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And not only are you still not accepting the end of the relationship you are holding on to this person who CHEATED on you, accused you, dumped you and is a drug-addict (that alone should explain a...

It doesn't matter if he was crying his eyes out or stalking the apartment of the guy he thought you cheated with... the point of the matter is that this man ended the relationship and moved on. You...

You don't love this guy. You might like him or "need" him to validate you or fill you out in some way -- but you don't love him. As long as he's doing what you want and making you "comfortable" ...

I think you need to jump up and down and knock the cobwebs out of your head... this "we're soulmates" garbage has clouded your thinking. You indeed may love her a lot but you're so in the throes...

She deserves to know why you wrenched yourself out of her life, though. It's unfair to not tell her why or what the whole "it's for your protection" is all about. Basically you're leaving her to...

Woahhh... at 15 years old a kid is not all "done" being raised. Not by a long shot! Those kids are still young even if they're that old and they still need their father. Being left out of the...

Here's some advice for you... don't define yourself or worry about whether you're gay, straight, or otherwise. You're learning about yourself and all your attractions are normal. In time you'll...

Here's what you can do...

You can realise that her feelings and fears are way older than your relationship with her. She doesn't trust relationship or know what she wants (Common for men and...

It doesn't matter if you're 2 feet away from each other or a continent away. The relationship can grow or be a disaster. It all depends on your expectations, how you handle communication, whether...

Family counseling would do you all a world of good as would parenting classes. Boyfriend telling you to pack up and take off when things get hard is NOT the way to deal with a problem because it...

You haven't learned to differentiate normal human (adult and kid) reactions to things from "PERSONAL ATTACK" or "Dislike" or learned healthy ways to communicate. It's not just a matter of the...

Your bad feelings about the relationship are a warning signal to you that the whole thing is a bad idea. Those feelings are telling you to end it. That no good can come of this. Even if you are...

You are mistaking your obsession, pain and self-abandonment for "love" and you need to find a GOOD therapist to help you work out ways to let go of this old relationships and bring your life into...

She definitely has some misguided perceptions about love! You know what? It's NOT your job to be her "Prince" and be more romantic and take responsibility for her feelings (and passion). Her...

You only need to be clear about a couple of things: The guy's fantasy is that his girlfriend makes out/has sex with you because he thinks you're the hot-girlfriend of his honey and he wouldn't mind...

Adding a male partner into the mix isn't really any different than adding a female partner into the mix - as the previous answerer noted, the same open, honest PRE-game dialogue is needed. The only...

I'm not sure why you are carrying guilt and responsibility for (or over) your spouse's decisions or making it your job to "squash" (or encourage) her bissexual experiences. The truth is, if she...

If you have a period or a light period and you were only a couple of days late, then it is unlikely that you were pregnant at all, hon. And besides, don't waste your time comparing yourself to...

It's a good idea to really talk about this issue and determine whether you're both REALLY on board for the life-altering reality of a child right now at this stage in your life/relationship. You...

Yeah this is not a pattern that is likely to isolate itself. If you and he have agreed to be exclusive and he has made some "commitment" to you in some way and is hitting the hoes... he won't STOP...

Most guys are A-OK with this ;) your guy may even WANT you to connect to your sexuality and learn new tricks.

The only exception is when a guy feels like his girlfriend is dishonest or doing...

I think you need a reality check and to really take a long hard look at your relationship patterns before you become a mom (which is a huge responsibility) --- do you want to be with this "a little...

As hard as it is to accept -- look at all the "Truths" in the situation as it stands now. He doesn't want another child (and isn't being much of a dad to the 4 year old) and is in another...

The main thing you can do to change yourself is to think of your girlfriend and women in general as like you; equal to you and not objects. Consider that she is a human with feelings (sexual...

I agree with the above -- "messages" (text or email) lose a lot in translation - you might be trying to get him to respect you meanwhile he thinks you're not interested/feeling aloof or hurt, etc. ...

