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    Mar 5, 2007, 03:20 AM
    Why doesn't he like me?
    Hi,
    Okay so I know this guy and we have been family friends for like quite a few years now and I see him occasionally when some of our family friends all meet up. He's always been sort of quiet and never really talked to me. I have liked him for quite a while now and last year he started sending me emails like flirting with me and stuff and I was really surprised. He complimented me and was being a bit 2 sexual for my liking and I guess he sort of got the idea that I'm frigid, I'm not , just not a slut . And ever since then things have been even more awkward and I feel like he avoids me all the time. I'm nice to him and I make conversation but he never seems to respond. He's friends with a lot of other girls and he gets along great with them. I don't see why he ignores me. He even said that we were two different types of people and he doesn't talk to me because he has nnothing to tal kabout with me. I was really upset about that because like no one wants to be called boring. He admitted to me that he's shy and he will try and talk more but I just don't think he will. He reli confuses me and I just don't no what to do anymore. I've liked him for so long and he's neva seemed to care . I know I did something wrong, its always my fault. I can't stop thinking about him its all I think about. What he thinks of me and what I can do to change its driving me crazy!
    Please help me :confused:

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    Mar 5, 2007, 03:23 AM
    Sounds to me like he is a waste of space and thinks that girls are just pieces of meat, use them then get rid of them, I believe that you don't need a materialistic guy like him, to be frank!
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    Mar 7, 2007, 02:46 AM
    Yeah I totally agree he's reli sexual and stuff and whenever I see him he never really talks to me. I asked him why on msn and he said that we r 2 different people and there's nothing to talk about with me. I was really upset by what he said, I mean I'm not that boring. I just don't see why he doesn't even like me as a friend. I haven't done anything to him, I'm nice and I make conversation he even sometimes calls me a good friend and says that I'm nice , I just don't get it! What is he thinking I'm so confused!
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    Mar 7, 2007, 02:59 AM
    He probably knows that you are not that kind of girl and won't get what he wants from you...

    Sod him!

    UGGGGG
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    Mar 7, 2007, 03:07 AM
    Y r guys all so shallow! They only care about one thing. I'm so tired of it, I want to meet someone nice for once grr
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    Mar 7, 2007, 03:25 AM
    Well from experience I can say that NOT all guys are like that.

    My husband is a very genuine sweet man, who respected me lots when we first started dating. But before I met him I knew lots of guys who would only be nice to try get sex out of me... I never gave them what they wanted...

    Just be patient, life is full of surprises and the least you search for a boyfriend the better, trust me ;)
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    Mar 12, 2007, 11:55 PM
    That's great for you. I'm happy you found someone but I just don't think I will ever find someone. I no that its not all about that but it doesn't make the fact that everyone is in love and I'm not any less painful. And he still doesn't really talk to me. He is just quiet around me, I have no idea why. I don't no what I've done wrong. I never get anything right
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    Mar 13, 2007, 12:03 AM
    If you want to find somebody that cares and that is right for you. The one thing that you need that you do not have right now is Patience. You do not have any. If your so set on being with somebody your always going to find that it is with somebody that messes with you and somebody that is not right for you. You need to relax, be patient and take sometime for yourself and be single for a while and just enjoy it. Then the real thing will come along.

    Joe
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    Mar 13, 2007, 12:09 AM
    Thanks for your suggestion. I realize I have no patience but seriously it gets annoying sometimes. Especially when everyone is going on about how great their boyfriend is, don't get me wrong I am happy for them they deserve it but I never have that. I still need someone to help me with this guy. He only ever talks on msn or myspace but whenever we are at family things he just ignores me and doesn't talk. I don't get it . What have I done wrong?
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    Mar 14, 2007, 01:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smcthatgirl2
    thats great for you. im happy you found someone but i just dont think i will ever find someone. i no that its not all about that but it doesnt make the fact that everyone is in love and im not any less painful. and he still doesnt really talk to me. he is just quiet around me, i have no idea why. i dont no what ive done wrong. i never get anything right
    One of my favorite saying is :- if you don't look for love it will appear right in front you! ;)

    So don't hold on your time wondering what you did wrong? And why is he quiet around you?
    STOP all this thinking
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:08 AM
    I try but please can someone just give me a suggestion of why he does this please! Then I can move on. Its all I think about
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:11 AM
    I said why in my first reply...
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:29 AM
    But is that the only reason?? I don't want to believe he is that horrible or shallow. Wats so great about those other girls?
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:30 AM
    Its not want you want to believe, but it should be what there is to believe!

    So let me get this straight, after you showed him you don't want any kinky action yet, he suddenly turned the way he is?
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:33 AM
    Basically . He never really talked to me before but now its just like he doesn't at all . I can't see why he would be so shallow, that can't be the only thing he cares about! He cares about other girls
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    Mar 14, 2007, 03:37 AM
    Which other girls?

    How old is he?
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    Mar 23, 2007, 05:42 AM
    He says they are his 'friends' but yeah. This one girl especially likes him and I think he likes her too. He's 15. I just don't get why he won't talk to me. Sure I'm not a slut but seriously that cnat be all he cares about he shows glimmers of hope , no ones that shallow! iit has to be something to do with me. Maybe he just doesn't like me.. but he says that's not it. So confusing
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    Mar 23, 2007, 06:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smcthatgirl2
    he says they are his 'friends' but yeh. this one girl especially likes him and i think he likes her too. hes 15. i just dont get why he wont talk to me. sure im not a slut but seriously that cnat be all he cares about he shows glimmers of hope , no ones that shallow! iit has to be something to do with me. maybe he just doesnt like me.. but he says thats not it. so confusing
    Don't be so naïve! Yes some people can be shallow.
    Why on earth would u put yourself down, and think it has do with you? :confused:
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    Mar 23, 2007, 07:07 PM
    Because it's just me he is weird around
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