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Here you have to balance your own interests with your friend's marriage. You two can still love each other platonically while keeping his marriage intact and remain friends, contrary to what you've...

If she hurts you this bad, it can't be worth it, at least in my eyes. Your own looming doubt in her faithfulness is exemplified by your asking that very important question "Would she sleep with him...

Well from your screen name it sounds like you're 22, so age isn't as big of a factor as if you were say 16. It's pretty easy to make arguments for both sides if you ignore the weirdness of family...

You worrying about it isn't going to change whether she does or does not cheat. You begging her not to cheat with her ex or anyone else isn't going to work either. The first step is to clear your...

I don't see the harm in that.

My girlfriend has trust issues and feels as though she has been betrayed by everyone in her life except me. In fact, she loves me more than anything, so much so that if we were to ever break up she...

This seems like a nice guy vs. bad boy battle. She keeps going back to this guy for the sole reason that he treats her badly and acts like he doesn't need her. You are the opposite of him because you...

If you think 8 minutes is a long time for a text reply, you're probably too clingy. I sometimes don't look at my phone for a full 2 hours before I reply to people. I'd say on average maybe 15...

I agree with talaniman. You should wait until she contacts you and relax. Don't get your things back from her parents' house until you are sure it is over because that could potentially set her off....

I have had this same thing happen to me. I was hardheaded and stupid so I didn't listen to any of the advice I was given. I was reckless. Don't be like me. I called and called her, texted her...

I feel for you. You are the epitome of nice guy and she should choose you, but no matter what you do her abusive parents are going to be a part of her life because they are family. My best advice for...

She has taken you back and thrown you away repeatedly. This "I have something important to say" thing is just more of the same. You can politely text her that it is over and ask that she stop...

No. You shouldn't. She left you for another man once and she could easily do it again. She gave you excuses about being drugged up, and apparently goes out with other guys based on them being "the...

You two have been drifting apart. You can either work to change this or wait the 12 months like she is barely there. Decide for yourself which is more beneficial and move on from there.

To be...

Telling her that you love her is making her feel guilty, not more in love with you. That painful guilt only reinforces her feeling that this breakup was a necessary evil, something painful but...

Believe me when I say that doing nothing is the best idea. I went through this in a 1 and a 1/2 year relationship. I got her back by getting a new girlfriend which made her jealous, left that one to...

You are a brave man. You acted exactly as you should have, and I commend you for that. Continue respecting her wishes as you have. Remember that anything you say or do can and will be held against...

Option 1: You tell her. She never trusts you again and will always be suspicious. That's if she doesn't break up with you on the spot.

Option 2: You don't tell her but live with your guilt.
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Okay. Let me be honest. She's probably with that guy in india. You know it too.

She was ready to break up with you until you showed her you didn't really give a damn. Now is not the time to start...

If by "tear her apart" you mean "let her win."

Good job recently. You are right in thinking that you should only contact her so the children can see each other.

She seems to be using you like her therapist. You aren't her therapist or her...

I don't think the question here is about whether you should tell her or not. It's more about whether you should marry her or not. You cheated on her and you weren't committed to her. Then again it...

I actually read all of that because I found it interesting. You are correct that you must go NC. She's more than just a little crazy - she's mentally unstable (cutting herself, bulemic.) you know...

I say you go back to the way you were by not worrying about it. When you start trying to justify someone else's actions for something you're not even sure about then you're caring too much.

You...

Don't ask to meet with her ever. The way to show her you've changed is to not be clingy. Trying to see her all the time means you're desperate. Same with talking or texting. Don't say "i'm never...

It looks you're you're controlling and jealous. You definitely did change and became too clingy. Making her your entire life was just setting you up for the fall. A relationship should be a pleasant...

Yeah sure, contact her after 5 months of healing so you can go back to the way you were at the very beginning, depressed and unhappy.

She has not changed and this is a desperate trap to get you...

Just chill and don't pressure her into being in a relationship with you. You can be with her during weekends and stuff but don't ever bring up the relationship. She'll be your girlfriend if she wants...

NEVER ever respond when she calls/texts

NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU ARE NOT THERE FOR HER ANYMORE. SHE LEFT YOU. LEAVE HER.

Do NOT tell her you will wait for her.

Do NOT tell her...

I was just as desperate and sad as you, maybe even more. I typed 70 pages about her. Now that's ridiculous. For the first three months I was super depressed. I hardly ate and felt like my heart had...

wrong. Don't chase her.

It hurts because both slapshot_oi and talaniman are right. I know I acted badly and I actuallly did apologize to her afterward, but that was more than a month ago. She hasn't brought it up since, but...

Well thanks ther4peuticH3at. I was just being honest with her. I should have probably lied, but she always asks me to be truthful to her and I was.

So I finally saw her after 7 weeks. I got her a...

I've been in a relationship with this girl since October 16th and I haven't seen her in 6 and a half weeks. We are not long distance, she just always has something going on (work, school, family,...

Ignore her completely. Wait till the texts change from "how are you doing?" to "i miss you so much" to "I want you back." And even when you she wants you back don't immediately go running back to...

Hey, I took this road. This exact road. She said the same thing, "I don't have feelings for you anymore." I saw my ex after the break up twice and told her I loved her/asked her to get back with me....

So you're friends with benefits.

That's all you are. If you aren't okay with that status then break off all contact with her.

You have two options: one to continue being friends with benefits...

Don't contact her for 2 weeks. If she doesn't call you by then move on.

Serious about this 2 weeks thing. Less is more. Anything you do can and will be held against you in the court of love.

Oh but I did do all that. Told her she was irreplaceable. etc. told her that she was the only one I wanted. I honestly did try. I tried for a good 10 minutes.

Calling her to apologize isn't going...

I've been going out with her for about a month.

She asked if I would be with her in 3 months time. I said maybe. She asked what I would do if something happened to "us." On reflex I said I'd go...

You don't need her. Don't talk to her. Whether you wanted her back or not, the right course of action would be to not talk to her.

I'm getting really pissed. I called her last week about getting my stuff back but didn't get an answer. I left a message asking when a good time would be. This is one week later and I still haven't...

Yeah, you're blinded. You have to NC her because nothing you can say is going to convince her. It's the fact that you're not saying anything that will convince her if she even is convinceable

If...

If he wasn't doing anything with his ex before, your paranoia may drive him to it. You don't even have any hard evidence that he's not just trying to be friendly. I think you need to just let it go...

This is soooo my question.

I got her back after a month and a half. Only the last 2 weeks of which I went totally NC and got a new girlfriend. The ex contacted me and knew about my new girl. She...

I know it just pisses me off a little bit that she went into my account.

I'm glad I never caved in and checked her stuff, because it would have been so much worse if I figured it out like that. ...

I have been totally NC since she called to be friends and I said no.

But something interesting happened. She is the only other person who knows my Myspace password. She logged into my account and...

So after a long time of NC I got the "let's just be friends call." I said "no."

I can finally move on with my life.

update:

It has been a week of NC and I kept strong.

I went to the mall and asked my usual shopkeeper for a green tea drink. I asked him how much it would cost. He replied, “For you... $4.” I...

Honestly slapshot, I don't give a damn.

It's been 3 days of NC.

I went out with my friends to a movie and they all convinced me that she's a horrible person. They told me to convince myself...