[shanny_2006]

I have a problem... I want to know the reason for my ex leaving me. He told me it is just something that happened beyond his control and this however, is not a valid reason. I thought things were going great with us and it was totally unexpected when he dumped me. I kind of think he did it because I wasn't ready to be intimate with him and stuff (as is going to bed and stuff) we've been out and stuff, have kissed but never engaged in sexual activities.
Before the break up he was also telling me that I wasn't giving him much attention and that he called another girl. Because of this I made special arrangements so that I could see him every day at his school. When I used to call him he would tell me that I wouldn't be able to see him and he was giving me a lot of excuses. I just don't understand why he left me ? Do u think it's because it was because he had another girl?

[rottie lover]

If he left you for some other girl then that must mean he wasn't the right man for you anyway! I think that you should move on and find someone better! :) ;)

[goldenplans]

Stay or leave , that's not the point. We have to learn from our experiences.Define your responsibilities and decide for now and for the future. I think so.

[babyshooter11]

Neither of those two possible reasons you just listed are acceptable in anyway. Maybe he did leave you for another girl or maybe he didn't like the fact that you weren't putting out but either way, neither of those reasons are acceptable. You may never know the real reason why he left you at all. And it's not a question that you have to answer. Who really cares why he left you? The point is that he is gone now. And if either of those reasons are true then you should move one without him.

[Femur]

Well said, babyshooter11. Its time to get over him, and move onto new people. If he broke up with you, he's not worth your time or thoughts anymore.