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Cindy,
Thanks for the advice. About my parents, I look as it as they didn't succeed in getting visitation cause they didn't get what they wanted... They wanted one weekend a month. They got...

Hello,
I've been on here before and have crazy drama from the past. So I'll try to explain what is going on. In any case our court hearing is over. My ex did not get any more then every other...

I got a question. I am in the process of filling bankrupsy. I have deptors calling and I give them info for my lawyer. I have not filed as I am trying to get my lawyer paid in full so that he...

Thanks,
I think I may try to talk to my mother in law. I just don't want to cause any more problems with my husband. My family has fought for grandparent visitation, and didn't succeed. And...

Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry your family wasn't there for you either. It's hard some times. And I to really want a nice family. Here is the only thing my husband said about talking to...

I have a weird story and just thought I'd write for some suggestions.
1. I have never been close to my parents, often they were not there for me as a child. As an adult I've sought councling and...

I wanted a girl as well, and I tried every trick in the book... From relying on the chinese gender calendar and only trying to conceive during the month that said "girl". I went as far as women...

Hahahahah!! I probably wouldn't have responded if I saw the other post... Guess school was out, or something!! =0)

I was married to this guy!!
OK, really... I was married to a guy that did the same thing. I chose to confront him. Unfortunately, you'll probalby get the answers I got.. "Oh, I am just busy...

Great advise from everyone!! I talked to her, and told her I could be here for her if she wants to get help. I told her I completely support her in that desition. But tell then I have a family...

That is great advise... I do care, it's just draining!! That is a good way to put it! It get's more draining when she doesn't realize we all have life issues and can't always drop everything...

Ok, I have this friend that I feel is going crazy!! She is a mess, and as much as I'd like to help her. She really isn't going to get help, intell she is ready to help herself. So please help...

emtfingers: I wish that was the truth about my state. They seem to think if there is a divorce or a death... The parents have NO say so weather the grandparents should have there own...

Thanks for the input! I know the company is paying me to do a job. That is why I don't want to make a big deal about it. I'm thinking that the type of person I am that I need to make a career...

Well, I'll try to make this short. I have worked for the same company for 5 + years. Honestly, I was over joyed when I got hired. I really thought the company would be great for me. And the...

Hey everyone!!
I have dialated 2 cm. They think I could be in the beginning stages of labor, but not far enough to admite me to the hospital. It could also be a touch of the flu? But I go...

Thanks everyone!! I'll definatlly let you all know what happens...
Thanks for the baby names too!!

I have two other boy's... So coming up with a third boy name for some reason has been hard. Thanks for the suggestions Allheart. =0) Daniel was a thought because it is my father in laws...

I hope they call back soon!
I am having a boy! We haven't come up with a name that has stuck yet. So I guess if I'm in labor I better get to thinking about names! =0)

They haven't checked to see if I've dialated. I found that a little weird.. but they did think I was going in to preturm labor around 28 weeks. They checked then, but not since?? And at that...

It started to be a few times this morning. Nothing consistent... Then for the last few hours it's about every 20 to 30 minutes apart. I'm starting to get real annoyed with how nausious I feel...

I am 37 weeks, due the 30th of April.

I'm sure the doc will advise to come in and check it out, once they call back. But I just thought I'd see what any one had to say? See if this happened to...

Hey,
Just a question out there for you mothers... I have had two other kids, but both labor was different. The first one, My water just broke and I was off to the hospital. I never had...

My baby "dropped" two weeks ago, and I'm due the 30th of this month... I'm in a lot of pain now and don't remember this with my other two. I've tried to find answers to when I would deliver now... ...

Sneaky would be good... I didn't think of that!

Also, the blood type is what threw me off.. I'm not good at that stuff. But I know that my Mom and Dad that are listed are both O type. One is...

I've heard they have to be listed to be intitled to rights. And if he wants rights he could get a paternity test to establish visitation and custody. But maybe I'm wrong... I'd check with your...

So is there any way to court order a paternity test as an adult? I know nether of them would be willing to do it on there own. Or tell me the real story. When stories came up when I was a teen,...

Hello,
I've gotten lots of good advise and suggestion from previous posts. So I thought I'd give this one a shot. This is a really crazy situation. As you all know who have read previous...

I guess I wonder how often they actually grant other parties to pay fee's for each other in a case like this? Seems silly to me! It's like a custody battle and then trying to fight for fee's... ...

I have a friend that had a daughter with a guy that isn't on the birth certificate. From her situation 15 years ago, I don't know if laws are the same now?? But in any case, they said that IF she...

I am in a court battle for a few different things, that I have posted about previously. We won't have the actual court case tell June. But the with the court case pertaining to my parents...

I actually am remarried and having another baby this month. I am faced with the same work issues. I have been approved to get 6 weeks maternity leave paid, and I will receive another 12 weeks...

This brings back so many memorys. I was 19 when I had my first. Same situation!! My parents begged that I have an abortion. I went with what my heart told me to do. Kept my child and moved in...

I think if this is honestly for the best interest of the children, then you are doing the right thing. I do agree with the previous post stating "I don't know how you could give up rights to your...

I'd like to say, I know where you are coming from! You don't want to feel annoyed and stressed every time you are in the situation. I would just put up boundry's. I agree with the other...

Scottgem:
We are still living in the property. So is it OK to have signs up with us living there? Or does that still create problems?
I have been getting some tips from my realitor, she...

Thank you both for you advice. I will definatlly look in to the laws on line. I did look up the sticky on this forum and unfortunately for my state, nothing would come up? I'll keep digging...

Hello,
I have a home that I recently put up for rent. I have never rented out property before. Does any one have any suggestion or advise in finding good renters? I posted it on a classified...

Fr_Chuck:
You sound like you went threw the same thing... And the cost of the court battles are just crazy! I know it's not good for kids to not know both there parents, but some times I wonder...

Dacahayes:
I would love to do 50/50 and we did set it up that way 6 years ago when we got divorced. But my ex didn't want to do that, it was too much work with them at that time. He actually has...

We did two family investigations with what they call a CFI or Councler. And both recommended every other weekend and every other holiday and 60 day's in the summer. My lawyer said that is pretty...

Mygrandee2:
If the mother doesn't want them, then wouldn't the state let family take them? What is the full situation... I don't know a lot about grandparent visitiation or custody,. but I've...

Has any one ever heard of writing in the custody that the children get to decide what parent they live with?? I was totally blown away at my ex's request to have this added to the custody. The...

Oldpoet,
I live in Colorado. And I think the reason for the investigation was because of a custody battle between my ex and I at the same time. The "counclor" knows the coucling part, but not the...

Thank you Old Poet...
Just wondering for my situation... Did you ever have a investigation done by a advicate or councler? We had a review done in our case and she is suggesting my parents...

This is so sad Old Poet. You know when I broke away from talking to my parents because of there acts. I never took my kids away from the rest of the family or people that they have grown to love. ...

Well, he is a interesting!! And you never know what he might pull... So I just wanted to make sure! There was one city we were looking at houses in, and it to is about 20 minutes away. And he...

I am currently divorced and wanting to move to another city with my children. There father has not been actively involved and lived 2 hours from us at this time. I am looking to move to another...

I feel for your situation! I am the parent fighting my parents to not have rights. And looking at your case, I'm truly sorry that you didn't get some kind of visitiation since you were such an...

Darntootin, to answer your reply. He is for sure they will reduce his child support. That is why he wants more time. They do reduce it a little in our state. But not by much... It's more based...