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    I hate the way my girlfriend dresses

    I hate the way my girlfriend dresses
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    Thanks for the great advice from both of you, I...

    Thanks for the great advice from both of you, I agree it would be wise to slow things down a bit. We are crazy about each other, but every week or two these issues keep coming to the surface. We are...
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    I Keep Making The Same Mistakes...

    Hey all, been a long time since I posted on this site. Almost 2 years ago now I posted about a breakup I was going through, and so many countless posters helped me get through it. I thought I...
  4. camrond I had the same situation as you about a...

    camrond I had the same situation as you about a year ago this time. Very loving, close relationship, worked at the same place, lived together, were at eachothers side day and night. Then, like you,...
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    If it doesn't work a first time, it's usually for...

    If it doesn't work a first time, it's usually for a reason. Whether the girl or the guy involved isn't feeling it, or whatever the case may be, a relationship fails when 1 of 2 people stops trying. ...
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    Sorry to hear about your loss bro. Like everyone...

    Sorry to hear about your loss bro. Like everyone else though I'm going to tell you NC was the way to go. I don't exactly know why, but most ex gf's around our age do the random text/fb msg/phone...
  7. Thank you... the future definitely looks bright

    Thank you... the future definitely looks bright
  8. Well amhd... its amazing what can change in 2...

    Well amhd... its amazing what can change in 2 weeks. Where to start...

    Her text messages never stopped, they just got more frequent. So, I asked her to stop. I was honest the whole way...
  9. I get what your saying tal... but even so what's...

    I get what your saying tal... but even so what's the point in trying my patience? For the duration of the 2 months after we had broken up where we still worked together, this girl truly, genuinely,...
  10. All right, well things were going really well......

    All right, well things were going really well... I recently got promoted (already-only been a month) at my work because I have been doing so well, and I had a great long weekend with my friends, and...
  11. nothing but time like the others said... its been...

    nothing but time like the others said... its been 5 months since I was dumped and I still think about it every day... I also get random texts from my ex trying to catch up or say hi but you did the...
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    Very inspirational post... another AMHD success...

    Very inspirational post... another AMHD success story I think.
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    Haha congrats man! Nothing like a little bit of...

    Haha congrats man! Nothing like a little bit of extra $$ and good news after a crappy period. Glad to hear things are looking up. Glad to hear you took the time to catch up with your uncle... its...
  14. May 9'th, 2011 haha your on! I hope your right...

    May 9'th, 2011 haha your on! I hope your right though :D
  15. Hey guys, Your support is very encouraging......

    Hey guys,
    Your support is very encouraging... thanks a lot guys feels good to know people out there think your at least a decent human being lol.

    You know what ash, I bet your right. There a tons...
  16. Well... been a weird 2 weeks. First one was...

    Well... been a weird 2 weeks. First one was horrible... I took it upon myself to break NC (this would have been around April 24th) and according to her she's "soooooo happyyyyy"... so cool I guess. ...
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    Hey man Glad you made your final peace... now...

    Hey man
    Glad you made your final peace... now say no more to her about anything to do with "you guys". Let her sleep in the bed she made so to speak.

    I took away the avatar pic on the off...
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    Hey man Talking about being bi? She must be...

    Hey man
    Talking about being bi? She must be confused... let her do her thing though... only one that can figure out her issues is her as much as it sucks.

    The service thing went all right man,...
  19. You can't help what he thinks of you, and at this...

    You can't help what he thinks of you, and at this stage in the game don't let it bother you. Its irrelevant. Like amicon said, if he wants to act like a 5 year old let him. I know it may hurt to...
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    And that's what its about man! Haha knew you had...

    And that's what its about man! Haha knew you had it in you... just keeping focusing on your future and the positives like showme suggests. He helped me a lot in my thread his advice is always sound....
  21. Hey man Sorry to hear about your break up... it...

    Hey man
    Sorry to hear about your break up... it truly does suck when things like this happen.

    The really crappy thing is... all you can do is back off and give her space. The whole friendship...
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    Don't wish you were an ahole... because chicks...

    Don't wish you were an ahole... because chicks don't stay with guys who are.

    Sounds like you know now that all it takes is time.

    Haha sounds like you had your own "swingers" moment with the...
  23. If your curious just Google it... I will say...

    If your curious just Google it...

    I will say though that while horoscopes are nice/interesting to read... I don't believe for one second that they should be used to plan out how one lives his/her...
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    Im in the same boat as you my man... 3 months...

    Im in the same boat as you my man... 3 months later I still ask myself those questions sometime. I was told the last 3 years were a waste of time, pointless, she didn't feel anything towards me (24...
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    Bragging and rambling is much better than venting...

    Bragging and rambling is much better than venting at this stage... and now you do have some stuff to brag about. Congratulations! See how good it feels when you just say "f it" and get on with your...
  26. Its hard man but you have to respect her wishes...

