[MissChocolate]

My husband and I have been together for 10 years and we have 2 children together. It seems like lately when we are just relaxing at home together we have nothing to talk about. He gets really offended by this and thinks it mean I don't love him anymore but i do still love him with all my heart. What are some things I could start up a conversation about? :confused:

[Marriedguy]

What do u mean he gets offended? Did he tell you this? Offended that you don't go out together? That you don't have "us time?" Do you both work? Do you stay home and he works? Does he stay home and you work? You can easily bring up a conversation about headlines in the news that day or about any celebrity marriage and kids (such as that girl Brittany), like what you think should happen to her kids. Talk about each others day. Maybe something happened that was not pleasant in his or your day. Talk about new movies, goals you both want for your children, where you want to be in 8 years.

[mjl]

Plan a date with him to show him your affection. Go out to dinner, just the two of you so you can be alone to chat. Or even get a babysitter for the kids at cook a big meal at home for just the two of you. He'll see how much you care for him.