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    Jealousy is an ugly beast to bear. You will...

    Jealousy is an ugly beast to bear. You will often find yourself having irrational thoughts and mistrusting someone who has never given you a reason to be mistrustful.

    I believe that the...
  2. He apparently knows how you feel about porn and...

    He apparently knows how you feel about porn and strip clubs and while I don't agree with your interpretation that this is a horrible offense, he is clearly trying to stay out of hot water with you.
    ...
  3. Question: ?

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    Probably nothing as far as the age goes. The...

    Probably nothing as far as the age goes. The baby has the last name that she gives him/her.
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    I am not buying 20. This is too childish. If...

    I am not buying 20. This is too childish.
    If you want him to love you seriously stop randomly hooking up with him.
  5. So you believe that he isn't interested in sex?...

    So you believe that he isn't interested in sex? So in the future you see, what happens when you are 16 and he is 21? You expect this relationship to last and stay completely non-sexual? You are...
  6. Your wife maybe feeling 20 years of neglect. She...

    Your wife maybe feeling 20 years of neglect. She has finally accomplished something on her own and feeling a pull to be more independent. You did not state whether she has talked about these issues...
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    Unfortunately, we do not offer psychic responses....

    Unfortunately, we do not offer psychic responses.

    Can you explain your situation? And your question?
  8. As a previously teenaged mother, NO!! I know...

    As a previously teenaged mother, NO!!

    I know you expect your boyfriend to be around forever, but if he was staying around forever, don't you think he would make you his wife. He can't be...
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    I don't think you need either man in your life. ...

    I don't think you need either man in your life. You need more time to spend with yourself.

    Confusion simply means you aren't ready for any relationship. Sort out your feelings, if you are done...
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    Not only could he be arrested, it does even have...

    Not only could he be arrested, it does even have to be involving sex, any sexual activity including genital contact can be grounds to arrest him, depending on your state laws... but he could spend...
  11. Have you tried Facebook?

    Have you tried Facebook?
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    If you are contemplating a reconciliation, I...

    If you are contemplating a reconciliation, I would postpone the divorce. I believe that would be more difficult for the children to understand.

    Take your time, apparently things were bad enough...
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    A lot of things have changed in your lives and as...

    A lot of things have changed in your lives and as a first love you may always have those feelings.

    The fact is, you need to focus on you first. Getting away from you abuser and spending some time...
  14. You are unhappy, that is 'justification' for a...

    You are unhappy, that is 'justification' for a break up.

    Her life seems complicated and she seems focused on trying to survive and get through school. You should not be her top priority at this...
  15. Twelve years is a long time to spend with someone...

    Twelve years is a long time to spend with someone you do not love.

    I agree with the others, if he did not love his wife, then he would not be married.

    Yes, being involved in this situation is...
  16. Did you exchange contact information? Are the...

    Did you exchange contact information?
    Are the feelings mutual?
    What exactly is your question regarding this situation?
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    You are worried about him hurting, if you leave...

    You are worried about him hurting, if you leave him.

    Yet you have cheated on him twice and KNEW WHAT YOU WERE DOING.

    Stop playing games and move on and allow him to move on as well. This...
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    How old are you?

    How old are you?
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    Why not go to one of the many forum that are...

    Why not go to one of the many forum that are already established for family members of people with Asbergers?

    OASIS @ MAAP - Forums

    I just did a quick internet search but my page filled quickly...
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    You put up with a lot from what I can see. A...

    You put up with a lot from what I can see. A willing mistress... oh wait, he respects you enough not to ask for sex. He just courts you instead of taking care of his wife of three months at home. ...
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    J_9 gave you the best answer, you are going to...

    J_9 gave you the best answer, you are going to have to wait until your next period and take another HPT at that time, if you do not start as expected.

    There isn't any way to tell earlier, if you...
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    It may just be me, but you may want to refrain...

    It may just be me, but you may want to refrain from handing outing business cards until the organization is ligitimate.

    Also, this is a huge undertaking for someone of your means financially. I...
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    I find that you are still only reading what you...

    I find that you are still only reading what you want to from these posts.

    There is a consensus that your behavior is obsessive and self destructive. You are obsessed about 7 months of a...
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    Well I imagine you are steps away from this...

    Well I imagine you are steps away from this individual getting a restraining order as well.

    I think it is time to step out of the relationship picture all together and take sometime to get to know...
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    If I could go back I would have made better...

    If I could go back I would have made better choices, but when I was in high school, as a girl, I was lead to believe I was one of the last to lose her virginity at 16.

