[Indra]

I'm just wondering to what you guys would think if you saw a 16yr old girl walking around with 1-3 guys in their 30's..?
Like walking around town, in the city, going shopping, looking/trying on clothes, eating lunch together, sitting around in cafes, going into pubs, or just driving around?

I completely don't care what you guys think, I'm just curious that's all :D

[Wondergirl]

"I'm just wondering to what you guys would think..." and "I completely don't care what you guys think..."

Am I missing something here?

[Rockabilly1955mama]

First off, I wouldn't be able to tell their exact age just by looking at them. If it was obvious and she was with more then one man that looked way older then her, I would be a bit concerned. I wouldn't do anything about it though, I would just wonder. If it was with one man in their 30s I might think she was out with her father for the day or something.

But this is my opinion, just like you asked.

[templelane]

My opinion would probably be she was out with brothers/ uncles. I would probably thing they were (at least one of them) related. But this is because that would be the most likely explanation for myself - and people tend to view the world from their own set of experiences.

However if they are just friends its not as bad as some people assume - I have had lots of friends who when they were your age had male friends of a similar age. Although they did tend to have met through older siblings.

Hope this helps.

[Indra]

"I completely don't care what you guys think..."
By that I mean I wouldn't be offended by anything anyone says :)

[talaniman]

I would think she was a young ho, who used older men to get what she wants.

[incognito]

Don't put all the negativity on the young female. What about the pedophiles she's hanging out with??
What 30 year old male would want to chill with a 16 year old female? Unless they're relatives, there's no sane and good reason. They can't associate with females their own age then something's wrong with them.

[talaniman]

Many cultures allow for the men to pursue young females, but the OP has said 1 to 3 older men, and yes I will admit to being harsh. 16 is too young for a female to be courted by a 30 year old.

[Emland]

Sounds like she is interviewing sugar-daddies.

[binx44]

In my opinion it actually depends on the type of person your (or the if its not your child) is, and what type of men they are. When I was 14 I used to hang out with men that were 28 or around that age. I went to movies, the mall and other places with them but none of it was sexual. I am now 20 and I still hang out with men (and women) who are in their 30's, 40's and 50's. When I was growing up (and still to this day) I found that I have a hard time communicating with people my own age, I find them irresponsible and idiotic most of the time. Maybe she just thinks that she cannot get along with others her own age. Even my cousins and friends spend most of their time around older people.

[Sanjay Persad]

What d jail you talking about . I doh understand wah you trying to say

[alexis_2009_detroit]

Are you talking about yourself

[huno]

That's just creepy. So what do you like about these guys? Are they buying you stuff? What do they give you in return? (Besides the obvious, of course... ).

[watdoidonow]

I would probably think that the guys she was with were big losers and couldn't get anything from the girls their own age so they have to go for younger ones. But hey that's just my opinion

[kristynn]

1-3 guys in their 30s?

The one who seems to be the oldest must be the father. Let's say he's 36 or older.

The other one is the uncle (dad's younger brother) and the one who seems to be the youngest must be the other uncle (mom's brother), assuming that Mom is a bit younger than Dad and Mom and Dad became parents at a relatively young age.

It must be a family get-together :D... without Mom, of course.

[Sanjay Persad]

For J_9 does it matter if my words are in the dictionary or not. Once they get the message that's all that counts. Let me put it this way. What d jail means that we are uncertain of the validity of the comments just introduced. On that note if you make a logical analysis of my statements then you are able to deduce and interpret the contents of my answer. So the questions that was posted can not have a defined answer as inadequate details are provided. We can infer that she may be talking about herself. But I can't answer the questions as I needed to seek further clarifications on what the purpose of the question was.

Got it J_9...

[Wondergirl]

If there's something fishy going on, the responsibility lies only with the adults, not the underage person, not matter how "provocative" she is. That's often a pedophile's excuse, "She teased me and tempted me."

[talaniman]

wat d jail u talkin bout . I doh understand wah u trying to say

In the USA it is frowned on for older men to be messing with a teenager and according to state law it may be considered a crime. This may not be the case else where.