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    I have a few friends, they are on my side for...

    I have a few friends, they are on my side for sure and already said they were going to 'have a chat' with him. I just worry after it all said and done, he takes it out on me again
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    I'm scared he's emotionally and mentally beaten...

    I'm scared he's emotionally and mentally beaten me to this point.
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    We knew each for years. But its like slowly his...

    We knew each for years. But its like slowly his mask fell off, if that makes sense. He tells me I changed so much since we got together, and maybe I have. I was 25 when we got together and had been...
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    His employment issue was the result of a boss who...

    His employment issue was the result of a boss who had no clue how to run a business. Stress did play a big role there for awhile, but he has gotten another job since. We were engaged when he was...
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    Thank you all for your answers. I tried talking...

    Thank you all for your answers. I tried talking to him last night. He told me leaving wasn't an option and neither was divorce... A little background info as to what kind of person he is, he has been...
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    He's actually told me on numerous occasions, he'd...

    He's actually told me on numerous occasions, he'd rather have me as a roommate than not have me at all.
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    Thank you all for the responses, I'm sorry I was...

    Thank you all for the responses, I'm sorry I was unable to get back with you, my youngest was in the hospital most of the day. I really tried to be supportive and understanding of him throughout all...
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    I agree there. I think he thought that he comes...

    I agree there. I think he thought that he comes out of the closet so to speak, than it would give him a free pass because he isn't cheating on me with another woman. I'm so torn on what to do though....
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    I don't want to give up but I'm to the point I...

    I don't want to give up but I'm to the point I don't know what else to do.
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    I appreciate your answers. My main boundary or...

    I appreciate your answers. My main boundary or rule, so to speak, was that if it interfered in our marriage, I wouldn't be okay with his extra stuff. Maybe I messed up by being supportive of him...
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    Is it really as bad as I see it?

    Me and my husband have been going through our fair share of stress due to a previous job. On top of that, he came out to me as bisexual about 3 years ago, and I've tried to remain supportive. He...
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    We met with her this past Saturday... She...

    We met with her this past Saturday... She actually showed up and my husband and I almost died of shock. She apologized over and over again for not being there for the girls and admitted she should...
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    The almost 11yo has never met her or anything yet...

    The almost 11yo has never met her or anything yet has a very distorted idea of who and how she is. She has actually told me I'm the reason biological mother and their dad aren't together even though...
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    Spoke with bio-mother on Sunday October 30 for...

    Spoke with bio-mother on Sunday October 30 for approximately 45 minutes. First it was like talking to one of my kids which frustrated me, she played the victim card and I finally told she wasn't the...
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    I've told the girls that how involved she may (...

    I've told the girls that how involved she may ( or may not) be is going to be up to them unless she runs off completely. As far as anything she's going to have to do, first and foremost, she will...
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    That's what I've been thinking we'd do as far as...

    That's what I've been thinking we'd do as far as meeting. I guess I need to mentally prepare for what is and can happen. If she backs out last minute... Which she would do for visitations years ago....
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    Biological mother basically told us 4 years ago,...

    Biological mother basically told us 4 years ago, that she'd be there when they were ready. Before the adoption, we did EVERYTHING we could to have her involved with them. We finally threw our hands...
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    The biological mother hasn't been contacted as of...

    The biological mother hasn't been contacted as of yet because I want to make sure first and for most, the girls are prepared. We plan to contact her within the next month or so. As far as counseling,...
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    Daughters meeting birth mother

    Me and my husband have been married since 2011. I had 3 biological children and he had 2. My childrens' father is in their lives and we have your typical standard visitation schedule. My husbands ex...
  20. Question: Tax question

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    Husband didn't talk to him. Employer left a...

    Husband didn't talk to him. Employer left a voicemail in which he stated he has planned to pay him this week but since we got a lawyer, he's going to include us in his bankruptcy and that if we...
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    Employer finally called husband today. Said he's...

    Employer finally called husband today. Said he's including us in his bankruptcy since we got a lawyer and want to be "s"
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    Update! We calculated how much back pay,...

    Update! We calculated how much back pay, reimbursement, etc that is owed and it's $15,000. Taxes owed to the IRS would be approximately $12,500. We have a complaint packet from the labor board coming...
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    Labor board said they can help get back wages...

    Labor board said they can help get back wages paid but employer owes us from his fuel card declining so we had to use personal card for diesel, chains and binders, etc. Hense the reason we're at...
  24. Question: Tax question

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    Husband parked the rig after I showed him what...

    Husband parked the rig after I showed him what was said on here so that k you for your input. Also labor board was contacted and advised us to speak to an attorney. Which will be happening Monday...
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    No he has his cdl. Hazmat and everything. I see...

    No he has his cdl. Hazmat and everything. I see what you're saying. I just wanted all the information to be out there. That's all. I know sometimes people aren't very forthcoming on information on...
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    At this point my husband is the only employee...

    At this point my husband is the only employee still with the company because we're owed so much money. May not be the most logical reasoning I know. We've debated filing a civil suit over the money...
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    He is using a company truck. And yes we have...

