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Will surely try that writing thing. We have sat down and spoken and that seemed to work for me for few days and next fight again I was snapping.Also, my anger isn't just on her. My anger is going...

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Even though we fight. Whenever we have, Even when she was going through depression and seeing things and hearing voices and feeling suicidal it was always me in the end holding her and...

Thanks for replying.No she doesn't see people and doesn't want to kill herself. We don't even fight often and even if we do it's a quick argument usually and we just take a time-out till we can calm...

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I am back here after a long time. (Thankfully)
Got over a lot of my insecurity and jealousy issues and got married last year after I knew she was the one and I'm very sure she is.

The...

I am trying my best in my capacity here. I flip after a limit of being hit and told off constantly. And even then I calm down again and try and help and hug her and tell her I love her and will be...

She said that she will come to the doctor but I need to 'make her feel' like going. I don't know what she means by that . She says she doesn't even want to live as the one person she wants to live...

As a child she has had a stressful childhood too. I recently found out. Her parents would make her babysit her younger daughters when she herself was just 5-6years old and beat her if something went...

I had to go away and wished she came but her work leave got approved just a bit later than mine and I had no option but leave.
This morning I wanted to take her to the doctor. Kept pleading her. But...

I have been posting regarding fights and issues with my wife (fiance before) for some time now. They started verbal and ended up badly physical. I never started hitting but after a point I have hit...

EXACTLY MY POINT .
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But she says she doesn't know how to do it. And I told her to look it online if she didn't know the first time itself and the second time it happened and I asked her...

Thanks so much for your replies. I just felt protective of her and didn't want some perv trying to think crap of her in his head and that was irritating me. I know I cant stop people's thinking and...

Hello everyone.
Finally All the fight issues between me and my wife are calming down and we have set some boundaries and ground rules and working on the respect with each other.
This issue today...

She has just gone away for the night as she needs some space off. And has given me a final warning that I shouldn't bring up her past anymore and fight with her and show her that I can be considerate...

I think my life is just too f***d right now.. :(.. some bad luck crap happening and I can connect it to a black cat crossing our oath while driving some nights back if I was superstitious.
I was...

Uhhmm.. I Did not help him eventually. I said I'll come see what its like and if I feel like it I would. And he explained what I had to do etc so I said yeah OK I'll see. And then I didn't go as I...

Thanks for that. Really needed the direct talk .
Anyway, I don't want to hang around at her practises. She asks me to come to give her company. And I have made friends there too.
I am a musician...

I completely trust her and am not insecure about this even . Anyway, I knew her ex was part of the volunteer crew from even before she did as she would just go do her dance practises and cues and I...

Ok so finally after months and months of fighting and abuse we spoke about it on final time and my wife is calming down and we are not fighting like before anymore (no more abusing and hitting). We...

I have spoken to her and told her that I won't take it anymore and will separate if she does behave this way again. It just became worse with that and she started shouting and crying. But I spoke to...

She does not feel she is become like this.
She keeps calling it a temporary phase and says if I be kind and sweet to her even when she is abusive and angry She will get OK soon but I don't do that...

Thanks for the replies. I really appreciate.
Hadn't fought for 9 days now and I thought all was good until a small thing like 'i don't want to eat the take away food we bought now' led to another...

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Sorry for the long post but I have too much to explain.
I know what I am about to say now is only my side of the story and I will try and make it as neutral as possible as I don't want her...

Thank you so much smoothy.
I really appreciate your help.
Btw, she had gotten rid of all of her ex's photos before I even met her. She said it was what she wanted to do and she did it (my...

I know the issue is mine and if I don't do something about myself I may push her away and I don't want to do that. Hence, need help to overcome this rather than be told that I am at fault. How to...

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I am pretty aware this is my issue and not hers that's why posted in personal growth.
I need to figure out help how to get over retro active jealousy.
I know that I have the issue and will...

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HE(her ex) isn't the saint.. She is from a religious group lead by some saint that they both follow and their families etc.
And I don't plan to lose her. That's exactly why I...

Hello everyone, This is my first post so I'm sorry if it may be a bit long as I'm unsure how to go about this. So, I have been with this girl for about 1 year and 7 months. Recently engaged. A very...