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    Oh dear, my heart goes out to you. Been there,...

    Oh dear, my heart goes out to you. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.
    If he's so confused, why is he in someone else's bed? Is this something you can forgive and live with?

    No matter how...
  2. Question: The Awakening

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    Hi bluerose, I loved your post. One part of it...

    Hi bluerose, I loved your post. One part of it jumped out at me.

    'You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the...
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    You have been an inspriation Geoff, it's great to...

    You have been an inspriation Geoff, it's great to see how far you've come and how much you have helped others heal, a sign of a wonderful person. X
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    I've been there too and it's not going to get any...

    I've been there too and it's not going to get any better. While you are allowing him sexual favours when you're not in a relationship it's lowering yourself esteem, you will start to sink and it...
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    I think you've hit the nail on the head, his work...

    I think you've hit the nail on the head, his work is his life and I think I would have been a nice accessory for him. I guess I should feel sorry for him, but I just can't be bothered. It's a great...
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    Can you see what calling him did to you? It's...

    Can you see what calling him did to you? It's set you back months and in doing that it's made you hurt and sad all over again. If he was really missing you he'd have called before now. I dare say...
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    I think she owes you an apology, wait a while...

    I think she owes you an apology, wait a while longer and see if it's forthcoming.
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    Hi Geoff, best of it was he had the audacity to...

    Hi Geoff, best of it was he had the audacity to say he'd made the right decision in dumping me when he was 18! 'for me too' I answered, after which the tw*t ran out of ideas.
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    I never thought I'd say thanks to an ex for...

    I never thought I'd say thanks to an ex for dumping me, lets hope I feel the same way about my ex-husband, but sooner than 25 years please!
  10. Question: Relationship

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    Here in the good old UK it's an unwritten rule...

    Here in the good old UK it's an unwritten rule that you NEVER date your friends blokes even when they are ex's, EVER.
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    Still hung-up on your ex?

    Hi all, I've not posted for a while but this site was a life-line to me last year when my ex-husband was messing me about. He's now married and I worried that he would change for his new wife and she...
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    Your mom should be locked up, disgraceful...

    Your mom should be locked up, disgraceful behaviour for a mother.
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    Hi didi, thanks for taking time to reply. I...

    Hi didi, thanks for taking time to reply.

    I guess there was more to it than my pregnancy. I fell pregnant within 12 months of meeting him, he claimed he never wanted children but he never...
  14. Question: I'm so lost

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    Hi angel, he certainly doesn't sound like a...

    Hi angel, he certainly doesn't sound like a gorgeous and great person. You want to be in a loving relationship with him, but it sounds as if he's made up his mind that it's not what he wants. It...
  15. Question: Hey all...

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    I was thinking the same thing, it's sure not the...

    I was thinking the same thing, it's sure not the same without WC and Val. :D
  16. Question: Something to share.

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    Imagine watching it at the cinema with a group of...

    Imagine watching it at the cinema with a group of your girlfriends, listening to Kate telling the whole world exactly how you're feeling yourself... I cried too!
  17. Question: Why is it.

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    It makes perfect sense.

    It makes perfect sense.
  18. Question: Why is it.

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    Hi southernbelle, I had the same dilema a few...

    Hi southernbelle, I had the same dilema a few weeks ago, but I'm so glad I didn't send any communication, I think it would have been detrimental to my healing.

    I know these hurdles hurt, my ex is...
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    I guess I just have a mixture of feelings,...

    I guess I just have a mixture of feelings, sadness mixed with anger. This time last year we were dating, then in the space of 8 short months he meets someone and gives her everything that I ever...
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    Hi Geoff, I think cheating is either in a...

    Hi Geoff, I think cheating is either in a person's nature or it isn't. I don't think it's to do with age.

    Yes, I do think it's commonplace and it's not right. How sad is the world today?
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    Oh dear, another hurle to jump. Ex-hubby has...

    Oh dear, another hurle to jump. Ex-hubby has departed on a caribbean cruise today. When I arrived home from work my sister-in-law called me to tell me that he will be getting married on board ship....
  22. Question: Now what?

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    Look, what he's telling you and what is true are...

    Look, what he's telling you and what is true are two different things. You say he can turn around any situation - that's because he is a master manipulator. They have a unique ability to make you...
  23. I don't know of any cheating bums who have turned...

    I don't know of any cheating bums who have turned out to be good fathers. What sort of message is he passing onto his child when he treats the mother with such little respect?

    Having one good...
  24. Question: Dating ex husband?

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    I can't see what you like about him at all. Look...

    I can't see what you like about him at all. Look at the road ahead and don't be tempted to take the path already walked - the scenery there is never going to change.
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    Ah, I passed my mood onto the weather... the sun...

    Ah, I passed my mood onto the weather... the sun will be out again soon, I promise :)
  26. Question: Dating ex husband?