    He is using a company truck. And yes we have copies of the w4. We allowed so much back pay due to the employer saying the usual "when money gets built back up, I'll pay you back".my husband went 6...
  28. Question: Tax question

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    Tax question

    If this has been asked, my apologies for asking again.

    My husband has been with a company for approximately a year. He found out today (Sept 8 2016) that his boss is shutting down the company, ...
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    The PO has allowed him around children and she...

    The PO has allowed him around children and she said that PO was working to expunge the registration part of his parole. He's classified low risk as well. PO has actually stated he should've never...
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    Sex offender question

    I have a friend who's needing some help. She's dating a guy who was in prison for Rape. He was 18, Gf and her family at the time claimed she was 17. They dates a year and he even lived with them for...
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    Perhaps you didn't read it correctly, the friend...

    Perhaps you didn't read it correctly, the friend knocked my husband down then threw hot coffee in my face. Why does my husband need anger management because of that?
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    physical altercation

    Husband and family friend got into a physical altercation today. Family friend knocks husband down then throws HOT coffee in husband's wife's face. Family friend Fills out police statement, but...
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    Again, he's the one threatening to hold me in...

    Again, he's the one threatening to hold me in contempt. And while yes it would be nice to put everything aside, my son is autistic. Even the slightest difference in his schedule is difficult for him....
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    Threatening to hold in contempt

    I've posted before about the same child (my 8yo autistic son) and his father, but I can't find the posts...
    Anyhow, me and his father agreed back in December that maintaining child's schedule made...
  35. Question: Proper ettiguette?

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    Thank You all! We agreed that our 8yo son would...

    Thank You all! We agreed that our 8yo son would walk me down the aisle andour Daughters will be my "maids" since they are at the age any wedding type setup has bridesmaids. While not proper, we...
  36. Question: Proper ettiguette?

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    Proper ettiguette?

    I haven't seen a thread for this question, so if there is one, I apologize.

    Me and my husband were married Nov. 2011 in our county courthouse, married by justice of the peace, only two witnesses....
  37. Question: Difficult child

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    Bio mother did the "affairing" and basically told...

    Bio mother did the "affairing" and basically told my husband she couldn't do this parenting thing anymore. She also has a son who's 14 who she gave up also . She looked up to her bio maternal...
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    Difficult child

    I've adopted my 2 "step" daughters when they were 6 and 9. I've been with their father since they were 4 and 7. their biological mother ran out when they were 6m and 3y. Everything has been fine,...
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    Thank you all for your advice. Its very difficult...

    Thank you all for your advice. Its very difficult being in this situation. Me and my husband have him a majority of the time and my Husband wants so much to have arelationship with my son which for...
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    Right now we have Joint custody. He has Every...

    Right now we have Joint custody. He has Every Other Weekend Visitation and 2 weeks on and off During Summer. I'm looking to Get Supervised with his lack of regard towards his medical care and if he...
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    My son has no filter so to speak so he tls us...

    My son has no filter so to speak so he tls us Everything... we had put in the order in 2011 that his father couldn't say stuff about my Husband in front of my son... so when when my son comes home...
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    father abuses autistic son

    I have an 8yr old autistic son. In 2011, his bio father tried taking me back to court to prove me an unfit Mother. He failed. Since then he has continually brainwashed my son by telling him that my...
  43. Question: 10yo stomach pain.

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    Yea We've Discussed That Too. ITs Also Difficult...

    Yea We've Discussed That Too. ITs Also Difficult Because Im Not Her Biological Mother So My Personal Experience Can Only Go So Far With Her... And TryingTo Contact Her Biological Mother To Discuss...
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    Yes We've Discussed It Along W Her Pediatrician. ...

    Yes We've Discussed It Along W Her Pediatrician. She Has A Very Low Pain Threshold Also Which Doesn't Help.
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    10yo stomach pain.

    10 Yo Daughter Complains Of Stomach Pain About The Same Time Every Month. Appendix Already Been Removed. Talked To Pediatrician And They Said Most Likely She's Beginning Puberty. Any Thoughts? Slight...
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    Subpeona

    Subpeona
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    Well the counseling company has informed the GAL...

    Well the counseling company has informed the GAL that some paperwork can not be given out. I don't know exact reasons. He still threatens though. Now he's saying hell have us all thrown in jail.
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    Ok... Went back to court 12/27/12. Judge ordered...

    Ok... Went back to court 12/27/12. Judge ordered for us to return 5/23/13. We got a summons to return 1/16/13 from the guardian ad litem that if me , my husband , and our counseling company don't ...
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    We haven't found an attorney that will go into a...

    We haven't found an attorney that will go into a tribal court... especially the tribal court were going through.
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    Ok for starters... My ex mother in law , my step...

    Ok for starters... My ex mother in law , my step daughters grandmother and biological mother, and good friend WORK together which causes more issues than nesacery, but anyway my ex mother and law had...
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