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    You maybe the most logical person God ever put on...

    You maybe the most logical person God ever put on this Earth, but for some reason when that little organ referred to as the "Heart" is involved the logical seems to take back set to what our heart...
  2. When are you going to get tired of having someone...

    When are you going to get tired of having someone else control your life. I understand you love this woman, but love doesn't mean you lay down and have someone walk all over you. I also understand...
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    You need to talk to your friend. If your close...

    You need to talk to your friend. If your close enough to invite her on a family vacation then you should be close enough to openly tell her that what she did made you uncomfortable. That you realize...
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    Why are you allowing this woman to have any type...

    Why are you allowing this woman to have any type of contact with you even if it is on Facebook. Just a reminder... when playing games.. there is always a winner and a loser!! Perhaps its time to...
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    Let him have the time and space that he is...

    Let him have the time and space that he is needing. If he has actually said that "he loves you, but not in love with you". Its time to take your pride and move on with your life. He is more then...
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    Jam, I wonder if a friend came to you with...

    Jam,

    I wonder if a friend came to you with the same scenario what advice you would give her. You have said that you are a very strong woman and I happen to believe you.

    That is why I feel...
  7. Sounds like she doesn't want to leave her husband...

    Sounds like she doesn't want to leave her husband for you. She is able to keep you on a string by coming up with excuses as to why she is staying. Perhaps she should give her husband a chance of...
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    If your confused on marrying him then the answer...

    If your confused on marrying him then the answer is simple--DON'T.
  9. I agree with above---Once you break up then you...

    I agree with above---Once you break up then you BOTH free to make your own choices without a thought of the other!! If you are having problems then I would suggest that you sit down and talk about...
  10. As you have stated you have had your ups and...

    As you have stated you have had your ups and downs. Is this that big of a down to dwell on to break your trust for him or break the trust of his to be open with you.

    Don't break the connect that...
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    Typing someone over the computer and speaking to...

    Typing someone over the computer and speaking to them over phone to me doesn't come down to dating. Dating to me is when you meet someone face to face you out to dinner, movie,dancing, baseball game,...
  12. First let me say that I don't agree with someone...

    First let me say that I don't agree with someone sitting on their backside having playing games while someone picks up after them.

    Now if you have really broken off your relationship because you...
  13. You both as a couple have broken the trust in...

    You both as a couple have broken the trust in your marriage. Just because you were able to forgive, he hasn't reached that point and may never. Its always easier to judge other and condem them then...
  14. Have you thought about getting a job outside the...

    Have you thought about getting a job outside the home. It would give you a chance to get out and make friends beside earning you some cash. Even if its only couple times a week.
    Its also time to sit...
  15. No offense but the only person that can make you...

    No offense but the only person that can make you feel worth the love and respect of another is yourself. No matter what he does it will never be enough until you get help with yourself doubt.

    When...
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    Of course you are expecting a reaction from her....

    Of course you are expecting a reaction from her. Sorry, but it hasn't been long enough to let go of the "HOPE" yet. We all know what its like to wonder if you do this or do that that the person you...
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    I agree with Tal. Its time to move on and stop...

    I agree with Tal. Its time to move on and stop dwelling on him. It doesn't sound like you had that great of friendship if all you did was mad each other so angry that it caused hurt feelings.
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    Most of us still have some type of emotional...

    Most of us still have some type of emotional connection to our first love. To be honest most of us have that emotional connect to any true love connection we have had in our lives. But then we need...
  19. No offense---But your wife isn't " In love" with...

    No offense---But your wife isn't " In love" with you. She may have a emotional connection with you but its not on the same level that she apparentlly has for her former lover. She has proven he NOT...
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    When someone that you have been in a long time...

    When someone that you have been in a long time relationship actually has enough courage and honesty that they no longer know if they love you anymore then it is time to prepare yourself to move on...
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    Okay Zoe, When you calm down some you need...

    Okay Zoe,

    When you calm down some you need to take the time and read what you have wrote. Then take time to wonder how little of self respect this woman has for herself who wrote it. You sound...
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    Please get out and away from him. Tell your...

    Please get out and away from him. Tell your family,friends --tell your neighbors. Get yourself to a woman's shelter if need be. You now have the responsibility to protect not only yourself but...
  23. So exactly how many more years are you going to...

    So exactly how many more years are you going to sit around waiting on this guy to fall head over heels in love with you? You have already given him 3 years and you have been told that he maybe...
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    It has now been a year that you have spent with...

    It has now been a year that you have spent with this man. After this amount of time you can NO longer blame him for YOU being disappointed in his CHEAP ways. You are to BLAME for allowing someone to...
  25. I agree if he doesn't know what he wants after a...

    I agree if he doesn't know what he wants after a year then its up to you to be woman enough to MOVE ON. Life is too short to sit around in hopes that he will come to know that you are the one.
  26. My question back to you is --Why would you give a...

