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Wow. "Just friends", no "messing around anymore", and won't say a word about "what happened" on a getaway weekend and while staying together in the same hotel room. There is no other explanation...

This story just can't be real. Come one.

Umm... how about taking a bus? You can't just "get" a car. If you're above age of 12, you must know there is no Santa Clause, so no one would just give you one.

This whole so called relationship is so dysfunctional and so unhealthy, why are you trying to rationalize it. There are better men out there. What are you getting out of it? All this drama for love...

Why does it matter if he forgives you or not. He has moved on and is happy with someone else. Forget about him... he is an ex, so who really cares. Live your live and make sure you are happy.

I am so happy for you, I remember how broken you were back then and in how much pain. Best of luck to you and thank you for the update!

This is just such a mess, I think you'd be better off going NC and leaving all of it alone. I don't know if she really felt taken for granted, or if she still has feelings for you, but that running...

Londonsss, saying "But I love him" is a very lame excuse of letting the guy to treat you like crap. Cut him lose and find someone who'd love you back.

How about getting you own boyfriend to have sex with? This guy tries to play two girls at the same time. You really think you can't do better?

I wouldn't call this trivial. I would be very, very pissed not to get a Christmas gift from someone you consider to be in close relationship with. It's not the gift itself, but the thought that...

Have to agree with others, it is a very odd thing. This guy is a master manipulator and he just enjoys playing with you heartstrings. Please rethink continuing on your relationship with him, he...

I suspect they think if woman is stupid enough to become some married guy's mistress, that he owes her no respect or consideration either.

Why would you agree to such a nonsense? What, you can't find a man who'd offer you more than NSA sex? Do you really think that low of yourself?

These are some questions that will hopefully start...

Unfortunately, it's not reversible. Once you've dealt your best card - sex - so easily, you are demoted to booty call and won't be promoted to a girlfriend.

Please value yourself more and first...

Call me when you get here? Mean she's been there.
She's cheating.

He fell in love with you best friend and married her a month later?
And you seriously considering calling him back?

No way.

Hi jan. I think women just tend to get so absorbed in their men's lives that they put aside their own. And when things fall apart, they you have nothing to come back to, all the while men are being...

Looks like you both can't handle conflicts very well. Putting down each others and your respective families solves nothing and only hurts feelings.

If you apologized sincerely and she won't accept...

"I ended up saying that he was acting selfish and that nobody with any self respect would ever put up with a situation like that and that it was offensive that he would even ask."

The problem I...

Sometime you have to hit rock bottom before you really really get it - it's over and time to move on.

So her changing her number maybe exactly what you needed to hear. Yes, it hurts and sucks in...

He may call you again as he is sensing you're moving on and getting off the hook, but honestly, why do you even care and wasting your time thinking about it?

Keep pressing forward. He left you,...

Listen, you have to wake up and do something with your life because ALL of your choices right now are bad. Your staying in terrible marriage, your continuing on with this affair - it's all bad and...

Wow. What can I say.

You really have a very low self-esteem. You have a job, both of those bums don't, and you're envious they've got to spend so much time together - this is all so twisted.

By...

Read your own post back. He broke up with you,nevertheless, being friendly. You talk. You try to convince him to reconcile - he runs.
You call.
You text.
He doesn't respond.
You call and text...

You won't be a jerk for saying no.
You'd be a doormat for saying yes.

I'll make it simple: if after 5 years you still don't know, she is NOT the one, or you won't be even contemplating letting her go.

There are maybe different reasons for it, all are very...

Yeah, I think Cat 1864 properly called this guy an "individual". Strip clubs, boxing matches and other activities that guys normally do with other guys, properly hint you that this guy do not see you...

You post was kind of hard to understand, but as a general rule it's not good talking to your exes unless you're completely over them and don't care what do they have to say either way.

So ask him...

You should be embarrassed being taken for a ride, if you let her. She seems to be pretty naïve, so watch out, she'll date around and will have her fun and in 6 months time she will be back begging to...

I am so happy for you. I love updates like that - people come here totally heartbroken and devastated, and slowly they are getting a grip and starting moving on - some are quicker, some are slower,...

I don't think you really owe her anything - you were not married, and she walked out of the relationship. You may want to seek legal advice on that though. You will have to pay her child support...

I start to think you may need more help than this board can offer.

There are pages and pages in your thread, people are telling you the same thing over and over. Yet you disregard all the advice...

Josh, you should stop blaming yourself. You are not responsible for her choices. A lot of people work day and night to provide for the family, and at age of 22 she was having a nice house and driving...

She is young and obviously is not ready to settle down and to be responsible for a family. Be glad you're not married to her. Let her find a job and date around a little, as she thinks beemers and...

Of course you can't help who you love, but this is just a lame excuse for not taking responsibility for your own poor choices.

The guy sounds like a real loser. Break it off with him. You can do...

Unfortunately, all those wonderful things he sees in you are not enough for a successful romantic relationship. He may convince you and himself that it's going to work, but the moment he'll meet...

Umm, yeah, he had sex with you, so I'm sure he was interested enough.
The bad part is this may be all he is interested in. After all he has a girlfriend, you know?

I can't believe women are still falling for this BS.

Let me guess: his relationship with his wife is non-existent. They haven't had sex for years. They sleep in different bedrooms. He stays...

The gall - to text and to ask for no strings attached sex! Maybe you could tell him what you told us - that you faked everything and he is not that great as he thinks.

Hang in there, you did the...

Be glad she doesn't know you called her stupid - and not sure why, a politician too.

She is acting in passive-aggressive manner as it is obvious she doesn't want to marry you - for whatever reason...

I truly hope you'll make it a last round with him. You gave yours all, and it didn't work out - fine. So what, it doesn't mean you don't work out. You have a lot to offer and you sound like a woman...

I really don't see what you were getting out of this so called relationship. You don't mention anything more then phone conversation and obsessive calling on your part when she repeatedly asked you...

Since your relationship was on and off all this time, it seems to me he just wanted an excuse to end it for good.

And you know what? Good riddance. On and off is a bad relationship anyway. At...

He's moved on. He may like an idea to see you again, but he really is not that interested.

Break-ups can be very empowering. It's your way to stand up for yourself, to say what you will or will not accept in relationship. Looks like yours was one of those - you've had enough and now glad...

Flirting or no flirting, he told you in no uncertain terms he didn't feel anything when he tried to kiss you. Please believe him and don't let him involve you in silly games.

No, please try to tough it out. Second guessing and doubts are totally normal, but read back your own posts. You were not happy in this relationship for long time.

It will take more then one week...

Write down everything you ever wanted to tell him. Don't censor yourself. Whatever you feel about your break up, and anything else you'd ever want to tell him straight to his face without fear of...

If I were her, I wouldn't be back. You're undecided on who you want to be with, and it's unfair to her and unhealthy for the kids. You had no right to yell and call them lazy either, you're not their...

You did the right thing. Let him figure it out on his own, without you in the picture. And be careful when he'll run back to you - because he will. They broke up for a reason - I bet this reason is...