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Well, in my opinion I don't think it was a big deal and you overreacted a bit. Love you? Its not like she said "I love you" I consider "love ya" a friend thing anyway, and as she said... he's a close...

The whole "Are you ready to have a kid?" argument I've never exactly agreed with. Lets me restate, I agree with it if we were in a perfect world. However, most people are not going to pay attention...

Questions like these seem to form pretty often on here, like you are expecting us to have a magic answer of what to say to make this girl take you back. Facts are, you messed up and she doesn't want...

Recently, I have started college after a year off from school now if you have looked at my post about my break up it was a pretty struggling year off as I broke up with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 years....

Okay, I don't really feel like sugarcoating this for you. You sound extremely immature. Who cares if he slept with someone before you? Do you think when your 30, if your not married that your going...

Well, I agree that you should give up on the relationship problem. But, I wouldn't say that you shouldn't be friends with her. I mean... what did she do wrong? She was straight up with you, she...

If you do break up with your boyfriend for this guy, be straight with your boyfriend. Don't tell him some lie, when you know the truth to try to protect him. Yeah, he'll hate you for a while and...

Okay, now throughout this thread I've heard it all. I really have. But, words on a computer screen can't really fix anything. I'm sick of lying to myself and saying I'm okay. I'm better, but I'm not...

People have crushes on people when they are in a relationship. Its really not that uncommon and not as alarming as it would seem to you. She is with you, and its not like she said "I think I might...

Thinking things like that will only postpone her moving on process.

How old are you? I'm assuming on the younger side.

Haha, that was my reaction when I read this. However, if it is true... you can't let his threats to kill himself effect you. Chances are... he won't do it and it's a silly threat to convince you to...

I personally think that MOST women and men are terrible at breaking up with somebody. They either think its not a big deal and their will be no confrontation about it after the fact, or they try to...

So... As everybody who has seen this thread knows, my girlfriend and me broke up about 2 months ago. Honestly, it was heartbreaking for me but I got through it and although I can't say I'm completely...

I'm not going to get into the whole "are you too young to have sex" issue because that isn't your question.

But, as other people said... it may hurt and it may not. Who knows. I've personally only...

I was just like this when I was younger, and still like this to some degree but its gotten a lot better.

One of the best solutions I can offer is time, your still pretty immature being only 15 and...

You throw around the word love waaaaaay to casually. Do you really think this person loves you after not even starting a relationship with you? And if he is willing to break up with his girlfriend...

Okay, my personal advice to you would be... break up with her. Now, I know when you read that your going to be thinking "What! No way!" but hear me out.

Usually, when someone says I need "Space"...

Obviously we know your young, ecspecially since you aren't revealing your age because we might think your too young. Someone saying "I'm going to kill myself" over a relationship break up, is one of...

This made me chuckle a bit. You can't really know somebody is "the one" when your 16, or really ever for that matter. My previous relationship we were together for four years, we talked about...

How old are you?

Seriously. I don't understand how somebody could possibly help someone cheat on their girlfriend when they know that they are in a relationship. Do you not see how wrong that is? Think of how his...

Haha, I was in this exact situation only my girlfriend would do it to me so saying things like "boys are dumb" isn't right. However, it did bother me at first but as the relationship progress (we are...

Haha, I thought about giving advice similar to this in another thread but thought I would get a whole lot of flame for it. But, its true. She isn't going to come back. When you break up with someone...

Its going to hurt, but if you keep on talking about him with your best friend and letting this paranoid idea that "She's dating him! I know it!" fester in your mind, it is going to make it so much...

This has really become more of a debate whether teens should have sex or not, and that's not what this thread is about. So, lets get back on topic or better yet... If Jessica doesn't respond and give...

Your very defensive against my Opinion. As I said, I can see your point of view its just not something that I personally agree with. I'm 18, I'm only two years older than her so I know what she is...

Well, its obvious that YOU are not going to see anybodys point of view but your own. I guess everybody has a different outlook on sex, some people AKA me think that its fine as long as you are in a...

Okay, lets face it though. Sex is something all teenagers think about, and most teenagers do have sex with no intention of having a child. I've engaged in sex numerous times (I'm 19 by the way) and...

This is actually the reason why I didn't have sex for awhile, I was paranoid about the condom breaking. After the first time and every thing goes fine, you'll feel a lot better.

If you truly don't...

Update: So we talked once again about two weeks ago. And the only notable thing she said was "I'm happier this way." this was really the break through point for me. It made me realize that their...

I really dislike when woman say "I'm being the man in a relationship" because the guy is caring too much. It seems a lot of women have this stereotype of men in relationships. Caring a lot about...

She is confused if being with you outweighs her experiencing new and exciting things in her life. Just keep in mind that there is a good chance that you guys could break up, so be prepared for it.
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Use a condom and if you want to be extra careful go on birth control. You might have to wait a little longer, but better to be covered on both ends.

I will try. But, as you guys have seen... I tend to be on the ups and downs lately. Today is the first day in 5 days that I haven't been so bad.

Did you break up with him? How soon did he move onto this new girlfriend?

Little update for everybody. I don't think I am going to talk to her in a week like I planned. Its become more and more obvious that if she wanted to be with me, she would be with me. Going to talk...

I keep a journal to write about it excluding writing about it on here. It went from me writing in it every day, to every three days, and now once a week if that. I also try to talk to some close...

I am trying so hard to let go of her, for some reason... the past 4 days have been really hard. I don't know what it is, I try to stay off her Facebook because I know I'm just going to get hurt from...

Wow. I am losing it. I have been feeling a little better lately but I keep getting what I can only describe as flashes, which instantly remind of our relationship and something I really miss about...

So, I have a new problem that has arose... A buddy of mine that goes to college with my ex called me up today, they are friends and he asked her to dinner at the cafeteria to see if he could figure...

No, I just meant that I didn't really feel like doing anything when she broke up with me. I've slowly been beginning to return to my normal routine. I may not be online for a few days and such, while...

Yeah, she comes home for vacation on the 21st. I want to do this in person... not over the phone. So, yes... Sometime at the end of March, I'll tell what happened. Maybe not right away, depending on...

Honestly, I'm not ready to give up yet. We haven't talked since the break up. I'm not ready to accept this. I know, this isn't the best way to go about things... but after a month passes, I want to...

So, it didn't work out. A week ago, she came to my house and told me that this wasn't working for her anymore and that she wanted to break up. She was very firm in her decision, and said "I would...

You really need to sit him down and have a talk with him. This relationship is just going to make you sick if you keep it up. I can't imagine anybody would want to be in a relationship like that.
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She apologized this morning about the whole thing, and explained that she didn't know why she got all worked up over the situation. I was pretty calm when I talked to her, and I was probably over...

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So, Me and my girlfriend both have the ability to log onto eachothers Facebook accounts. We have always allowed this to happen, because we trust each other and want to be...

You don't stay with someone for 7 years that you aren't in love with on some level. I think your judgement might be a little clouded due to this new guy entering your life. Its making you doubt your...

Well, tonight actually.. Her room mate had started dating a new boyfriend and she was quite annoyed with it telling me "I LIKED HIM FIRST" I told her that it wasn't cool that she said that, and she...