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  1. What a mess. I feel for the mother of soon to be...

    What a mess. I feel for the mother of soon to be three children with this no-account juvenile man. Why do women get involved with men like this and then get all involved with the family drama, and...
  2. Question: Why this name?

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    Cerisa? It is a little fun I am having with...

    Cerisa? It is a little fun I am having with words. Ceresa is spanish for cherry. Lisa is my given name. Risa is spanish for laughter. I know, long time since I was... anyway, My husband and drove...
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    We have many wineries here in Heaven where I...

    We have many wineries here in Heaven where I live. It is mandatory to take out of town guests to a wine tasting. The winery gives you five tastes of whichever type you want, whites, reds, chapagnes...
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    Morning coffee brought to bed by my ever loving...

    Morning coffee brought to bed by my ever loving husband! THE BEST! The cafe's is fine though, I'm sure.
    Ahhhhh, feet up watching the sunset? -a mojito por favor. CHICK? Coronas with lime, sweetie, y...
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    You are so young, of course you don't even love...

    You are so young, of course you don't even love him. You don't even really know him. Best find a boy who is not into drinking and smoking anything, especially weed. He is going down a dark road,...
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    Michael, many of the people you see every day...

    Michael, many of the people you see every day have this same problem. Many of those people are television, and movie actors. It is true. ACTING upbeat, positive, brings a same response. You do not...
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    Jolie, why did you cry alone? You never have to...

    Jolie, why did you cry alone? You never have to cry alone. The tribute to your handsome brother and beautiful sister has been seen by hundreds here. I am sure they smiled in heaven.
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    Leon, maybe her leaving is the best thing that...

    Leon, maybe her leaving is the best thing that could happen for you. Really. You are pursuing a good education which translates to a good future. She is mature enough to understand this?" Love is...
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    She is divorced? You are sure you are done...

    She is divorced? You are sure you are done looking? How is your relationship with the two children? Go for it, congratulations!
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    Hang in there, it will get better. You have been...

    Hang in there, it will get better. You have been doing the right thing taking care of yourself, keep it up, it is good for you. Best of luck
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    It is hard. It is sad. It is hurtful. But he...

    It is hard. It is sad. It is hurtful. But he told you. He is with you. You can make your marriage better. Take some romantic time together, treat each other like the lovers you once were. It is a...
  12. Question: What has she done

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    Wish her and his concience were as well developed...

    Wish her and his concience were as well developed as yours. He will have to live with his actions, it probably will hurt his family.
    She may sail through unscarred. Life is not fair. Remember, and...
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    At 8 yrs. Old this may be a sign that something...

    At 8 yrs. Old this may be a sign that something is going wrong in his life. Talk to him about his worries . This may be emotional problems, or just school, friendship, ego problems.
    It could be...
  14. How are you getting along Dre? You have friends...

    How are you getting along Dre? You have friends here, and many strong shoulders to help you carry your burdens.
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    ( Opinions expressed here are responsibility of a...

    ( Opinions expressed here are responsibility of a sixty year old woman. I believe I have learned something by now, and hopefully, still learning).
    There are strong feelings riled by this...
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    I believe in : intuition, infatuation, lust,...

    I believe in : intuition, infatuation, lust, curiousity,respect, amazement, desire, intrigue, charisma, karma, compatibility,like, want, covetuousness, but I still do not believe anyone can truly...
  17. Question: Ex got married

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    You have been through the "wringer" Crushed. I...

    You have been through the "wringer" Crushed. I hope you have real happiness in your life soon.It has not been a long time yet. Trite but true, time heals all wounds. Whatever she...
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    Ow ow ow! I hurt just thinking about the kidney. ...

    Ow ow ow! I hurt just thinking about the kidney.

    Alrighty then, you are NOT in love. You are infatuated with words and perhaps a picture on your computer screen. I at age sixty have a way with...
  19. Classic psycho behavior, hope you found another...

    Classic psycho behavior, hope you found another job and stayed clear of this monster. Both men and women can behave this way, they should have warning labels on their foreheads.
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    Missing, better bashing him here than in person....

    Missing, better bashing him here than in person. I know what you have been through, I hope you find a better life soon. You deserve it.
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    I agree with some of the people here. My dad was...

    I agree with some of the people here. My dad was a cop, most of his friends were too. In all sorts of service, sheriffs, marshal, Hiway patrol,I grew up with these men at our house often. I have...
  22. Lying is the #1 dealbreaker, trust is essential...

    Lying is the #1 dealbreaker, trust is essential in a relationship.
    Playing with friends too much is another, if he doesn't spend his free time with you, who needs him? Within reason anyway, don't...
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    I knew a girl, in Longmont as a matter of fact....

    I knew a girl, in Longmont as a matter of fact. She couldn't keep her hands off any guy she decided she wanted. Married or not. Her life at that time was one continuous drama.
    She went through, and...
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    How much sleep is he getting? Ha ha ha He will...

    How much sleep is he getting? Ha ha ha
    He will resent the b___h sooner or later, just "sit by the river and bodies of your enemies will float by"-tolstoy
  25. Question: No Fashion sense

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    I am with you on that flowerchild. We lost our...