    My question back to you is --Why would you give a rats one way or another--Remember he is the same jerk off who dumped you. The same jerk to still continues to contact you every time he needs an ego...
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    The loss of the trust in your spouse from...

    The loss of the trust in your spouse from cheating is like a death. You need time to mourn that loss. This not something you need to do alone, its all right to ask for help from family and friends. ...
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    Your 24yrs old its time to set an example for...

    Your 24yrs old its time to set an example for your children. Maybe your wife is tired ever thought of that. One baby is enough to wear you out let alone two.

    Cheating on your wife is not the...
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    Well you have the word EXCUSES down!! I came...

    Well you have the word EXCUSES down!! I came from a very abusive not only physical but verbal up bringing. I have heard every excuse there is as to why my father was a mean SOB and why my mother...
  30. Obviously he just isn't into this relationship as...

    Obviously he just isn't into this relationship as you are. Don't you think its time to try and find someone that you can sit down and talk with without being on a web cam. How can you fall in love...
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    Love isn't a test that you can study for, its...

    Love isn't a test that you can study for, its something that you have to actually experience. Its not just one feeling, its made up of many. Trust,loyalty,compromise,sadness,laughter,...
  32. Well if you sit around waiting for him to read...

    Well if you sit around waiting for him to read your mind then you will be celebrating your birthday without him. He obviously doesn't have a clue how important this is to you. Now if he still...
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    The bottom line here is that He Doesn't want a...

    The bottom line here is that He Doesn't want a commitment he wants his cake and eat it too. He doesn't want you going out with other guys, because what if you actually meet a guy who know how great...
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    Its like Tal said Mothers are just human, and due...

    Its like Tal said Mothers are just human, and due to this can be flawed. My Parents were both messed up. But I survived. So you see its time to get of the pitty potty and start making the RIGHT...
  35. Listen if you want him to accept you as who you...

    Listen if you want him to accept you as who you are then you better first learn to accept yourself and get over your insecurities with your skin. Come on lets be honest do you really think he hasn't...
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    When you decided to ask this woman to be your...

    When you decided to ask this woman to be your wife, I am sure you were hoping she was woman enough to step up to the plate and be a WIFE. Don't you think she was hoping the same of YOU!!
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    Really you are complaining about his NAME. What...

    Really you are complaining about his NAME. What do you want us to say? Okay, here " Stick and stone may break my bones, but words will never hurt me". You have a man that loves you and wants to...
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    I agree about letting your wife know that you...

    I agree about letting your wife know that you don't mind her having a friendship with this woman, however you don't care for this woman getting into your personnel space. Such as hugging or kissing...
  39. Come on its time to grow up and be a man! Stop...

    Come on its time to grow up and be a man! Stop lying and covering up like a child who doesn't know any better. Once you break a trust given then it can only be healed by proving that you will never...
  40. Question: Cheating

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    How do you know that he allowed this? Did he tell...

    How do you know that he allowed this? Did he tell you or did someone else. If he told you, then he just didn't come out and say " Hey, by the way I had another woman touch my private area". There had...
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    She is sleeping with another man--Hello wake up! ...

    She is sleeping with another man--Hello wake up! So she says he cannot perform sexually, but that her telling you what you want to hear.

    My question is why you are still allowing her to get...
  42. I agree this isn't a popularity contest, it's a...

    I agree this isn't a popularity contest, it's a choice that is best for your daughter. Here is perfect opportunity for you to teach your daughter that making a choice because it's the right one...
  43. He is going to check back with you every month to...

    He is going to check back with you every month to see how you are doing if your still want to get back with him, in case he has changed his mind. Yoy need to tell him to just move on with his life...
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    Why would you even want to be with someone who is...

    Why would you even want to be with someone who is a drunk? Don't you think you deserve better? He is having difficulty dealing with his own issues let alone a relationship. Do yourself a favor move...
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    Well you need to make a decision here. You...

    Well you need to make a decision here. You already know that you cannot change someone. So you need to either move on and keep growing as an individual without him. Or learn to enjoy being the bread...
  46. Because if he conveniences himself that you are...

    Because if he conveniences himself that you are cheating then he has given himself excuse to cheat himself.
  47. I thought in most society's you weren't...

    I thought in most society's you weren't considered legally married until the marriage was consummated!!
  48. No offense but at the age of 22years its time to...

    No offense but at the age of 22years its time to get unhooked from mom's chest!! I know you attached but come on, you are apparently aware there is a problem so what are you willing to do to get...
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    Why are you shocked about her behavior. She has...

    Why are you shocked about her behavior. She has only been going out with you just less then a year, and yet she gave up custody of her OWN child so she could follow a man to a different state. This...
  50. Your Mother should have never let you have access...

    Your Mother should have never let you have access to her email --period. You could have waited for information from your teachers until she could get them for you. I guess my thing is you shouldn't...
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