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Crazy. I know and you are right... and I know I sound like a cliché saying this, but I think he has changed. He just seems like he's grown up a bit. But I guess I will have to learn the hard way

Am I horrible? Because I know all of you are right.. and when I gave my friend that same advice, I was right and she got hurt.. but I feel like I can control myself not to let anything happen. I...

I think you are all right... however I have talked with him, after a painful month or so of not speaking. He says he wants us to be friends. And I am suddenly happier just talking to him as friends,...

I understand what you are saying. You feel like if you are wrong about something, it will be noticed more than if a guy is wrong. And I hate to say it but I think you're right. So my advice? Do your...

There's a difference in wanting a baby and considering having one and beliveing you are ready for one. I have wanted a baby forever. They're adorable, and they will love you. But I would not try to...

Have you talked to your parents? I know you might feel like a child going to your parents about it, but it is the best idea. Try to stand up for yourself, just like everyone here has said. I know you...

I couldn't have put it better ginny! Just try to become friends... maybe friend him on Fb and start talking a little there.. but don't make it a fake, online only no real contact relationship.

Well it seems like he might like you. Just keep talking on Facebook. And talk in person, when you notice him looking, smile or wave. Hell think your interested.. stirke up a little conversation...

So I was totally lied to and played by this guy... some of you may have read my previous posts a month or so ago. Anyway, we stoopped talking, but I've been depressed missing him because I think I ...

Its okay to let it bother you a little bit. And its okay to cry yourself to sleep at night sometimes. But surrounding yourself with friends is a great idea. Just be careful because sometimes it can...

I agree so much with all of you. But at the same time, parents should trust their kids unless theere is a clear reason for not trusting them. Yes parents do need to intervene and be part of their...

It will hurt. But you need to break up. All that will happen is more pain and drama. When you care about someone and it is real to you but pretty much fake to them. You need to let go. It hurts. I...

I understand that you still want to be friends with him kind of. Believe me I get how you feel. But you will just hurt even more trying to be friends with him. Trust me. Sometimes loving someone...

Well does he talk about other girls with you? No? Than he possibly might

Does he overly compliment you? Yes? Than he possibly might

Tell me some stuff that makes you think he likes you......

Hey girl. Believe me I know how you feel. I am 16, almost seventeen and a senior and have never kissed a guy or had a real boyfriend. This might kind of be a self diagnosis... Don't wish you are in...

So I keep saying that I want a boyfriend... I keep acting as if having a boyfriend will make me feel better about that jerk who screwwed me over.. thing is.. I could have a boyfriend. Not to sound...

So I want to know what is wrong with me.

When I told him he needs to choose "is or was" he told me that he can't choose, and he's really confused...

But then I noticed on his FB that his...

Thanks Nohelp4u, and everyone else.

I asked him about it today and he said

"she is/was my girlfriend"

I don't know what the hell that means. Hes got to choose one or the other. And he still...

Well I mean yeah.

But sometimes its hard to actually WANT to wake up the next day knowing that you're going to have to deal with a dad who is completely insensitive. And knowing that my future is...

Oh I see.. sorry if I came off a little mean too, I'm just a little on edge.

I actually finally felt like I had something worth living for, and poof, its gone

Well the guy is friends with my friends...

And I am being plenty mature.. he just hid this girl... well I was just stupid for expecting him to be honest with me.

Just wanted to let you all know that you were right, and that I shouldn't have let myself fall.

I shouldn't have believed that he cared about me... I was so stupid.

Hes got a girlfriend...

Okay! Thank you.

Lol well thank you, I think.

I know that right now, in this moment, nothing can happen. But I am a pretty stubborn person, and that, I think is why I can't go five minutes without thinking of this...

You're right. And I know that. And I want to agree with you, because that is the logical thing to do. And the smart thing to do.

But the thing is, I just... I don't even know!

I would agree...

Well when he comes home for good I will be eighteen...

Its not so horrible for me to get into a relationship at seventeen. And my parents know very well that I will not forget who I am or my...

I agree with Nohelp4u

It is definiately normal.

And anyone would be bothered by his story telling.

It probably makes you slightly self conscious and kind of jealous.

I don't think it's a bad thing that you feel...

Sorry this is kind of long, but please read

Okay. So I have done everything to not think about this guy.

I have taken your advice, and nothing seems to help.

For those of you who don't know...

Mkay thanks all!

I personally am against abortion, therefore I advise you to talk to your parents. Make sure you get medical care. And consider keeping the baby or giving him/her up for adoption.

You are young,...

I am really sensitive, and can't do anything except wax, which I can't afford.

Until recently, I have had this issue. But I have finally found a technique that eliminates the bumps.

I take a...

Thanks all.

I have heard that the more expensive the hair straightener, the more effective. Is that true, or just a selling point?

Also, I have heard that the hotter it gets, the better. How...

I think it is a good idea. I appreciate people who do, because I want to go to med school.

My mom wants to do the same thing. And I am slightly uncomfortable with it, but that is purely because I...

Well I thought about that but
1. My mom won't let me
2. I don't want to have straight hair all the time. I like it curly also

Any other suggestion?

My hair is really curly and I like to straighten it sometimes, especially because it makes me look a few years older.

Every time I straighten it, it lasts for about 5 minutes then gets a little...

Don't be superficial. Looks do matter to an extent, but trust me, I have learned that you either have to choose a gorgeous jerk or a not as gorgeous good guy. (not saying that all good looking people...

Lol I kind of do that now... when I'm thinking of him. I have actually woken up in the middle of the night with lines for poems popping into my head lol.. and he's sensitive. He has written a poem...

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you. I will try that. Because I know all my friends are so annoyed with me right now because he is ALL I talk about. Maybe a journal might help some.

Thanks

Nohelp4u, thank you. That makes perfect sense. I should go on with my life, and just pay attention to what's going on around me so that I don't make a mistake that could potentially hurt him too. Of...

Okay. That makes sense. So how do I stop?

Nohelp4u, I have not met him but a lot of my friends have. He says that he wants us to hang out when he comes home. He is always so sweet to me.

And I don't know that much about him, but I do know...

So I have a couple other threads discussing my "online relationship"

Problem is I have now become addicted to my computer. I was on for almost 8 hours today. And I sleep with my phone so that I...

Oh yea... I agree

I know. And that's how I feel sometimes. But when I flirt with other guys.. I don't know I just feel guilty afterwards.

And when I'm really stressed and about to blow up, the only thing that...

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So I am not going to say I'm "dating" this guy, because I know an online "relationship" can't be considered "dating".

But I am confused.

There is this guy who...

You're welcome.. what's the other thread?

Dude, she's got a boyfriend. They've been together for a YEAR. You don't want to be the one to break them up, if she recipricates feelings. But really? If she's in love she might just find it...

See I don't understand completely.

I agree with ScottGem

Why would you want your first time to be with just someone and not someone you are committed to and really love?

I can understand...

Well you definitely like her. A lot. And I know you're confused, but, as hard as it is, try not to over think the situation.

Just go with the flow. What happens, happens.

Just hang out, be a...