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Update: So he just did it to me AGAIN. Last night, he texted me saying that "I thought through, i want a break up." I didn't reply. I went to sleep. So suddenly I heard a phone call, picking up the...

I did not change my mind like him. I was opening my door for him all the time. But the last time he switched on and off, I was just too tired of it.

But you're right, I guess we're both immature...

But do you think that I should put up with his "on offf on off" stuff?? One day he said he loved me, several days later, he said "no, im not sure"! What else should I do aside from staying away from...

Hi,

Im so confused and don't know what to do now. My situation is:

I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year (we're both 27). But 4 months ago, he decided to study abroad. We planned on...

Thank you all for your opinions. I appreciate all so much and I also "know" that it is my bad and my problem. I wrote this to ask *how I can overcome /get rid of this issue".

I feel like I'm in a...

I have a wonderful boyfriend who cares and loves me so much.

But I have a serious problem. I think I'm a psycho or something. I can't accept his past, which has nothing to do with me.

OK...

I know what you mean, but as I told good news to all of my friends, they were just like "wow, cool, congrats, lets hang out!" and they sound glad but not LAUGHING like winning a lottery like that,...

So GOD!! I don't have any cancer and it was a mistake of a random nurse. I felt like the whole world is joking me. It felt like I made things more serious than it should have been. But anyway, I'm...

Why do you love her anyway?

Kc, I really appreciate what you said. THanks a lot, at least I know my decision was right.

s_c, I'm not any type of clubbing girl, because I only went to pub 2-3 times a year. And I also never...

So after many things I did to my boyfriend (exbf now) in the past. I think recently I showed mnay positive signs. And most of all, I recognized that I love him so much for who he is. I accept him...

I know, I felt so ashamed. So I went to my doctor yesterday for therapy. Hopefully things are going to be all right soon.

I actually asked for a break since I felt he deserved someone better. He...

Thank you all. I think I had enough of myself. I've been pushing wayyyyy too much.

Update:

So I met her (his ex) at a cinema, she said hi to him but not me while I was right there beside him...

I didn't ask him to delete this contact. I just said I felt jealous. He himself chose to do that. And your accusing me for being controlling?

What is that that's deeper than jealousy?

Thanks everyone. You really helped me.

So I've been thinking and decided to talk to him yesterday. Everything was good. We didn't need a break and he apologized. And I also talked about the "ex"....

So my boyfriend and I are doing good. We're happy together, but just yesterday was the 1st time I saw him got drunk, like really drunk. I felt so weird. Since I don't like drunken people so I asked...

Hi people,

So recently I just have a new boyfriend, the one I ever dreamed of. Hes great and I love him. But what's wrong with my parents. I don't get them. First when I didn't have a boyfriend...

If he avoids you, you should just avoid him.

Yeah, text sucks. Get to know her for real.

You mean ME ARRANGING THAT or my cousin?

Have you ever seen anyone for the 1st time and you know that you would definitely fall for him??

Well, my cousin talked about him so much before we met since she wanted to match us up. SHe gave...

Ok, so I've read further and found out that Humber offers scholarship, while Seneca has more paid work terms. This confuses me even more...

Hi, I'm about to apply for an accounting advanced diploma in Toronto, Canada but I'm so confused about which college I should choose between Humber and Seneca.

I'll give you a website in case you...

How about sending a card without the "i know i messed up ur life..." part? Whatever happened, happened. You don't need to say sorry/feel sorry anymore.
Just simply say "merry Xmas, all my best for...

Love is always real. It comes and goes. When it goes away, then its time to love yourself!

Man, so there are ONLY 4 DAYS LEFT before we're apart :(

I want to see him but I have many exams, and he's surrounded by tons of people...

I think you should accept what he said. Because people change over time. He is now is so different from him at 20. I think its just his stage of development. You guys both stole the time that was...

I think you guys (both you and him) were acting just like kids. But whatever happened, happened. I can pointed out several mistakes you made, but its no use. So right now, if he ignores you, you...

I think your boyfriend overreacted too. That was no big deal...

Just look at the whole picture: he made you feel like being ignored, and stuff, and he just based on a flirt to say he doesn't...

Hey, I like your story, I think you should just enjoy it right now, take it slow, it will last longer and deeper. And when the time is right, you two will both come together :)

OK, so my batman finally asked me "who do you like?" when we were going out. I said "i dont like anyone"!
-batman: yes, you do, you do like one guy in an art class (he attends art class with me)....

Man, I know what you mean, I'm in such a same situation, it sucks. But I just decide to lead a happy life no matter what

How old are you man?

Yeah, just ask her!

She played games since she wasn't sure if you like her or not, so just say what you have to say to her, see what happens.

I can predict a not-so-bright- future if you decided to pursue this girl because she doesn't seem to have high self-esteem, this may lead to dramas later! So what she said was also a red flag, don't...

Hey, first of all, if you decide to build your body up, it should be for your own strength and health, NOT JUST TO GET ATTENTION FROM GALS!!

The attractive guy is the one who has confidence in...

When someone ask you to be his/her bf/gf or you ask them

Just calm down, leave it alone, get something else to do, don't just concern too much about him or what you did.

Only low self-esteem gals fall for bad guys.

And you seem to have low one because inside of you, you don't think you deserve the nice guy, that's why the gentleman you mentioned above scares you...

Face!!

Dude, don't rush!! You better off feeling lucky enough to find out this before getting marrried because if you still love her, just give it years to observe if she's going to do it again, since the...

Maybe he got an accident or something...
Or maybe he just doesn't like you that much...

Hey, get rid of your fear, the guy is brand new, there's no clue of him hurting you so don't let that happen. Just enjoy dating.

Don't rush things, the slower it is, the more stable it may be in...

I personally don't like LDR because I was in it for 3 years and, honestly it was more like illusion, not real at all, you have to make effort to imagine and live like that person is right beside you,...

Sounds like you're asian, and still very young. Next time, hold your breathe when u see him. And does he like you back?

No, I mean, thank you all for your answers, they helped, I was just too confused about this guy that it came to hurt me sometimes, that's why out of nowhere I said "it doesnt matter" when it really...

Hey hey, you Don't NEED TO UNDERSTAND his action!! What you've done was completely normal, just a hi to a friend. ITs HIM who is not comfortable with HIMSELF, that's why he just walked away. So,...

Yeah, have some faith in yourself. The guy is an jackass, if he avoids you, you avoid him back. Fair enough. He's not even worth for you to have a glance. Smile and move on, you don't have to put up...

Step back, its HIM who has to decide!

Hey, this is so fun, don't cha think? He acted cool, you play it cool too! Don't rush, sooner or later, things will be obvious if its meant to be. So enjoy!