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    Sounds to me that she's not very understanding....

    Sounds to me that she's not very understanding. Try discussing your feelings with her and ask how she feels about you. All you can really do now is speak with her and see how things end up.
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    Countinue to try to initiate contact with him and...

    Countinue to try to initiate contact with him and if you can't get anywhere with him than I would suggest for you to start preparing a case with child support enforcement. He needs to pay too. He...
  3. Question: I'm confused

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    Try doing things to get your mind off of her....

    Try doing things to get your mind off of her. Like hangin out with friends or something. It may work if you keep yourself busy.
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    I know it's hard when a parent doesn't like your...

    I know it's hard when a parent doesn't like your boyfriend, I've been there myself. It turned out that my mother's instinct was right, but that doesn't mean your mother's is. Since she is not willing...
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    I just dealt with a needy relationship myself....

    I just dealt with a needy relationship myself. From a women's point of view, she is probably trying to see your reaction to the things she is doing. She's trying too hard to prove that she is...
  6. The two of you may have a shot eventually. She...

    The two of you may have a shot eventually. She may just need sometime to figure out what it is that she wants and the month of no contact could help, but it's possible it won't. She is not faithful...
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    Don't stay with her out of pity, she will hurt...

    Don't stay with her out of pity, she will hurt more in the end. First, try to work out your problems, but if it doesn't help thean you need to move on.
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    Sounds to me like she doesn't want you, but she...

    Sounds to me like she doesn't want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either. I'm am in the same situation. You deserve better than that! Try to avoid her as much as possible. Keep...
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    As long as everything continues the way it is,...

    As long as everything continues the way it is, you two may have a chance at something.
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    I was in a relationship like that at one point...

    I was in a relationship like that at one point with my ex of 8 years. It is very hard to let go when you don't want to, but you really need to if he makes you feel that way. Find things to do to keep...
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    Just try to keep her off your mind for the...

    Just try to keep her off your mind for the summer. Do what you enjoy doing. Like you said, if it's meant to be it will be. You don't know what's going to happen until September rolls around.
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    Your right, I do find it easy to give others...

    Your right, I do find it easy to give others advice, but it's hard for me to take it myself with this particular situations because none of my methods seem to work with this guy. He is not taking the...
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    This is his way of showing you how he feels. If...

    This is his way of showing you how he feels. If the two of you are dating, what's the problem?
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    Demonstrate how happy you are\ Delete pictures ...

    Demonstrate how happy you are\
    Delete pictures
    Send back stuff
    Agree with them
    A lot of the other's won't be as useful if they already moved on themselves.
  15. Sounds like her mind may be made up. Just give...

    Sounds like her mind may be made up. Just give her a little time and then try to call her, but she may only want to be friends at this point so be careful not to push her or you will drive her...
  16. Question: Love hurts

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    My first love is the father of my son and we were...

    My first love is the father of my son and we were together for 8 years. It took awhile but I am finally over him. I find myself bringing up the times we had, but it is truly over and it has to stay...
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    I don't think there is any certain amount of time...

    I don't think there is any certain amount of time to fall in love, but it's easy to think you are in love and it not be.
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    Thanl you! I try not to discuss my personal life...

    Thanl you! I try not to discuss my personal life with him, but that's what he expects. He drops the subject about the baby when I bring it up and he tries to talk about the two of us. Should I just...
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    I to agree with the others, these numbers mean...

    I to agree with the others, these numbers mean nothing until you find out they are seeing him. It may be for businesss purposes. Call them to see. He's not showing any signs of cheating. If you don't...
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    I already told him that I want nothing more than...

    I already told him that I want nothing more than friendship. I decided to remain friends for the baby's sake when it arrives. I just don't know how else to get all of this through his head. I think...
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    Wait until she works through this issue and then...

    Wait until she works through this issue and then try to contact her.
  22. He might still have some feelings for you, but it...

    He might still have some feelings for you, but it looks like he's only wanting sex from you and nothing more. He's showing no sign of wanting any more than that. He's with someone else now.
  23. Definitely contact that attorney. Something might...

    Definitely contact that attorney. Something might be able to be done. I'm not sure how NC works. That makes no sense that the attorney even did that.
  24. Be there for him. Give him a little time to work...

    Be there for him. Give him a little time to work out his issues. Yes, after a few days make an attempt to hang out with him.
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    You really need to tell your parents if you find...

