crushes me. It's something that no matter what, just sticks in my mind 24 hours a day. I really don't know how I'm going to be able to live with pushing the love of my life away from me. These feelings are always there, and no matter how hard I try not to think about them, it's of no use.
That doesn't mean I don't want to spend time with you though. Being with you actually makes everything seem all right for a short while. Just laying next to you made my world seem right for a couple hours.. (Does this mean recently)
No matter what it is that makes you happy, I'm going to support you in it. Whether it's another guy, new job, new school.. it doesn't matter. If it makes you happy, then it must be a good thing.
I still maintain that I can do a better job of making you happy than anyone else out there. I know you don't like hearing it, but I don't think it's possible for someone to love another person more than I love you, and I can't just give up on us, no matter how hopeless it may look for me. You probably think I should move on and rightfully so, but I've been around this planet for a while, and it doesn't get any better than you. You're the most wonderful person I've met in my life. In fact, I can't imagine ever feeling half of what I feel for you about another person.
If I have to be your friend to stay in your life then I'll do it, because nothing scares me more than being without you completely. I really just hope that eventually you'll see the person I really am, and not the idiot that I was during that rough time... sorry for rambling on...
I love you more than I could ever tell you in a million years...
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