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    Just wondering, do you ever buy him dinner or...

    Just wondering, do you ever buy him dinner or drinks out, or do you expect him to pay?

    The difference between cheap and frugal is who it effects. Example, you mooch off a friend and live rent free...
  2. Wait a week or so and find a good concert that's...

    Wait a week or so and find a good concert that's coming to town. Text her this. "Hey sorry we didn't meet up last week, anyway, I'v got three tickets for Black Eyed Peas (whatever). do you and a...
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    Florida Condo Foreclosure sale

    In Florida, when you buy a condo or house at foreclosure sale that has an association, you also have to pay ALL outstanding condo fees (super lien), only the 1st mortgage holder qualifies for the...
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    Answer: The Association can foreclose on its...

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    The Association can foreclose on its lien for assessments despite the superior first mortgage. At the foreclosure sale, no one will likely bid on the property because of the existing...
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    This is Florida. The Condo Association foreclosed...

    This is Florida. The Condo Association foreclosed but didn't pay off the first mortgage.

    The 1st mortgage as Plaintiff then foreclosed and listed the Condo Association as one of the defendants.
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    Foreclosure Condo Association

    I recently bought another property at foreclosure auction. The property was first foreclosed on by the Condo association for a fees lien.

    I believe they then rented the property as they are...
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    I think she is testing you. She want's to really...

    I think she is testing you. She want's to really know your degree of interest before moving forward. She is going to accomplish this by having you chase her, however if you chase too much she will...
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    What were your parents like? I think that if you...

    What were your parents like? I think that if you really analyse your parents or your upbringing, you will find that somewhere you were forced to cater to this type of behavior. This became your safe...
  9. Nickewen, I think that it's time to construct...

    Nickewen,

    I think that it's time to construct proper sentence structure. Can you reread your post, then correct the grammar prior to posting? It would benefit everyone here.

    Thank you.
  10. I'm not sure how old you are, but she might be...

    I'm not sure how old you are, but she might be good for fun but not for the long term.

    She is cheating on her boyfriend with you. Relationships are based on trust, otherwise you go crazy because...
  11. No way you apologize or tell her you like her,...

    No way you apologize or tell her you like her, that's groveling. She wants a man.

    Just lay back and let her come to you if she likes you she will make it easy for you.

    Plus, what's the big...
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    It's my understanding that this is source income...

    It's my understanding that this is source income generated from the state of Florida. Since you are a resident of NJ, you pay state income taxes on this income to NJ only because Florida does not...
  13. I think I found the answer. Basically, a small...

    I think I found the answer. Basically, a small claims judgment is a lien against the person's properties. If the property forecloses, and sold by the court, and there is not enough funds from the...
  14. Good point about calling the court. Thanks

    Good point about calling the court.

    Thanks
  15. Small Claims Impact on Foreclosure

    When buying a piece of real estate at a courthouse sale, I realize that certain liens attached to the real estate have to be paid off, such as water bills, IRS, taxes, etc.

    However, I noticed on a...
  16. Just play it cool and let it blow over. You need...

    Just play it cool and let it blow over. You need to see if this pattern starts up again and see if something else is starting, or she simply got trapped in a situation with her friend where she...
  17. kamimac83 - No I have never been in that...

    kamimac83 - No I have never been in that situation. I use protection and think about the consequences of my actions on myself, my girlfriend and the unborn. However, I have dated women with kids and...
  18. Sounds like she's controlling, immature and...

    Sounds like she's controlling, immature and insecure.

    If you bail, don't break up with her yet, because she will make you pay for it by breaking up with you first. She will throw the other guy in...
  19. You are 26 bail!! Why deal with this when you can...

    You are 26 bail!! Why deal with this when you can be with someone without kids.

    Then it's our kids, not his kids, his inlaws, etc. Society is so screwed from stupid decisions.

    Make the right...
  20. If she really wants you she will start spending...

    If she really wants you she will start spending more time with you and you will know it. For now, you need to back off, stay friendly, maybe start dating others to get your mind off her. This may...
  21. I enjoy hanging out with you, but I don't want to...

    I enjoy hanging out with you, but I don't want to go down that road with you.
  22. Paying Rent to New Owner from Foreclosure

    Let's say you buy a foreclosure from the bank at the courthouse in Florida. The property has tenants.

    How do you collect the rent from them? Do you ask them for a copy of the lease, or does the...
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    He's into you. Just playing the chase me game. ...

    He's into you. Just playing the chase me game. Give it time and don't chase back, he will come to you if interested.
  24. He's just not that into you.

    He's just not that into you.
  25. I am going with what Devorameira is saying. My...

    I am going with what Devorameira is saying. My take is she has an on again off again boyfriend who is coming back on again.

    She figured you would run up and have a little tryst and be cool and...
  26. It's not what you think. Once they find out they...

    It's not what you think. Once they find out they cannot control you, they move on to the next person that they can.