    You really need to tell your parents if you find out you are. You also need to take a test to make sure.
  26. It's going to be hard to get over her since your...

    It's going to be hard to get over her since your stuck with her for all of those hours at work, but your going to have to try and move on with your life since she has. Maybe she does it in front of...
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    Don't know what to do now

    As some of you know, I have been struggling on and off with my ex. We were together for awhile and then I ended up pregnant. Neither one of us was wanting another child at this point in our life. He...
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    I agree, let him come to you. Show him your not...

    I agree, let him come to you. Show him your not up for the games.
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    Try to avoid her. Sounds like there's a lot of...

    Try to avoid her. Sounds like there's a lot of issues she needs to deal with that's within her. Stay away from the nut because that's what I think she is.
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    Unfortuately there is no way to make someone want...

    Unfortuately there is no way to make someone want to be with you. They both are scared right now. Try to explain to them how you feel, but first you need to figure out which one it is that you want....
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    Laughing was probably not a good idea. You should...

    Laughing was probably not a good idea. You should tell her what it was that make you laugh.
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    Well, you are in a pretty bad situation. No one...

    Well, you are in a pretty bad situation. No one can make up your mind for you. You have two choices, tell your hiusband the truth and try to work through it or leave him. Either way he's going to get...
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    It's up to you on giving him another chance....

    It's up to you on giving him another chance. Doesn't sound like he's going to change. Me myself, I would walk away from the whole relationship. Who knows what other lies he told that you never found...
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    Sounds like she may be texting you just to make...

    Sounds like she may be texting you just to make sure your okay. Only time and patience will tell. Give her space. You could ask her if she sees the two of you ever getting back together.
  35. Question: What do I do

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    All you can do is give him some time. Sounds like...

    All you can do is give him some time. Sounds like his pride is in the way now. Maybe he will come around, but sounds like he holds grudges. Just continue to reassure him that he's welcome and ask if...
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    Maybe the two of you can resolve this through...

    Maybe the two of you can resolve this through counseling. If not, you may need to move on. She has to be willing to change first and devote herself to the marriage.
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    All you can do is continue to reassure him and...

    All you can do is continue to reassure him and maybe do nice things for him.
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    If you stopped drinking, your baby should be...

    If you stopped drinking, your baby should be okay. I agree go to social services, they can help to pay for medical expenses.
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    The two of you really need to have a long talk....

    The two of you really need to have a long talk. If he doesn't make an attempt to look at things from your point of view then maybe the relationship may not have a chance. A relationship is not all...
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    Well, you need to make the decision before...

    Well, you need to make the decision before answering the question. If you think things will be different and better than maybe you should give it a chance. If you decide to start the relationship...
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    Children do sometimes require two incomes though...

    Children do sometimes require two incomes though so maybe suggest an option where you both can work and take shifts watching the kids while the other works.
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    I don't think your overreacting, you just want to...

    I don't think your overreacting, you just want to reach your dreams. If you are at a stage in life where you can afford it, you should. Of course he needs to agree. Continue to talk to him and let...
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    I don't think that it's a good idea for her to...

    I don't think that it's a good idea for her to have sex, but there's nothing you can say or do to stop her if she has her mind made up. It says in the bible no sex before marriage, but you can repent...
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    I think you need to let her go. Sounds like she...

    I think you need to let her go. Sounds like she is sleeping around a little too much. If you can't trust her than you have no real relationship and it sounds like you have every right not to trust...
  45. Yes, to me it make perfect sense that she would...

    Yes, to me it make perfect sense that she would push you away due to guilt. Maybe she knew she hurt you and is afraid of doing so again. I've done this myself in the past.
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    I hear cocoa butter works, but never tried it...

    I hear cocoa butter works, but never tried it myself. I used Mederma and it really helped to fade mine. You can barely see them now. I am the only one who can slightly recognize them and that's...
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    I don't find this weird at all.

    I don't find this weird at all.
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    Try talking with your huusband also.

    Try talking with your huusband also.
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    It sounds like he really cares about the...

    It sounds like he really cares about the children, but they are at that age that they may find it hard to love him for whatever reason. Maybe you could sit the children down and explain how much he...
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    I'm not sure that you saying anything to the...

    I'm not sure that you saying anything to the parents will help. It may just make matters worse and cause them to become upset with you as well. Just be careful what you say and how you say it to...
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