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    If you are going through with this, I strongly...

    If you are going through with this, I strongly recommend a prenup!
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    Why is it such a big issue for him and why does...

    Why is it such a big issue for him and why does he want to stop?
  3. Does she climax when masturbating?

    Does she climax when masturbating?
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    I disagreed because I personally don't find the...

    I disagreed because I personally don't find the process easy. But as I said: It depends on what you consider "easy".
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    I clicked on it twice and it took me to the...

    I clicked on it twice and it took me to the general immigration info site. Oh well...

    Try this one: USCIS Home Page
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    I don't mean to be mean, but I can't help...

    I don't mean to be mean, but I can't help wondering why you're having a second baby if you are so unhappy with your husband and your life.

    I'm also wondering if maybe your pregnancy has something...
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    The most quick way to find out what the...

    The most quick way to find out what the requirements are is to look up the information on the INS Website: Immigration at USCitizenship.info: INS, US Immigration, Citizenship
  8. My guess would be a lack of lubrication. You...

    My guess would be a lack of lubrication. You might have felt wet because you were on your period, but the bleeding probably diluted your natural lubrication to the point where it just wasn't slippery...
  9. Did she enjoy what happened that night?

    Did she enjoy what happened that night?
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    I am absolutely pro choice. It's between a woman...

    I am absolutely pro choice. It's between a woman and her conscience to make that decision.
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    Why would you want him back??

    Why would you want him back??
  12. Question: Penis Phobe

    by Kattalover
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    You said you both decided to wait to have sex...

    You said you both decided to wait to have sex until you're married, but maybe you're scared that things will get out of hand if you touch him too intimately? Or that he may pressure you, in spite of...
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    I don't see why that should be a problem. If...

    I don't see why that should be a problem. If anything, being familiar with your body should help.
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    Welcome to the club! 70% of women can't climax...

    Welcome to the club! 70% of women can't climax from vaginal penetration alone.

    A good position for self-stimulation is from behind. That leaves your hands free to play with your clitoris as needed.
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    There might be an underlying medical problem. Has...

    There might be an underlying medical problem. Has he been to a doctor and had his stomach checked? And a dentist?
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    Why didn't you use birth control? Did you WANT to...

    Why didn't you use birth control? Did you WANT to get pregnant?
  17. Question: Closing up?

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    No wonder you're tense! Are you sure you want to...

    No wonder you're tense! Are you sure you want to be with this guy?
  18. Question: Closing up?

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    :p That mental image is just too funny!

    :p That mental image is just too funny!
  19. Question: Closing up?

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    If there is pain, you're probably just not...

    If there is pain, you're probably just not aroused and lubricated enough.

    My guess is that he's still fairly inexperienced and probably a bit clumsy. My recommendation is to take it more slowly,...
  20. Welcome to America, hon! I moved here in 2000...

    Welcome to America, hon! I moved here in 2000 from Germany and packed on 30 pounds, 20 of which I've managed to lose. I'm working on the remaining 10. LOL

    Anyway... I imagine your weight gain has...
  21. Question: Closing up?

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    How old are you two? Again, your vagina is...

    How old are you two?

    Again, your vagina is large enough to allow a baby to pass through. It will definitely stretch enough to admit a penis!
  22. Question: Closing up?

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    I am not sure what he's talking about. Is he...

    I am not sure what he's talking about. Is he trying to penetrate you but can't for some reason? Maybe because he's not hard enough? Or are you tensing up? Is there any pain?

    Your vaginal opening...
  23. Normally, people don't suddenly go from having...

    Normally, people don't suddenly go from having satisfying sex to anorgasmic for no reason. There is something going on medically/mentally/emotionally, so I'm wondering what started occurring six...
  24. You also state that it's been six months since...

    You also state that it's been six months since you last had an orgasm. There might be a connection there. Why were you put on a new pill?
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    First of all you need to get tested and treated,...

    First of all you need to get tested and treated, and then you need to inform everybody you've had sex with within the last couple of months (a doctor should tell you exactly how long) and tell them...
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    He doesn't want to tell you the truth (that he's...

    He doesn't want to tell you the truth (that he's attracted to her or likes her more than you) because he either doesn't want to hurt your feelings or because he wants to avoid a scene.
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    My advice: Unless you're gay, find another place...

    My advice: Unless you're gay, find another place to live!

    You describe yourself as "level headed", but I don't believe for a second that her being "drop dead gorgeous" hasn't had your thoughts...
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    Of course he acts like a little boy. He's still...