    Its hard man but you have to respect her wishes at this point.

    You seem to have handled it fairly well on your end of things, and you left the ball in her court with saying she can text you when...
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    Sounds to me like you handled it well. Drop the...

    Sounds to me like you handled it well. Drop the stuff off, be polite and brief is what I would say
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    Ahhh peekachu.. I am in the same boat as you...

    Ahhh peekachu..

    I am in the same boat as you right now. I have prolonged my misery by breaking no contact on many occasions. I haven't even updated my own thread because I'm just ashamed of my...
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    I'm not tal but I feel the need to comment...

    I'm not tal but I feel the need to comment anyway...

    You need to see through the fact that this change shouldn't be about her man! You need to change for yourself, and make your own life better...
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    While I don't agree with what you did, I can...

    While I don't agree with what you did, I can understand WHY you did it, and I can honestly say if pressed with the same situation it would have been at the very least tempting... but I wouldn't make...
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    Hey man, Well maybe you won't want to retry in...

    Hey man,
    Well maybe you won't want to retry in the future... think about that. You said it yourself she is heading in a different direction right now... sometimes people need to figure things out...
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    Haha atta boy man! Get that ryan reynolds...

    Haha atta boy man! Get that ryan reynolds going... I just started working out consistently and it feels great... did you create a program online or are you kind of winging it?
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    Hey man sorry haven't been around this...

    Hey man sorry haven't been around this weekend-work took over!

    That sounds like a great plan-now make sure you stick to it. The less you see of her and the less you know of her the easier it is...
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    Very good thread man thank you!

    Very good thread man thank you!
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    No matter how many times she contradicts her...

    No matter how many times she contradicts her actions, and no matter what second hand information she collects- you need to stop trying to figure it out. It's impossible dude. Never mind the fact...
  36. Yea I think in this situation looking back...

    Yea I think in this situation looking back (breaking NC) helped me out a lot. It put my mind at ease, and reassured me that this girls maturity level and what she wants out of life completely...
  37. Initiate and stick to it. If you don't want her...

    Initiate and stick to it. If you don't want her back than move on with your life and do what you want to do!
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    Swingers is a great movie... glad you liked it. ...

    Swingers is a great movie... glad you liked it. They don't sugar coat anything-and I like how it doesn't triviliaze the fact that "yea....us guys feel s**t sometimes too".

    No matter what they say...
  39. Haha thanks tal... I like to think I played it...

    Haha thanks tal... I like to think I played it cool lol. No emotions, no nothing. What do you mean another rap?

    Yea the guilt is subsiding rather quickly. I don't feel like I have to restart...
  40. OK, so I broke the NC... but before you all let...

    OK, so I broke the NC... but before you all let me feel the wrath so to speak hear me out-i am not a wreck and quite fine with what transpired... even though it's not even close to what I thought.
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  41. I agree that him still updating his dating...

    I agree that him still updating his dating profiles on those sites is kind of fishy... its like he's keeping his options open for some reason. I would confront as well.
  42. Very true... not recommended

    Very true... not recommended
  43. Your right, I don't know why I am sitting here...

    Your right, I don't know why I am sitting here waiting for them... I wouldn't have been if she hadn't sent me anything in the first place but ahh oh well that's just an excuse.

    I do have tests......
  44. Normal feelings 3 months after the fact though?...

    Normal feelings 3 months after the fact though? If I were to go back and time and ask myself on February 1st how I would feel halfway through april-this wouldn't have been the answer I hoped for.
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  45. Falling apart today... I don't work until 5 so...

    Falling apart today... I don't work until 5 so tonnes of free time sitting here by myself. I am realllllly struggling trying not to break NC today-im thinking I almost need to do it to get my...
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    I agree with everyone in this thread-heed their...

    I agree with everyone in this thread-heed their advice and stick to the NC for the month... and prepare for the worst. Just better your life the best you can in the meantime-and do it for yourself.
  47. Hey Florida by the way... mind giving some tips...

    Hey Florida by the way... mind giving some tips on quitting smoking? I really want to do it, but sometimes through out this whole thing I feel like smoking has kept me sane... how did you do it?...
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    Stick with NC... you have to KNOW its going to be...

    Stick with NC... you have to KNOW its going to be difficult at first and prepare for it. Honestly man, I know how you feel. You want to show her things can be different, that you can change, trust...
  49. I would turn off text messaging... its just how I...

    I would turn off text messaging... its just how I talk with most of my buddies too so it would be a hassle haha. If she sends more text in the future I will probably block her number. Haha I love...
  50. Truth be told her sending me messages has really...

    Truth be told her sending me messages has really screwed me up. Every time my phone goes off now I wonder if its her again. I'm not even thinking about breaking NC, I'm not sure what my problem is....
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