Search:

Wondergirl is right... you can't force someone to think or feel something that they otherwise aren't. You should start trying to be friends, the more you get to know him - the more you will either...

BAP21, what you need to do is chat with your grandparents - It is important that they know how you are feeling, and what it is you want - but I do get the impression that all is not as simple as you...

You are obviously scared and ashamed of your past behaviour, and you are trying to convince yourself that she is crazy, rather than own up to the mistake that you have made.

In chorus with...

I would suggest not playing games - be true to who you are, go on about your business, and if he calls then congrats for you... if he doesn't then fate would have it that it wasn't meant to be...

Nice work... beat me to it. We used to learn it by SOH CAH TOA too...

This feeling that you're feeling... I know it... it almost makes you wonder if the heart-fluttering goodness of a new relationship is worth it - if it ends with such devastating feelings of loss.
...

It has all been summed up already... he does not love you hun, I say that with 100% conviction. Now you need to stand up and love yourself. My mother always told me that you cannot love someone else...

I would certainly be taking her to a vet - if she still has more to come then the longer you leave it the worse it could be for her.

I can't see that firstly, your husband would provide the woman that he was cheating with, his wife's phone number, and secondly, that if they were in fact dating - she would tell you about it?
...

I don't think you are over reacting. It is common curteousy for him to let you know that he is late / not coming. He would do it for his mother I am sure, or his boss, or best mate - he certainly...

If both of your parents are seeing things in you that they think you could improve or change, maybe you need to ask yourself why? If it were one and not the other, then maybe you could say that it is...

I know... this is true, but wouldn't common sense tell you to just go and get a test?

What is the go with everyone writing on here telling us details of the sexual calendar and asking us if they are pregnant??

We are not pregnancy tests - we are just people sitting on the end of a...

Children learn by example... and children are far from stupid. They see your relationship with your husband and they use it later in life as an indicator as to what is 'normal'. You are teaching them...

I know what you mean about wanting just a little gesture to remind you that he is thinking of you. My boyfriend was the same at the start, I used to feel like I was invading his space or personal...

Um... yeah - That's EXACTLY what I am saying!

:: Tamaruke Australian Labradoodles ::

I don't want to tell him what to do, I just want it to happen... but I don't want to keep bringing it up with him - which is why I am thinking that I like your idea about the time-frame... but then I...

Thank you all... I'm still scared though.

And another thing... IF I do decide to ask, what will I do about the ring, if I ask, does that mean I should have a ring, or do I expect him to decide on...

I suppose this all just goes to prove that we all have different ideas about how / when / who... and in the end, it doesn't really matter because it is all about spending forever with that special...

I don't think that I want to just come to the realisation... it seems a bit... boring. I would more like sparks, champagne, stars and candles - it's one of the biggest things that can ever happen to...

I started this post thinking that I was going to ask him - now I am petrified! Lol...

I have asked... maybe not in a serious enough manner... but to tell the truth it scares me to death thinking about it now - what if he says no - what do I do then?

Lol... now I may be...

I have to agree.

When I was 17 I went out with a 26 year old man and it emotionally scarred me for life - and still does. At 26 / 29, these people are grown men who use their image as an adult to...

I think I may have gone overboard with the request for the ring, he thinks I want a really big rock and I think he thinks I wouldn't be happy with anything smaller... but in reality, I just want to...

Hmm...

I could be waiting forever!

We both know that we are going to get married... sometimes I say things like 'Will you marry me?' in a non-challeunt ( spelling... sorry? Lol) kind of way,...

Hi All,

I would just like some feedback on how you think it is perceived in society, a woman asking the man to marry her.

And for the men - how would you react if she asked you, instead of you...

Oh my, oh my, oh my... this is scary...

What happened to the age of innocence? I am 23, and I can remember being 11 not so long ago... I was playing with Barbie and watching Saturday morning...

'I can't find a nice guy'... Why would a married woman be looking for a 'nice guy'?

Shouldn't your husband be the nicest guy in the world to you? If not, then you aren't in the right relationship...

Oh OK... sorry. That would have explained it easily! Not so now though...

Didn't you post a message on here earlier on another thread about having 'relations' with many married women? I hope that I am wrong to suggest that this happened whilst you were married to this...

I personally would feel some loss of respect for my mother if she ever told me of her shameful past... and it would be because all my life she has been the one to mould my morals and beliefs on what...

You aren't rambling at all =)

I can see what you are saying about being able to speak freely and openly. Perhaps that is just the point - if conversation is so easy with your daughter, surely you...

I would have to agree with 'NowWhat' above... I really think that some things are left unsaid... you are going to demolish the image and esteem that she holds you in as her mother and her friend. I...

I think that to be confident around guys, you have to be confident with yourself... if you aren't happy with yourself then you will be self-conscious around them... so you need to be happy with you...

I can't be more specific without seeing a position description!

I run my own resume creation business - Application Creations (in Aust). If you want to email me something privately I will have a...

It depends on the type of job you are going for. Basically, employees would be asking questions that will give an indication as to whether you are trustworthy, punctual, ethical.

Eg: If they...

Deary me... kids having kids...

I assume that fience = Fiancé, rough = wrong...

I am the bearer of harsh advice I know, but instead of thinking about having a baby, you should be thinking...

The objectives of any position should be outlined in the position description, and this should be available for all applicants from the contact person.

I would suggest that some of the selection...

I suggest that you need to stand up for yourself in an assertive, yet non-confrontational manner. If you feel that your supervisors behaviour is unnecessary, and it is making your uncomfortable, you...

I was going to disagree, but didn't want to give you negative feed back, so I disagree, but not enough to press 'Disagree' and give you negative points... if that makes sense =)

Wedding gifts... what to get, how much to spend... what a nightmare!

I would suggest that for me personally, not having a close relationship with the couple, but still being invited to the...

Hello all,

I am having issues with my gums - more specifically the gums on the bottom of my mouth. When I brush, they bleed.

My routine - I brush twice daily with an electric tooth brush, I...

I know we seem to justify it by saying that 'every situation is different'

But...

If it was an acceptable behaviour - why would it be in the 10 commandments of things NOT to do... Though...

Barador,

Communication is the fundamental element of every relationship - without it, how are problems ever going to be solved? It is very important to make your girlfriend aware that her...

:eek: Hi Everyone,

Does anyone else get sick and tired of reading posts on here from women asking for advice on what to do because they are heartbroken and torn that they are dating married men?
...

AND - in addition JonLR92 - you are 15 years old! Do you really think you are qualified enough in life to give advice on this topic?

Tis tis tis... spying on your wife... you shouldn't feel the need to do that. If you do feel the need to do that, then like you have stated - you have insecurities that need to be addressed, BUT -...

JonLR92 - I bet your partner wears the pants in your relationship! LOL... Hahahaha!

Relationships are about mutual respect and understanding - they are NOT about forcing your beliefs or opinions...

You will probably find that he is trying to concerntrate on something else when you are on top because if he doesn't he will blow his top!