    Of course he acts like a little boy. He's still living with mommy and daddy, so why should he behave like an adult?

    My advice: get a job and get your own place. Under no circumstances let him move...
  29. It can never hurt to stay in good shape, mostly...

    It can never hurt to stay in good shape, mostly for your own benefit, but I was just throwing stuff out there that might be a turn-off for your wife.

    Have you asked her why she isn't attracted to...
  30. Question: No Friends!

    by Kattalover
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    Some communities are more difficult to get into...

    Some communities are more difficult to get into as a newcomer than others, and some will always remain closed to you in one or more ways because of differences in political views or religious...
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    You say you got married in your church & culture,...

    You say you got married in your church & culture, so I assume you're an immigrant/legal resident. In this case, I'd say it depends on what you put in your paperwork when you moved to the States. If...
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    Courts frequently order mediation in divorce...

    Courts frequently order mediation in divorce cases, so why not start with mediation if there are no complicated issues involved? Since tl_levine asked for advice how to file for divorce online, I...
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    Depends on the marriage laws in the state you...

    Depends on the marriage laws in the state you live in.

    Why are you asking?
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    The only way for her to know what she's getting...

    The only way for her to know what she's getting herself into is to wait ten years, get an education, find a job, and live on her own before starting a family.
  35. Question: Baby Blues

    by Kattalover
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    I find it HIGHLY unlikely that she suddenly...

    I find it HIGHLY unlikely that she suddenly packed up and left you for no reason at all. Something must have happened that triggered her to leave - unless she was a mentally and emotionally unstable...
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    Just because it worked for your grandparents...

    Just because it worked for your grandparents doesn't mean it'll work for you.

    Being in love while you still live at home is easy, but are you both prepared for facing the challenges and...
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    Am I the only one who thinks that if somebody's...

    Am I the only one who thinks that if somebody's happy in a relationship, they don't run off with some random hussie? And if somebody's unhappy but committed in a relationship, they try to work on the...
  38. Question: Stay or leave?

    by Kattalover
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    You can't make him better. Only he can do that....

    You can't make him better. Only he can do that. By staying with him and trying to please him you're only giving out the message that there is something wrong with you, not with him or his behavior....
  39. Did she ever say why she's not physically...

    Did she ever say why she's not physically attracted to you anymore (I'm assuming she found you attractive at some point, otherwise she wouldn't have started dating you)? Did your appearance change...
  40. Question: Marital Debt

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    Are you sure this is the only debt involved? I...

    Are you sure this is the only debt involved?

    I didn't find out exactly how much debt from his former two marriages my husband was carrying until after we were married, because his father had...
  41. Question: Am I Wrong?

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    I'm confused. What does your lack of trust in...

    I'm confused.

    What does your lack of trust in this girl have to do with anything?

    You say you're convinced that your boyfriend would never cheat on you, so it doesn't matter how often this...
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    The realization that more than half my life is...

    The realization that more than half my life is over and that I'm going to die some day hits me at least once a day, typically when I'm about to fall asleep. It feels like an icy hand squeezing my...
  43. Question: Baby madness

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    I don't think you're mad, but I don't think you...

    I don't think you're mad, but I don't think you love this boy, either. It's just hormones talking.

    It is irresponsible to bring a child into the world if you're not able to take 100% care of the...
  44. How about asking her to tell you about her...

    How about asking her to tell you about her childhood, family memories, her school years, etc. so that you can write it down for future generations?
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    Let me chime in here to tell you that not every...

    Let me chime in here to tell you that not every woman has a G-spot! Good general information on the subject here: G-spot - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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    Have you talked to him about this at all? Ever?

    Have you talked to him about this at all? Ever?
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    Legal aspects aside, I don't see how wanting to...

    Legal aspects aside, I don't see how wanting to have sex with a person you're in love with would make you a pervert.
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    What J_9 said is correct. If his penis entered...

    What J_9 said is correct. If his penis entered your vagina, you are no longer a virgin. His penis entering your vagina also means that YOU HAD SEX. I hope you used a condom!

    As to him "not...
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    I agree with what others have said: Start...

    I agree with what others have said: Start masturbating! Explore your body, with and without your boyfriend. Relax! The more you concentrate on having an orgasm, the more it will elude you.

    This...
  50. Question: Am I paranoid?

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    You can't get pregnant from frotting if you're...

    You can't get pregnant from frotting if you're both fully clothed.

    However, you and your boyfriend will want to take things further one of these days, so I suggest you educate yourself on reliable...
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