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What your mom thinks about you is non of your business- you are just pulling yourself back into the same cycle. Break it and get on with life. When your with your mom fill it with things relating to...

Set rules for your home, be there for your son when he needs you. Behave in a way that no one can blame you for interfering- don't bad mouth, mostly your son knows exactly whom he has married and...

Yes , agree with Gemini and Jake.
Also maybe if you get time to talk to her talk of things or do things you used to enjoy doing together, help her get back to herself..

Agree with Jake , please don't chase them or anything like that
Also
Came across the saying that sometimes kids behave like how cats do -they will come and drink milk but do as they please and not...

Hi,
It's a really painful thing to watch your sister and your parents the way they are. Honestly why do you need to go on the vacation?
If its so much of a stress you neednt go, say a polite thank...

Also, are you not well ? If so who is taking care of your kids and home? Is he doing too much than what he can take and lot of medical bills?
If so then it might be a reason why he is contolling -...

hey there, its kind of tough to be in the situation you are in.. I don't know what situation your partner is in (jobless, bad job , low income, low selfesteem, insecurity) . But it might be time...

Wow, lucky you!!

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Hmmm you can visit your girl on holidays.. she goes to school right?
You can maintain contacts with your contacts in NY (you can visit them when you go to see your girl)...

"happiness is not doing what you like but liking what you do" but liking what you do or the situation you are in is tough.sometimes we might unkowingly trap ourselves in afixed way of thinking or...

You can ask a doc if there is any thearapy and can suggest it to her. Try and increase your patience and tolerance limit as she is 70years old. Usually if dogs are bothered too much they growl or...

See a counsellor as soon as possible. Throw awaya ll baldes or sharp things away from your room . Try and identify what triggers you and avoid it. See a doc. Dream of good pleasant things everyday..

Another opinion:
Living away from home is hard enough , family not wanting to vist is also harder.. no amount of comforts can be enough if she misses her family. If have decided on keeping her...

She may just be trying to let your husband know what she is doing just to be clear about it..
From her point of view it may also be because she doesn't want her son to mistake it and feel that she...

Hi,

It only takes a firm mind to decide to change your life which you have decided.
Now the next hard part is to stick to it and work on it.

You may move into a new environment that doesn't...

Andrew, if she has a boyfriend.. she should call him! You shouldn't be in the picture.. it doesn't feel right!

How is college? Don't let all this come in the way of your college and studies. ....

I think its time for you to move on. Keep you eyes and ears open. Know more people. First of all be comfortable and be who you are.. don't try and do what you don't like...
Maybe you should stay...

Give her some time and space. Let her talk if she wants to. Be sensitive to her and if she calls or mails reply decently. Good luck!

Hi, Can you geta dog?
If you like pets, spendtime with them. You should be ale to share your feelings like you do on the forum , its good to share feelingas and you becoem lighter. Do you take...

Hi, Can you geta dog?
If you like pets, spendtime with them. You should be ale to share your feelings like you do on the forum , its good to share feelingas and you becoem lighter. Do you take...

If you remember the details of the charity, please contact administration office there and also complain. If the cops are approachable , it is better to tell them .
Please don't feel ashamed. It is...

Leave it. Why do you want to dig up more things? You were prepared for a response like this.. but once it has come- it must have made you angry and hurt. My interpretation of the letter is that they...

No point in prolonging this. Better to consult your husband and do accordingly.

Accept flaws in others. There is always something good in them remember that. Appreciate that in them and tell them so. Accept peoples mistakes. Have a good sense of humor. Have common hobbies. Keep...

Ak. Stop watching comparing. If they get along its good. If you are not comfortable wearing the Hollister clothes tell it to your boyfriend if not try it out and se ehow it looks on you!

Stop...

Emily,
Your going to have a lot of friends, so don't worry about this. Give both your friends a lot of time and be there if they want you or ask you. Meanwhile make more friends. Join a group...

LuvMyDaughter,
Forgive yourself.Please don't connect to the past- it's a matter of perspective. There is a story that says 2 sons were born to a drunkard father. One son became famus, rich and well...

In love you have to take a 'no' - don't try too hard to make it a yes!

Not sure why the guy asks you if you like him that too when he is going on with someone else?
Hey you need to really get on...

Girls do not like competition- boys thrive on it.

So do not compare girls where as guys can be compared.
Please reaad- "why men can't remember and women can't forget"
And
Like everything in the...

Tony, are you asking too many girls out?
If so they might know instinctively and want to back out.
Why don't you wait and let some of them come to you?

The more you chase the more they will l...

Opinion...
Stop linking your cell phone with her. Stop asking her for money. Reduce your calls. Thank her for her help so far.


And
Check why is your phone bill more if it is more. If you are...

Looks like your mum doesn't have enough confidence, so you ened to start building up the confidence part. She should be able to trusty you, so behave in a away to earn that trust.
She herself will...

Hey,
You seem to be too nervous.. try and relax. Give it time. You might feel sorry about it if you move out. Allow yourself to fall in love, if you fall out of it you will know it too. Don't worry...

OK, you might want to establish some rules here, slowly at first, kindly and patiently- something that everyoen will follow and do including yourself. Have a open discussion - more as a family meet...

Usha, have you thought about day care? Play school? Are such options available to you?
Do you have friends or a socia group wherein you caqn drop by for a good cup of tea?

Can you save some money...

Hey,
Be careful not to get too negative about this. It must be terribly painful but if you try and get angry it might just increase your troubles.
You might also observe your own body language and...

Maybe you should involve your mil and ask her what to do and hwo to help. You can do so also with your sis in law. Is anything surprises you you might have said privately that it would have been nice...

Sorry to hear this. If you can afford it you might invite your daughter for a trip and take her with you for harmless treks, good tours to get her mid off things. Maybe you should share this with...

She is 33 right? So you must be a lot older.
OK she is a grown up person right?

Try asking her who has addiction problem. Check out some good programs and ask for medical advice in case you need...

Wow, looks like you re going to be supermom with such lot of experience with kids :)
Cheerup, you can do it. It might be a good idea to get some help check if there are good baby sitters around....

Sorry that it happened but if it did , not much to do is there? Try and smile whenever such things happen. Don't worry about it , its you your kids will watch if such things happen. If you are cool,...

Stop watching and judging your mother in law.
It will only hurt you more and disturb and you will loose what good is there.she might only be trying to help.
Other mother in laws might turn their...

Not sure if its safe to go out at that time. Surely there is a good reason for why your mom didn't want you to go out. Actually it would do you good to study, paint, read, work and help your mom too....

Puppy, dog , kitten, a real kid, sponsership -- anything. Or even a gold fish.
Share your love. It might help.

Adopt one if it helps. Lot of love is needed in this world you know.. share it

Given what you have written the only reason appears that she is angry because you moved. But not sure if you missed out any possible reason- but frankly why does it matter?
If she is angry give her...

Too add to it.. love will find a way. So relax enjoy . Pray.

Don't worry. If the girl loves your bro, she will solve it.

You are interfering in the back accounts!

Why? To help them? Did she or they ask for it?

That's a definite no no.. Don't get in between a husband and wife.

Hi. I agree you are mad at her, angry hurt.
Please first of all define some rules you will keep. Things you will do for your daughter in law ( if it were anyone she is your sons wife first then...

Hi, How is your problem now? Do you still have the same trouble?
It juts felt so bad reading it, because if I were in your place I would be feeling exactly the same . But what to do? On the...