    Back then, it felt like a...
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    Are you on a birth control that may affect your...

    Are you on a birth control that may affect your cycle?
  27. Could you prove that your termination was because...

    Could you prove that your termination was because you were a member of a protected class, i.e. ethnic, age, disability?
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    This thread is over a year dormant. As far as...

    This thread is over a year dormant.

    As far as your situation, there are many days were earlier in the day I am in the mood, by the end of the night, sleep hits high on the priority list. Not...
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    My partner is in GA, his work keeps him from...

    My partner is in GA, his work keeps him from contacting as often as I would like also. For him it's not disinterest as a busy work schedule and it can be painful waiting or feeling like you are...
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    How old are you? How long have you been in a...

    How old are you? How long have you been in a relationship this way? Have you had other relationships? LDR are difficult enough and your relationship started that way, how did you meet?
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    Have you ever lived in the same city? Have you...

    Have you ever lived in the same city?
    Have you met in person?
  32. Whether she should attend is her choice,...

    Whether she should attend is her choice, depending on where she is in the healing process. She doesn't sound like she has healed or she would not be indecisive about going.

    As to whether he...
  33. No contact is for while relationship feelings are...

    No contact is for while relationship feelings are still involved, at some point, you can relate to an ex, when feelings of acceptance and relationship love are separate.

    There is a reason that...
  34. That is how I would have felt too... at 19. When...

    That is how I would have felt too... at 19. When you mature, you realize that relationships with your ex's are no longer about feelings outside of friendship, when you become happy with yourself.
    ...
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    My son is 13, he has a crush on a girl, even...

    My son is 13, he has a crush on a girl, even asked what she would say if she asked him out... when she responded that she didn't want to ruin their friendship, he instantly responded... that he...
  36. I am friends with most all of my ex's and...

    I am friends with most all of my ex's and wouldn't hesitate to invite any of them to my wedding, unless I felt it would make them uncomfortable.

    I don't see poor intentions in his invitation. His...
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    I would leave it alone, he knows that you like...

    I would leave it alone, he knows that you like him, let him make the next move. He may be shy also. Continue to grow your friendship.

    How old are you both?
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    It is irresponsible to not inform both parties of...

    It is irresponsible to not inform both parties of the situation. A child is a responsibility for 18 years and beyond. You made a mistake, don't compound the problem with dishonesty. Your child...
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    Emotional abuse is as extreme as physical abuse....

    Emotional abuse is as extreme as physical abuse. I am sure there are even times mentally when you have thought 'I wish he would just hit me' then treat you like garbage.

    Yes, as abused and without...
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    You do NOT deserve this behavior and until you...

    You do NOT deserve this behavior and until you believe that you are 'sick' and need medical assistance, i.e. counseling. I understand that mentally you can see that the behavior's are wrong, but...
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    Look into locating a battered woman's shelter in...

    Look into locating a battered woman's shelter in your area. Seek counseling. You have been reprogramed slowly to believe this behavior is acceptable, but it is not.

    The correct answer is not...
  42. I agree, I think the only beneficiary of this...

    I agree, I think the only beneficiary of this 'closure' will be her.
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    I have a best guy friend for nearly 20 years, we...

    I have a best guy friend for nearly 20 years, we do love each other and he tells me I am beautiful. We also don't date, don't see each other and have significant others that know and understand...
  44. I would back off, give her plenty of space. You...

    I would back off, give her plenty of space. You can see each other, but maintain a friendship and keep contact very minimal.

    You are falling into a 'rebound' trap and I believe your best option...
  45. I would like to refer you to my signature line...

    I would like to refer you to my signature line that reads "Sometimes it is best to leave things broken, then to hurt myself trying to put it back together". I think this rings very true in your...
  46. I would recommend making an appointment with a...

    I would recommend making an appointment with a physician.

    We will not be able to diagnose something like this online. They should really be looked at.
  47. How long was her last relationship? At this...

    How long was her last relationship?

    At this point in time, while she is probably interested in you, she probably needs more time to find herself again following her last relationship.

    Be...
  48. Where are you from? How was custody granted to...

    Where are you from? How was custody granted to your ex-step-father?
  49. Your son was two weeks old at the time of the...

    Your son was two weeks old at the time of the seizure, your husband didn't leave or tell you about his feelings until four months following that. You stated you were still unable to be intimate in...
  50. It will take both of you working on the...

    It will take both of you working on the relationship, to make the relationship successful. At this time, it sounds as though he isn't committed to working out the issues, as they are not issues that...
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