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penelope pitstop · Jul 1, 2007, 09:53 AM

Not needed 2 post on here until today.Took lots of advise from many people on here and decided the best way 4ward for me was doing NC with my soon to be ex husband.Stil get some bad days but most days I can c a light trying 2 peep through of that dark tunnel.NC as made me happier and even though it hurts 2 no my daughter is spendin time with is girlfriend ,I av started 2 accept that.I av kept texts 2 ex to a minimum and only text about arrangements 2 do with kids.except this week just gon my ex keeps texting me asking if I'm OK n he misses being my friend.I didn't reply until he sent another text fri asking do I hate him that much.I just texted bac saying he had chosen his lifes path now and I was no longer part of his life anymore.he neva texted me bac,which I didn't expect him 2.This mornin I felt like he had rubbed my nose in it ,he bought my daughter bac with is girlfriend 2 my house just 2 make me feel like crap!my 2 older children have yet 2 accept my exsgirlfriend and could not believe he could be so nasty and cruel.my 17 year old son said the mor his dad pushes him 2 meet her the more he's going to pull away!I SO WANT 2 MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE!Its easier for me 2 see as little as possible of my ex and more so his GIRLFRIEND.am I rite in what I'm doing?

JoeCanada76 · Jul 1, 2007, 10:12 AM

First I would like to say that using short form in your writing does make it somewhat confusing to read, somebody should have said this to you before in your other posts.

Do you feel that you got good advice, in my opinion you got great advice. You followed through with the advice? Are you write in what your doing? What exactly are you doing. NO CONTACT WITH ANYBODY? Your kids are number one priority. NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

Joe

penelope pitstop · Jul 1, 2007, 10:49 AM

Am I right in having no contact with my ex husband ? I just text him about welfare of children and they are and always will be my Maine priority in my life.he picks them up from my house and then drops them back off again.

rockerchick_682 · Jul 1, 2007, 10:59 AM

Yeah your ex is being a jerk, we'll see if he even stays with this lady, but you're doing the right thing. You can't control what your ex does but if your children don't want to see her, then they don't have to.

rockerchick_682 · Jul 1, 2007, 11:01 AM

If you don't want to talk to him then you don't have to, other than things about your kids and whatever insurance I guess, no you don't have to talk to him

SAB123 · Jul 2, 2007, 10:25 AM

I agree with Jesushelper, My ex fiancé made it a point to let me know she has a boyfriend now. At first it hurt like hell I cried for 4 hours straingt. But a week later a was OK she has a so called boyfriend. I believe if I didn't stay with NC in the beginning I wouldn't be healed as much.

penelope pitstop · Jul 3, 2007, 10:16 AM

Thanks sab123 n rockerchick_682 4 your comments ,I no and feel that NC is good for me the less I see of my ex the stronger and more confidant I am becoming. It also benefits my children.Not seeing me depressed and sad makes them happy.life can only get better and I'm determined even though I'm going through a divorce I WILL SURVIVE .