    Controlling behavior comes from insecurities. Being in control makes them feel...
  27. Yeah right, is she still living in the house or...

    Yeah right, is she still living in the house or at her Mother's?
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    blue_st4r: Let's dig a little deeper to get to...

    blue_st4r:

    Let's dig a little deeper to get to the root first. What is her family background and relationships with her parents? Was any parent an alcoholic or was she abandoned due to divorce...
  29. 23 - Girls between 18 and 25 are the problem,...

    23 - Girls between 18 and 25 are the problem, they don't know what they want. At that age there are a few who have their act together but it is few and far between.

    What's the hurry to be in a...
  30. He old relationship in the original post? REBOUND...

    He old relationship in the original post? REBOUND

    Then why did you mention t
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    Here's your tip. Agree to take it slow. Treat...

    Here's your tip.

    Agree to take it slow. Treat her as a friend, get to know her and take it slow. Don't bug the hell out of her or she will run away. Be a little bit of a challenge.
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    You need to marry him now. Think about how...

    You need to marry him now.

    Think about how great your life will be. She will be in it for the rest of your life. Half his finances will go to her. You will have a kid always around that's not...
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    This is female talk so she could feel better...

    This is female talk so she could feel better about herself and look good in your SIL's eyes. It's all BS, she's done.

    You need to quit blaming yourself and help yourself. People your age and...
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    Sammy: I read your entire post and I have a...

    Sammy:

    I read your entire post and I have a few suggestions:

    1. Never listen to a woman's words only her actions. They all lie. Women will stay in relationships even when they are not happy...
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    Have you tried to kiss her? What are you waiting...

    Have you tried to kiss her? What are you waiting for. Make a move. If she rebuffs, tell her "look, I've seen the losers you hang out with. Its time to hang out with a real man". Then leave and...
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    Don't be surprised if her next move is to start...

    Don't be surprised if her next move is to start dating someone else immediately to throw it in your face. If she does, DO NOT run back, confess your love, etc.

    I realize this is a tough spot....
  37. Just chill out and be friends with her. Most...

    Just chill out and be friends with her. Most relationships fail. Date other people and see what comes up. If she ends up breaking up with the boyfriend, go for it. But depending on her personality...
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    What did he get arrested for?

    What did he get arrested for?
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    Why would you even want to marry him? Because of...

    Why would you even want to marry him? Because of your feelings?

    Why don't you think logically, find someone who has a good career, treats you right, will be a good father to any potential...
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    THIS GIRL IS A FLAKE. Are you sure that she is...

    THIS GIRL IS A FLAKE. Are you sure that she is not carrying the torch for someone else? Hot, cold, mixed signals confused, partially interested. Ask her what her last boyfriend was like, you need...
  41. Too much drama, this is going to go nowhere....

    Too much drama, this is going to go nowhere. Abandonment issues? Normally, when people always abandon you, you become real cautious as to what people you maintain close contacts with, not the other...
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    Srulik: Look, she is a college girlfriend. ...

    Srulik:

    Look, she is a college girlfriend. What you like now in a woman will change in a few years. Even though you are feeling the pain, it is best to stay away from here and look for another...
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    I would have to agree. When women set me up, the...

    I would have to agree. When women set me up, the last thing I want to do is insult the person that set me up, because then the setting up will stop.

    I don't care how busy someone is, if you like...
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    The next time she sends a text like "im starving"...

    The next time she sends a text like "im starving" reply with, "me too . . meet me at XXXX tonight at 6, my treat, but I can't stay long after we eat"

    That what we call a buying signal.
  45. Synnen: I am going to hold off on any further...

    Synnen:

    I am going to hold off on any further comments until the OP posts. Let's see how this one develops.
  46. There is a difference between saying hello to an...

    There is a difference between saying hello to an ex once a month and texting or calling them every day. She is out of line.



    I am going to disagree, A woman wants a man. One who is a challenge...
  47. Synnen: you said - WRONG! He is paying the price...

    Synnen: you said - WRONG! He is paying the price for lack of the kind of attention his wife wanted. It's not the EX that doesn't respect the marriage--it's all THREE of the people involved.

    That's...
  48. Mylife: I really feel for you. Most of the...

    Mylife:

    I really feel for you. Most of the advice you have been given here seems a little offbase. Your wife is is a selfish b*_tch. And you are paying the price for her having her cake and...
  49. Ash: 2 Part Answer: For those hurting from...

    Ash:

    2 Part Answer:

    For those hurting from a breakup: I think that it depends on your personality and how much you get involved. If you are crying every day and depressed after 3-5 months then...
  50. Sorry for the hurt. Best bet go NC. Find another...

    Sorry for the hurt. Best bet go NC. Find another girl and then in 2-3 years maybe you all can hang together as friends.

    BTW, your mom's sounds like a classy lady.
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