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    Thanks for your opinion Judy but you didn't have...

    Thanks for your opinion Judy but you didn't have to read or respond. My choice of avatar is a personal preference. I'm sorry it offends you.
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    So the consensus is... I am getting what I...

    So the consensus is... I am getting what I deserve. I mean I AM guilty. I was honest the minute I knew. The amount it has cost is unbelievable. Not the dollar amount. The loss of career license...
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    I'm surprised by the lack of forgiveness and...

    I'm surprised by the lack of forgiveness and understanding expressed by two long standing members of this site. Other than what the paper states you know nothing of the circumstances of the "crime"....
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    Positive for a change

    I thought I would post this because it's nice to find people who can see beyond the one choice made...

    An Ohio woman with a $3,000 legal debt from nearly 30 years ago has avoided prison, thanks...
  5. Completely agree that it should be hands off. ...

    Completely agree that it should be hands off. The thing is... when I grew up and the way I raised my kids... you NEVER hit an authority figure. That doesn't make my grabbing her right. Her...
  6. Step-daughter threatening entire relationship

    I am in a real quandry. Last Thursday my step-daughter (16 yr) and my oldest daughter (21 yr) got into an argument. I kept them separate and took no sides. Then my girlfriend got home and we were...
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    Just checking in with Lost... How are you today?...

    Just checking in with Lost... How are you today? Are things any better? Is there anything you would like to talk about? We all have opinions, experiences, thoughts, and ideas on your feelings but...
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    Thanks to everyone for their input. I know that...

    Thanks to everyone for their input. I know that these are difficult years and no one has all the answers concerning teens. Ultimately I have to decide if I can stick out a couple more years of teen...
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    Teens father has absolutely NO role. He split...

    Teens father has absolutely NO role. He split when girlfriend was pregnant. Girlfriend and her daughter had been living in a matriarchal home of great grandmother. They are very against our...
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    My in laws are from India. The first thing I...

    My in laws are from India. The first thing I would say is that India is a very large country. Much like here... we have different cuisine's from different parts of the country, etc. It really...
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    Hi. My name is Cathy. I have been where you are...

    Hi. My name is Cathy. I have been where you are many many times. I know how hard life can be... how hard it is to live within your own skin. The people who tell you how selfish suicide is don't...
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    Can't agree on parenting of step teen

    :(:(My girlfriend (lesbian relationship) and I have been together for approx 7 years. I have several children and she has one. Over time we have dealt with many ups and downs and gotten two through...
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    Thank all of you for responding... I checked all...

    Thank all of you for responding... I checked all day and no one responded at first. I thought maybe I shouldn't have asked for positive feedback. LOL Ultimately I was just scared from the moment...
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    Deal with runaway/defiant child

    :( I have debated where to post this question... normally I would opt for teen instead of children however most of "teen" looks to be from teens not about how to cope with them. My daughter and I...
  15. Obviously people here really want to help however...

    Obviously people here really want to help however it's hard to do with only bits and pieces of information. I would strongly suggest seeking legal advice. There are many attorney's who will give a...
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    Whatever you do... DON'T take out loans you...

    Whatever you do... DON'T take out loans you absolutely do not HAVE TO HAVE. I learned this the hard way... now have tons of student loans to pay back. It may be really hard but I would say stick it...
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    Though I'm not a gay male... I am a bi female......

    Though I'm not a gay male... I am a bi female... I did live in Louisville for about 8 yr. I think once you try the internet chat sites/personals... meet a few people (in public places)... you will...
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    The non custodial parent is kind of limited in...

    The non custodial parent is kind of limited in action available. He/she can petition the court to stop custodial parent from moving more than a certain distance away. This, of course, takes money...
  19. No, no, no! Your support is ordered based on the...

    No, no, no! Your support is ordered based on the two biological parents income and responsibilities to your daughter. Even if she lived with someone who won the lottery or came into a large...
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    I'm surprised at your ignorance. Any sexual...

    I'm surprised at your ignorance. Any sexual contact, however brief your relationship, can create a pregnancy. The only way to deal with this is to get the paternity test. Once you have proof,...
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    Try various forms of yogurt, cottage cheese, or...

    Try various forms of yogurt, cottage cheese, or regular cheese. You would be surprised how easy it is for a child her age to get enough servings per day. In terms of weaning her... you need to...
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    No one but her can say if she actually climaxed. ...

    No one but her can say if she actually climaxed. There are often small "hills" before the mountain. And getting wet is very normal. Even if she doesn't climax she will get very wet as she gets...
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    Try to flush dns. Go to start... then run......

    Try to flush dns. Go to start... then run... type in CMD for command. Then type in... ipconfig/flushdns... it should state this task was completed. Then try the website... if still having...
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    There are lots of tips and suggestions on how to...

    There are lots of tips and suggestions on how to increase your chances of pregnancy. The hard part is figuring out what might help. I would say there are some basic things that might make it...
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    Sounds like a mass check of probationer's in the...

    Sounds like a mass check of probationer's in the area. They have every right to search the house as your husband resides there... Requesting you to open the fridge was really just a matter of...
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    The statue of limitations varies by state. It...

