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Yes, the test we have is a court approved test through DDC. The paternity was 99.999999998%. I am not sure what the other number was, but it was pretty high too.

I think I am going to seek yet...

Ok, I will do that. I already have a dna test proving that the bio father is the father. However, I do not have a test stating that the legal father is not the bio father. Attorney told me both men...

Ok, thanks everyone.

I have no idea where this attorney is getting this information. Since my son is still young I think that the bio father should be the one held responsible especially for the...

Would it make a difference that I am the one challenging it? Legal father is still in child's life bio father wants nothing to do with child. I have asked bio father to file a paternity action and he...

He is the 3rd attorney I went to. The first one acted like everything would be a piece of cake, but it seemed to me she was not experienced at all with cases like mine. The second one told me no she...

I am in Illinois. My son is 15 months. Attorney told me that there is not a time limit on it. He said that once someone signs AOP there is no chance or slim chance of changing it in IL.

The legal father of my son is not the biological father. I want to get this changed. I went to an attorney and he said there is a very slim chance the legal father will be off the hook. He said there...

I am interested in it. My son is not going to have someone's last name that has no interest or care for him... someone that says they do not have the time for him. No thank you!

If you would have...

Found the income guidelines and I make too much.

Thank you for the link. I actually searched the site and the counties it serves are nowhere near where I live. I will call and see if they can direct me in the right direction. Any idea what is...

Ok, that brings me to will I be forced to change my sons last name? Bio dad already says he could careless what my sons last name is.

We are in Il. The law here is 2 years old. My son is only 1. I want to get something going in the next few months.

What is legal aid society and how will it help me?

Thank you. I will do that tomorrow. I need to get going on my situation.

I don't have any papers. I have heard of this before that different states off it. I just don't know where to look.

How much does a consultation usually cost? I have went to an attorney once...

Anyone know of a legit attorney I can have a phone consultation with?

Thanks.

He has to be established as the legal father first. He is only the biological. Another man is on my son's because. A paternity test won't be enough, will it?

Thanks for all your replies. I am going to tell my boyfriend SOON! It's not if I am going to tell him, it is when! I know I have to do it soon under the age guidelines anyway and I can't live a lie...

Yes, somewhat.

So what do you suggest I do if I can't afford an attorney and he won't take me to court or file a paternity action?

Im stuck. I don't want to force my child on him. He wants no...

I know it is based on a formula. I was just going to ask him for that if we did something out of court, but based on our situation we need to go to court I just can't afford to initiate it.

I don't want to have my cake and eat it too. That's why I did the test. I wanted him to step up, straighten his life out and be a dad. He says he can't. So I think if he can't take responsibility in...

I think you are right. He wants to pay me $800/month which is really good and would help me immensely. I told him if and when we agree I only would ask $450 of him. If I felt like my son didn't need...

In my state it is 2 years old the bio father can no longer challenge. Does this go the same for the mother? What if, in 2 years I have the money and am ready to take him to court would it be...

No mother is going to be OK with the father taking their new baby on a long trip.

Do not take the baby without the mother's permission! DO NOT!

Thanks. He wanted me to get some form notarized saying he would pay me x dollars a month.

I have my B.S. in Community Health Administration and I found when searching for a job many require a RN license too.

I am no longer working in the health field, but if I was in school and had to...

My boyfriend does know about the one night stand. He knew the entire time. He just doesn't want to face the truth, but I need to. My boyfriend never wanted a test because he says he is his no matter...

What kind of documents can a notary be used for? Will it be held up in court?

Thank you.

I am so sorry you are going through this and respect you for trying to see what else is out there for your children. Have you considered temporary foster care? You need to contact your local dhs...

Please tell your boyfriend.

You do not want to end up in the mess that I am in. It will be much easier to tell now than later.

That is what I am worried about among many other things.

I...

The bio father won't file for paternity. He wants things to stay the way they are. I can't afford an attorney. I have asked him to petition the courts or get an attorney and he won't.

He demands...

My boyfriend and I broke up I had a one night stand with my ex. Called my boyfriend the next morning and told him about it.

Two months later I found out I was pregnant. We went to the dr. asked...