    I am with you on that flowerchild. We lost our home a few years ago in a California wildfire. Of course so many things were more valuable emotionally and financially. But darn it! I miss my clothes....
  26. Wow, I agree that he is psycho, scary even, that...

    Wow, I agree that he is psycho, scary even, that was my first impression.
    She is a little nuts herself donating her eggs. Altruism is beautiful when you are in a position to do so. Doesn't sound...
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    How much commitment do you see in that union? I...

    How much commitment do you see in that union? I don't see a lot. They aren't married, she already has three children. You could be ruining your life on a whim.
  28. Question: Valentine's day

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    A professional photograph of yourself in...

    A professional photograph of yourself in something pretty?
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    You have a few months to save little money. What...

    You have a few months to save little money. What is important to you about the day?
    The Pictures with a white dress and a suit? BORROW them. Or put in an ad in craigs list, or RENT them. The...
  30. Question: Am I intolerant?

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    All the questions are of course a control issue....

    All the questions are of course a control issue. You answer, and he will tell you what you did wrong. He won't change, you need some help here. Go to a therapist with or without him. Good Luck
  31. Question: Bratty girlfriend

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    Okay, you said 'common sense' where is the common...

    Okay, you said 'common sense' where is the common sense? She is way too self centered, find a less bratty girl, life is too short.
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    Your parents are right to want to keep you away...

    Your parents are right to want to keep you away from trouble. Not all family are people good to be in your life. Maybe that is the case here.
    It is sad for your Aunt and your Cousins. but if you...
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    You can work yourself into a real scare listening...

    You can work yourself into a real scare listening to others. Talk to only a few women who you know to be stable, common sense , experienced Moms. And your Doctor. Also, read as much as you can about...
  34. What a loser this guy is. Why would you (or any...

    What a loser this guy is. Why would you (or any woman) want to be with someone who uses the women in his life the way this man does. Even if he divorced, He is not worth it. He cannot be trusted. ...
  35. Question: He's a racist!

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    You will be dodging comments from him and his...

    You will be dodging comments from him and his friends your whole life. So will your children or their hispanic heiritage will be minimised or dismissed. If he feels he is better than you, dump him....
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    "Missing him", time to change your name on here!...

    "Missing him", time to change your name on here! I have followed your progress and am estatic for your vindication. I was hurt too, a long time ago, horrible circumstances. No, it does not go away....
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    If she needs help let her ask for it. Otherwise...

    If she needs help let her ask for it. Otherwise just be pleasant and a lttle distant. Your son is not helping by carrying tales either. Don't put him in the middle, he is in loooove, you will lose....
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    Ahh, yes I remember the pain... so, here goes,...

    Ahh, yes I remember the pain... so, here goes, heartbreak old school style
    Lost without your love- bread
    All out of love- Air supply
    Love hurts- Everly Brothers also Gram Parsons with Emmylou...
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    You need some professional help with your...

    You need some professional help with your obsessive worries. A good counselor would help you both to resolve your problems. Having a child on the way should make you both want to have a stable...
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    Okay, I understand he went out for drinks when...

    Okay, I understand he went out for drinks when you were dating for a year? And then you found out and cheated on him? Physically? And now after a period you got pregnant. Is the child his? If he has...
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    As for catholic wedding, yes non catholics are...

    As for catholic wedding, yes non catholics are married every day. One of the couple should be or have been catholic. Some parishes are more lenient about the ceremony.The premarital counseling is...
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    To make him happy, which will make him want to...

    To make him happy, which will make him want to make you happy, and therefore to have a happy home, you must truly accept who he is. He must do the same for you, if you are not free to be yourselves...
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    Why and how would it go further? It has been 8...

    Why and how would it go further? It has been 8 years! He is not happy with your talk about his family. He states he doesn't want to marry. And yes, some men do publicly profess their love.
  44. Question: How do I change?

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    Jbaby, he will resent you eventually. What if it...

    Jbaby, he will resent you eventually. What if it happens after you have started a family?
    Wouldn't it wreck children's lives too? Another generation messed up. Do get into therapy, find a good...
  45. Question: Is this wrong?

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    Not if you are of dating age, 15 and 14 are a...

    Not if you are of dating age, 15 and 14 are a little young for full on dating.
  46. No one ever knows what goes on in someone else's...

    No one ever knows what goes on in someone else's marriage. He may tell you some things, you may hear other things. Only he and she have the full story.
    They have a family together. He is still...
  47. Question: Marrie man

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    If you are married to him, handle it with love ...

    If you are married to him, handle it with love
    If YOU are not married to him, do not handle it
    Would you want your husband to be with someone else?
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    She apparently is going to need more than a...

    She apparently is going to need more than a sounding board. She is engaging in risky behavior that will if unchecked:
    A. give her an std
    B. get her a dui
    C. give her a series of meaningless...
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    She has had to deal with a lying untrustworthy...

    She has had to deal with a lying untrustworthy man. Maybe he will be 100% faithful to you. Ya think?
    Of course he isn't having sex with her. He says so, and just as she did, you believe.
    The...
  50. Question: What should I do?

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    Please,please move out on his terms, and after he...

    Please,please move out on his terms, and after he is an hour away from you make it YOUR terms. He is a manipulative selfish childish man. You can certainly have a better life with him out of the...
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