[typ9]

It`s hard for me to move on when I can`t muster up enough courage to ask another girl.I don`t know how to talk to a girl more than less I can't even find a girl that will actually even talk to me. Like say even a hello.So I need a lot of help in the girl department. If there's a girl that reads this will you consider being a friend to me a noobe?

[A4Effort]

1.) Be confident but not cocky
2.) Find out similar interests and talk about them
3.) Do not look needy
4.) Read their body language
5.) Humor always works (not too much though)
6.) Be yourself

I could go on but I do not want to give away all my secrets. ;)

Oh and I almost forgot. Every partner is different. You must be able to read the person accordingly and use your own judgement to know what is the right/wrong thing to do/say.

[Clough]

Hi again, typ9!

How about responding to the others who've responded to you on the other threads that you've started?

Below, are the links to them.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/what-should-do-414090.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/have-adhd-ve-never-had-girl-friend-414093.html

Thanks!

[jaime90]

Find something you have in common. I'm shy to (even though I'm a girl, I think it's more difficult to talk to other girls than it is to talk to guys.) I will jump into an already existing conversation isntead of trying to muster up a new one- it's way easy to comment about a different conversation that is going on within a group, and laugh at jokes, etc. than it is to make up a conversation one-on-one and have to carry on a full half of the conversation. If you're splitting the conversation 5 ways, you don't feel the need to talk that much- but you still get your point across- "I know how to talk and socialize, I'm not an overly shy shut-in." kind of thing.

[superteen00]

DRINK... heavily.
Liquid courage my friend.

[overayear]

Just approach girls as you would anyone else. We are all humans so at the end of the day, pretty girls and girls in general have all the same issues that everyone else does. If you think about them as just being people as opposed to beautiful creatures then it should be a lot eaiser.

[burtyjim]

Just approach girls as you would anyone else. We are all humans so at the end of the day, pretty girls and girls in general have all the same issues that everyone else does. If you think about them as just being people as opposed to beautiful creatures then it should be a lot eaiser.

That's so true to many people look at girls the wrong way think as them the same as you and your find it becomes easy to talk to them

[artlady]

DRINK....heavily.
Liquid courage my friend.

That's really not a very good idea.
No one likes a drunk and it's a bad way to go for any number of reasons.
Drunks are sloppy and unpredictable and its just unattractive.
It is also not a solution.At some point we must face our fears or live life paralyzed by them.

[kctiger]

DRINK....heavily.
Liquid courage my friend.

Dumb. Because the first impression you want give a girl is that you must be drunk to approach them. Brilliant!! I know women love guys who are sloppy and smell like beer. :cool:

Here is a link to a thread I have, and I think it is tailor made to you. Let me know if you have specific questions as this is a topic that has been discussed heavily and seems to be a problem for a lot of us:

Click My Link