    The statue of limitations varies by state. It also varies according to when you "remembered" said abuse. I suppose for people who do not remember the abuse from day one. There is definitely a...
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    Actually if you are on probation you can be...

    Actually if you are on probation you can be searched at any time. It's usually placed automatically as one of the stipulations of probation much like not owning a gun or not being able to drink...
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    Tia, I truly empathize with your situation. I...

    Tia,
    I truly empathize with your situation. I myself fought with my teens about a MySpace account for a long time. The problem is... unless you have some monitoring program on your computer......
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    Itunes error message

    I have an unusual problem. I have a Dell laptop XPS M140. I have used ITunes as my primary program for downloading music. No problems. Have updated several times when prompted. Recently I...
  30. Question: Taking Bottle

    by 1badchoice
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    While I appreciate the advice given... I guess I...

    While I appreciate the advice given... I guess I must say that I don't believe the baby to be abused or neglected. It's more a sadness that my daughter is choosing to deal with her daughter in a...
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    It might help to know that a lot of birth...

    It might help to know that a lot of birth certificates ask for your current name but also your maiden name. Hope this helps. Cathy
  32. Question: Support Issues

    by 1badchoice
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    Continue paying support while keeping records of...

    Continue paying support while keeping records of everything. You can attempt to get the order for support changed to whomever the child is living with or looking into the child being emancipated. ...
  33. Question: Child support

    by 1badchoice
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    It really depends on how the rights were...

    It really depends on how the rights were relinquished. Did someone else adopt the child? How were the rights given up? If it were his choice and no one adopted the child... child support is still...
  34. Question: Taking Bottle

    by 1badchoice
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    Taking Bottle

    :confused: Hi. My name is Cathy and I have a real issue with some of my daughter's parenting choices. She is twenty years old with a 10 mo old little girl. Though the baby does not take a pacifier...
  35. Question: New to Firefox

    by 1badchoice
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    Sounds like your IE has been corrupted. You can...

    Sounds like your IE has been corrupted. You can choose to use FF or uninstall IE then re-install. Be sure you have FF or some other browser to get online to re-install new IE. This happens...
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    Though I empathize with your being torn between...

    Though I empathize with your being torn between your child's cries and having him sleep in your bed... you have to do something that is hard. Don't let him sleep with you. Even if he falls asleep...
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    On the whole... it takes a very courageous,...

    On the whole... it takes a very courageous, selfless woman to give a baby up for adoption. Most people who judge never see the selflessness and emotional heartbreak a woman is willing to endure in...
  38. Question: What type

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    It saddens me how quickly we judge each other. ...

    It saddens me how quickly we judge each other. Especially women. If this were a man... there would be NO discussion. Because it's a woman... we all throw stones. As stated, maybe she is a self...
  39. Question: From Behind

    by 1badchoice
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    Aside from the existing advice... it may have...

    Aside from the existing advice... it may have something to do with the size of the equipment. One of my friends once told me that she couldn't use this position with certain boyfriend due to size. ...
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    Do not leave the house. He may try physically to...

    Do not leave the house. He may try physically to get you out however he would not have the law on his side. You could simply call the police and demand re-entry as this house is yours as well. No...
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    Aside from abuse or neglect... being an unfit...

    Aside from abuse or neglect... being an unfit parent is a matter of values, ideals, personal beliefs. It's one of the first things taught in child welfare. People have a right to raise their...
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    While I agree with Fr._Chuck, I also think that...

    While I agree with Fr._Chuck, I also think that there are times the visitation schedule cannot be kept. If this were only once or twice a year, I don't think any judge would hold you in contempt. ...
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    I do not believe that what she has done is legal....

    I do not believe that what she has done is legal. You will need to take her back to court in the same state that the original custody transfer took place. If neither of you live in that state then...
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    My daughter had a similar problem. We tried a...

    My daughter had a similar problem. We tried a neosporin ointment... it helped but didn't cure. We then tried an over the counter yeast infection medication. Cured it. If neither work... visit...
  45. Unfortunately, Fr._Chuck is right. Visitation...

    Unfortunately, Fr._Chuck is right. Visitation and child support are not related. It's like relating your child's healthcare to his/her educational needs. One does not always affect the other. I...
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    If there is a reasonable assumption that they...

    If there is a reasonable assumption that they have moved and just left things they don't want... you don't have the same responsibility. I would say you just have to clean things out yourself......
  47. Question: Custody

    by 1badchoice
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    The father's relationship with you is no longer...

    The father's relationship with you is no longer what matters. He is the father and will have certain rights. Takes two to create a life. That said, it is extremely unlikely that he would get even...
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    I am shocked that the focus on this thread is...

    I am shocked that the focus on this thread is pregnancy. This seems way off. Pregnancy can be dealt with... STD's cannot always be dealt with. This should be the focus. No matter what you...
  49. This is a free country. That said... she has a...

    This is a free country. That said... she has a right to do whatever she wants, within reason, while pregnant. It is extremely rare that you could stop her behavior while pregnant. Talk to her OB. ...
  50. Question: Oral

    by 1badchoice
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    I am amazed at the number of people who think you...

    I am amazed at the number of people who think you should in some way continue trying to get her to "change her mind". If you really respected her you would accept what she has told you. Just...
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