Can Anybody Help Me?

Dave_Hall_2005 · Aug 27, 2005, 07:44 AM

I really like this girl at school, we get on so well together but she has a boyfriend! Hes left school so we spend loads of time together at school, and she texts me out of school but I don't see her often. At school I don't know if she's flirting or she's just really friendly, she touches my arm and my leg sometimes when we are sitting together, and just the other day we were sitting alone in a room watching TV she was sitting to me left facing across me and she put her legs across mine. She hugs me a lot, and rests her head on my shoulder or cuddles into me saying she's tired! I always catch her glancing at me but don't know what to make of it all, can anybody tell me what they think and what I can do??

Wildcat21 · Aug 27, 2005, 11:07 AM

Ahhh Dude, you need to go for the kiss now!!

She is throwing her self at you. What the hell are you waiting for?? Ughhhhhhhhhhh.

STOP being a nice guy and go for it!! Ravish her!!

Go to this website and read EVERY article about dating: www.askmen.com

Learn why it's bad for business to be a nice guy.

Wildcat21 · Aug 27, 2005, 11:12 AM

Also go to www.lovetactics.com and learn about relationships.

This site might be too much for you, but learn about nice guys:

www.relationships.blog-city.com

For the love of god! Go for it! You don't want to be in the friend zone with this woman. Please!

fredg · Aug 28, 2005, 06:27 AM

Hi,
She is telling you that she likes you.
Ask her for a date, and I am pretty sure she will say "Yes".
Even if she has a boyfriend, she likes you; and doesn't mind showing it!
You don't have to hold back just because she has a boyfriend, you might be her next one!
Best of luck,
fredg

Wildcat21 · Aug 28, 2005, 12:13 PM

Fred is right. Her boyfriend may just be a real jerk.

Don't use the word 'date' - use hang-out woma nthese days do not like the word date.

fredg · Aug 29, 2005, 04:35 AM

Hi,
Being nice to a girl, respecting her, and respecting her as a person will never ever go "out of style".
Being nice is simply human, not being like a Donald Trump!
The word "date" is also not out of use, you can use any terms you like, but that word has, is, and will be, always in good taste.
If you "jump" on her, force a kiss, etc, etc, etc... you are acting like an overgrown teenager, who does not respect anyone, much less yourself.
Best of luck, and be nice,
fredg

[email protected] · Oct 10, 2005, 01:53 PM

DAM! So ovouse your ganan have fun with her mate if she's like that with you just as m8s WOW! Get in dere son ow by the way she loves you to bitz , tell her how you feel you got a 50 50 change you go out and make babies <<joke not funny OK.. or you won't be as close as friends or depending what she like really try it out

[email protected] · Oct 10, 2005, 01:54 PM

Hahahaha! Date hahaha!

jeffatl · Oct 13, 2005, 12:03 AM

One of the things I have learned over the years, is that if a girl touches you, she likes you.

fredg · Oct 13, 2005, 05:34 AM

Hi,
This original post was back in Aug, almost 1 1/2 months old now!
Anyone posting recently notice the date by the ID when it was originally posted??
fredg

cutie08 · Oct 22, 2005, 02:08 PM

Just take things slow she is deffenitly flirting with you. And might just have feelings for you as more than a friend. Tell her you like her and see how she reacts to it. Maybe she is having some probs with her boyfriend or is trying to decide if she likes you enough to go out with you instead.so next time she puts her head into you saying she's tired then play along put your arm around her make her feel spiceal girls like that