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    Hi hair, been there, done that, got the T-shirt! ...

    Hi hair, been there, done that, got the T-shirt! I hung on for 10 years when my ex was saying he diidn't want me to be with anyone else. Guess what, he was waiting until he was ready to move on,...
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    You are quite right Tal, the feeling has passed.

    You are quite right Tal, the feeling has passed.
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    It's my ex-hubby's birthday today. I've had 23...

    It's my ex-hubby's birthday today. I've had 23 years of sending cards, presents and planning romantic meals... and this year I've done nothing. It's another hurdle I've climbed, but it has left me...
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    Hi there, you sound like such a good person and...

    Hi there, you sound like such a good person and you are blaming something lacking in you that has made him do this terrible thing. Please try not to. You are still the same person you always was,...
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    Thank you sexy for your kind words. I'm...

    Thank you sexy for your kind words.

    I'm slowly being released from that bondage and am amazed at how differently I feel. The no contact rule has been my saviour, not as a punishment for him but...
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    Come on lads give us a break, it's not about...

    Come on lads give us a break, it's not about money, its about therapy :D

    An odd thing has just happened. We are experiencing heavy snow in our area and as my ex was late picking up my daughter...
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    Dearest ex Just a quick note of thanks for...

    Dearest ex

    Just a quick note of thanks for finally letting me off your hook. I realise now that I spent 20 years with a complete stranger, trying my hardest to scratch the surface of your complex...
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    Geoff is right (sorry Geoff, could not rep you!),...

    Geoff is right (sorry Geoff, could not rep you!), you are not even thinking of walking along that long road to recovery.

    What you need to do urgently is get those walking boots on and get going,...
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    Yes Mom, I bought a pair of shoes (one can never...

    Yes Mom, I bought a pair of shoes (one can never have too many shoes :D ) that I'll probably wear once because they're too high! Some fab jeans for my growing up fast daughter and last but not...
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    Oh yes Tal, shop till I drop is definitely on the...

    Oh yes Tal, shop till I drop is definitely on the cards! Not only that but lots of plans for home improvements which should keep me busy until the next millennium! Feeling better already!
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    How do you define soulmate?

    How do you define soulmate?
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    Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. ...

    Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. Here's hoping that better place is just around the corner. X
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    I'm with rol. Stick to your guns, he's hoping to...

    I'm with rol. Stick to your guns, he's hoping to keep you on the back-burner and he's just testing the water.
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    Hi Vickii, from personal experience I don't feel...

    Hi Vickii, from personal experience I don't feel you are making too much of it. My ex mother-in-law did a very similar thing to me. Hubby didn't stick up for me and it was all swept under the...
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    Just bumping this up friends, I'm having such a...

    Just bumping this up friends, I'm having such a tearful day for some reason.
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    I think you get to a point where you just...

    I think you get to a point where you just wouldn't contemplate going back with an ex-partner. You are still analysing 'what happens next' when you shouldn't really care.
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    Tal, yes I think he is jealous of the...

    Tal, yes I think he is jealous of the relationships I have with the special people in my life, I only wanted him to enjoy being one of them, he didn't want to be.

    Ordinary guy, does him living...
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    Tal, you made me laugh - yes I do resent him...

    Tal, you made me laugh - yes I do resent him farting:D
    Momincali - I do feel rich indeed, thanks for making me see what rich really means. X
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    Hi all, just a quick question really, you've seen...

    Hi all, just a quick question really, you've seen me through so many emotions can I ask just a little more help?

    Is it normal to still feel a little resentment when I get to hear of some of the...
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    Yes southernbelle, you're not alone!

    Yes southernbelle, you're not alone!
  46. Question: Relationship doubts

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    Hi, Chuff may have a point about how long you've...

    Hi, Chuff may have a point about how long you've been feeling this way. Pregnancy makes us ladies slightly more emotional than normal (LOL!). I felt much the same when I was expecting my first...
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    Hi Geoff, yes I think it must have been very hard...

    Hi Geoff, yes I think it must have been very hard for him. I was very close to my father but he died at a very young age. I remember him supporting me through all my achievements and sorrows and I...
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    Thanks Wap, I think I have too - all thanks to...

    Thanks Wap, I think I have too - all thanks to you and the great people on AMHD. You're doing great too, keep strong. X
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    Hello, thanks for your comments. Pegsue, yes time...

    Hello, thanks for your comments. Pegsue, yes time to move on. So what if he's upped the payments? I'll take the money and run, as you say for me to keeping thinking about it is for him to still have...
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    Hi all, happy 2007! Hope Christmas and new year...

    Hi all, happy 2007! Hope Christmas and new year was as lovely as possible for all of you.

    I had a better time than I expected but there have been a few developments.

    My son, who as you know...
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