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I think you have both lost trust in each other and it looks like a relationship that would take a lot of work to make this work.

So the question I guess is can either of you trust each other and...

Hi I have been having a read of your post and agree with what has been said above.

I think communication is the key word in what's happening. It sounds like you both talked a lot and spent a lot...

I agree with the post above.

This is a co-worker and you don't need to be friends just be professional when dealing with them. If they makes small talk with you then its fine to make small talk...

I think you are doing the right thing by moving on and leaving her alone - the old saying is very true if you play with fire you will get burnt -

She put her cards on the table and was honest and...

They will get over it and what happened will be old news in no time at all.

You may find your just over thinking it and they won't even say anything about it at all !

Just act like you always...

Hi all penis come in different colours - sizes and shapes what you have is normal and as long as its all in working order you have got nothing to worry about.

I think us males care more about...

This person is off limits they are with someone else, what you need to do is get out and about and find a single someone special all to yourself.

Its hard and you may feel they are the one but...

The only way you will really find out is by facing up to what has happen and face them.

If I was you I would just act normal and not even bring it up unless they say something about it. If they...

Hi sonomana29 sometimes things take time to come around, you say that he has been honest and told you right now is not the right time for him to marry. It sounds from what your saying he had a big...

Hi sniperblade9 hope I can be of some help to you.

You want to slow down or cut down on masterbating, first off most guys if not all do it and its normal and nothing to worry about unless you feel...

I think the main issue is the way your boyfriend looking at porn has made you feel, this really is an issue that you need to sit down and have a proper open talk together about.

There is a massive...

Hi and welcome to the forum.

I have tried to make out most of your post to see if I can help you.

Reading between the lines I would say you are still in your early teens ? Please correct me if...

It could be something very normal down there with no reason to worry about it, but I would advise that to put your own mind at rest you go and visit your doctor and get it looked at.

Dcotors and...

Hi a little more detail needed please so people can try and help you out ?

Thanks

From your post it would appear that this relationship has all been online messenger / email etc ?

There are 2 options you can take.

1st option is to send a long dear John letter and let the...

Do you live with your father ?

It looks from reading your post that you carry a lot of baggage that has never been delt with or talked about. I understand from the cultural points you make that...

The good thing is that you can see it was a mistake and hope you won't be making the same one again.

You state you have no medical insurance is there a local charity or free medical centre that...

I would have to go for " Joy To The World " always makes me feel happy when I hear this one.

Also like a little known carol " Christmas isn't Christmas "

It sounds like it may be time that you dish out some tough love.

Like you said in your post he has manners, he just makes a choice not to use them.

He is 18 years of age a young man, stop...

No one here will give you tips on taking your own life.

It seems that you have a lot of issues that you need to work out and seek some proper help. Your first step is to seek medical help as you...

Communication - Communication - Communication

This is a big key to any relationship - you need to talk honest and let this person no the way you feel and what you really want.

If you have...

I agree you will have lots of ups and downs but after your done it will be the ride of your life and make you a much stronger person. We all learn by things that happen in life and that which does...

I think at present you are not been fair on yourself or the two guys - no one on this forum can give you a 100% answer because we do not know any of you in person -

You need to think very hard and...

Thank you roxypox... I double read the post and was sure I had read it correct.

I agree fully this was my view to.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again -

I agree fully with what talaniman has said in the posts to you.

Xm8 you will find a lot of support here on the forum :) keep up the none smoking and its good that your family are supporting you.

I might quit too! Snap I have been feeling the same way since the start of 2009 ;)

That's really good I think its good to have an open working relationship with your parents.

Hey another day smoke free :)

Zakka good for you keep those moral standards your friends advise is very bad.

You have done a really great thing to protect your health and well being.. As a male there is a lot of harm smoking can cause even weak erections so being smoke free is a must.

I myself have been...

You need to let the past stay in the past and not compare yourself to hers or yours. What you have is the building blocks of your own special relationship where you can create what you want.

I guess the answer would come down to local law as to where you live.

I do not believe it is illegal for you to be dating this guy, as the law stands in my own country - but it would be illegal if...

I do not want to sound harsh but it sounds like he is almost pimping you out wanting you do to things with other guys and tell him about it - This guy either see's this as a turn on our he is...

Poseidon934 which part is wrong from reading this below?

Sorry I miss read this part of your post -

You are not having no contact because this person can still get into your life via ims etc.

My advise stop the calls etc because this only opens wounds and delays the moving on - block ims - block...

I think in a nice warm way you should let this guy know the way you really feel - communication is going to be a big part if you really want things to move forwards.

Why not set up meeting this...

From the point that she started dating and seeing other people should have been a clear sign to you that she wants to have fun and not settle down. It sounds that this relationship moved very quick...

So this guy is saying that if you do not sleep with him then he is going to never touch you again and maybe start sleeping around... This would be a clear RED FLAG to walk away and leave his .
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I agree my advise was to do it then burn it straight away.

Communication - Communication - Communication

You need to have a long honest talk with your boyfriend about what has happened and the way you want things to be.

You need to be ready to give...

I read sometime ago on the net some place in regards to what you have said about writing the letter above.

The advise was something like sit down in a quite place and be very claim and then take...

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Hi I have enclosed a link to have a good read of, maybe this will answer some of your question.

Soulmate - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I do not want to give you a RED but NO - No and NO NO NO again :confused:

Please do not start him drinking.

Ans in your other post -

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/am-pregant-threw-up-3-times-308092.html

Welcome you only need to post your question once.

You only need to post your questions once -

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/am-pregant-threw-up-3-times-308090.html

Time for a test then if you have been having unprotected sex, and a visit to your doctors.

In the early days I always found it good to stay away and keep away from things that would remind me of my Ex.

Keeping busy with friends and family and work did it for me, and then one day I...