The way to get any person's respect is to respect YOUR true feelings and boundaries. Be open, be real and honest and go slow -- if he really cares about you he will as well. Because he said "We can...

Hopefully the "the more innocent something is the more entertaining to destroy" was just a really bad translation of some phrase in whatever your native tongue is. OTHERWISE - you have worse issues...

Sounds like you BOTH need some practice in communicating instead of arguing or triggering each other -- with one or both of you being angry, defensive, or withdrawn and the other on the attack. ...

I can assure you of one thing: ALL guys look now and then, and all guys watch porn (even if only mentally; the average man thinks about sex every 7 seconds) and like to talk to each other about the...

People withhold all manner of their true feelings. Often one partner thinks things are just fine ("we never fought" "things were great") because their partner doesn't have the guts to be direct...

Get help! It's not fair for you to be isolated and to feel so unloved and undervalued and even though he's the one acting like the loner by retreating into porn or spending time alone -- he's...

All your feelings are perfectly normal. You might be attracted sexually to guys and get butterflies for them and you might also feel attracted to girls. You'll find out what you like and what you...

This is a VERY unhealthy relationship. You need help (and maybe a professional to talk to) if you feel like you deserve or can't do better than this or feel like you can't get away from this ...

It could be that you opened yourself up SO much recently that you now feel like you're over-exposed on some level. Talking to OTHER people and making other friends is a great idea! That way you...

If you're sitting at dinner feeling sensitive and feeling like you two are not connected, and assuming he's not into you, I guarantee he's not going to feel like being a chatty-Cathy around you and...

Also I'm basing the comment not on his assurances that he's attracted to you when he's trying to calm things down but what he "blurted out" when he said he loves you but isn't sexually attracted to...

That's exactly what I meant. A Relationship isn't illegal - but sexual components can be depending on the area/laws.

Good luck -- stay strong and seriously - you don't need to take responsibility for him "living on the streets" Don't allow him to throw a pity-party for himself for the purpose of manipulating you. ...

No, you're intrigued by lesbian women because you yourself have some level of same sex attraction within yourself. (obviously!)

Out lesbian women represent women who are overt about their...

Instead of putting yourself through the pain and distraction of holding on to this man (or worse, considering yourself not "good enough" and tearing your own self esteem down) - let go. You don't...

He's lying to this other girl and about you to get in her pants, I'm sorry to say. The old "my girlfriend is horrible and she never has sex with me" lie. Dump him.
This isn't going to stop. ...

Is this relationship legal where you live? Your age difference is tremendous and you're not going to have the same friends or have those friends all be on the same page. Not to mention the fact...

Yes bisexual men can have positive, monogamous life-long relationships with women (just like a straight man can put his attraction to other women to the side) Honestly though, in this case the lack...

Any kind of relationship with the ex or the friend of the ex, is asking for trouble. BOTH guys are showing a serious lack of respect for you (and in your ex's case - his own lady) by acting this...

For the sake of clarity;- you're having a same sex attraction. Period. Labels like "bi, straight, gay" are all fairly recent social constructs. You may not identify yourself as "gay" and you...

To clarify my post... the OP must gain some understanding into hubby's complicated feelings about his sexuality FIRST (as I said in my post) and really listen to his point of view, his needs/feelings...

You should see your physician if you're planning to get pregnant, - so they can discuss your fertility and also perform a gynecological exam and assess your general health.

Certain blood-tests...

See your doctor to investigate the cause of those abnormal symptoms and test you for pregnancy (spotting can happen during pregnancy).

It's possible for a male to be infected by having intercourse with an infected partner but this is not common. In most cases, unless he has symptoms (white patches on the penis, itching, redness) ...

Periods should be regular on birth control pills, are you late? It is possible to get pregnant during oral contraception so talk to your doctor. Additionally, your symptoms could relate to...