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Lol, if you can get over a divorce in 1 month, then congrats. I cant.

It doesn't work like that. You can tell yourself every single day I am going to have a good day... but that only lasts for so long. You see I came to realize its like reading a chapter in a book....

Thank you. I don't think anything more than friendship will ever happen. If we ever manage to foster a friendship.

I don't know. Perhaps I just meet all the damaged girls who just came out of...

Thanks guys and girls. I'm still struggling but absorbing your input. The medication is helping and also it turned out the girl who wanted to have casual sex, well it turns out when she found out...

It's a huge issue. Not small. Its not the sex, it's the concept that if every single women out there I meet is like this, then it would imply I will forever be alone. That is what's breaking me. I...

I appreciate the input really I do. Its just not that simple. It will take time, all hopes and dreams, the possible future, ideals and everything was torn away.
I try to get out there doing stuff,...

I'm even more down today... I met a girl. Beautiful. We share so many interests. Turns out like all the women I meet they are not interested in anything but sex. You see... my ex wife warned me the...

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Don't know where else to turn... but lately I'm not coping. I have fallen into a depression and I'm not getting out of it. It started about 2 weeks ago after my 1st 125km adventure race. I...

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Yip... my one mate said the one day, its not my ex wife that disappoints me, its me disappointing myself for believing she would change. Things would change.

Actually I am very stoked,...

Truth be told, I am regretting my rash decisions in my moment of sorrow. I joined the adventure racing club too, paid for my exams, paid for races.

Im so tired. All I do is work, get home, run,...

Thanks for the feedback. Oliver2011, I did join a running club. :)
New years was crap. I ended up partying until 6am and realized I'm over this. Over the party party generation.

Also, I paid and...

Agreed. Hopefully the young kids can remind me life is to be enjoyed. Why I love skating. No concern if financial issues, family or friends. Just you and your board

Yip we were an odd couple. I loved every moment. Im joining a climbing and a trail running group. Already met 2 new people yesterday skateboarding.

There is hope after all. :)

Actually she was addicted to the drugs. I got addicted with her. It made me more sociable, likeable. You see... I hate nightclubs. I hate the robotic people. Drunks. She loved it. The drugs helped me...

I was using kat. Well it's a local name. Think its called methakathonine. It sucks. I can't smoke pot. It makes me paranoid.

I was building a game on PC, third person adventure game.

Now I'm...

I went through tough times. Drug addiction, lost friends as in they died etc. took 7 years to get out. Got married. Life was good. Struggled with wife to get off drugs again. Got off. She left.
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I need advise. Wife cheated. Busy with divorce process. We tried fixing our marriage but she insisted she rather wants to be "left independent" while I must sit and wait until she is ready.
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Suggest that you go to counseling together. Make the appointment and tell him to be there. This is serious and although the internet can give you advise, the best would be to see someone in person.

Porn is bad in a relationship. It systematically destroys the addicted persons perception about being intimate. It doesn't happen over night, but slowly and surely. I was a porn addict at one point...

Well the truth is a small part, or big part wants to be with her. It's 50 / 50.
I want to, but I have been begging for too long. Gave up, and now she wants to work it out.

I cannot tell you what to do. But let me share my story. My wife sounded a lot like what you described. Nice to everyone but me, over the top, big issues about small things. I irritated her. Fact is...

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It has been ages since I last posted here. I had a happy marriage. It was off to a rocky start. In this process I have grown a lot as a person. So did my wife.
We battled through drug...

I am not sure what is busy happening.

For some reason I feel very sad. I cry so easily. I have this extreme sense empathy for animals and or people lately.
Mostly animals. For instance the video...

I can handle the fact that she told me he is super hot. What got / gets to me is the fact that she said it made her feel good.

I mean there are a lot of girls I see and think they are hot. And we...

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Thx for the feedback. I talked to her again about this. And explained how I perceived her comment about her feeling good. She the explained to me that what she meant was, she felt good knowing...

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Married 1 month now. Lol
Im 28 she is 23.
My wife told me yesterday that a dude came up to her and started flirting with her. And that she finds him extremely sexy and appealing.

She then...

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So the date to get married is in 2 weeks.
Just want to say thank you to everyone who contributed. I have learned a lot, and have grown a lot over the months.

We are now both ready for...

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I just need to let this out somewhere. Better here than with friends and loved one.

I'm deeply dissatisfied with my job. I also don't feel that I belong any more. Where out for the evening...

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I'm never going to hear the end of the dog story.

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Well... as the question states, is this possible?
Im just curious as yesterday Me and my fiancé made love. It was pretty intense, and she said it's the best orgasm ever. That was about 8am in...

Its normal. Some needs to rest for 5 minutes after sex, others 2 weeks.
I can also only go once a night with a full hard on... but if you really want more than 1, there are herbal pills and stuff...

I won't kick and kid. But I see where you are going with this.
And I guess I understand. Time to cut on some spending to get some help. These issues that's a part of me, has been coming for a long...

Now that you point that out I actually do have a control issue. As for temper, its hard to say but truth be told I was not upset at the dog. I just did not like it.

I would rather describe that...

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The last few days I have been very depressed. Its to such an extent that I barely eat or sleep. In the last 4 days I only ate 1 bowl of cerial in the mornings. I just can't eat.

It all...

Well the wedding plans have been made and we are being married by my fiance's uncle who is a man of the church. He said that according to his agreement he must give a small ceremony

Im getting married soon. Both parties wants us to have a little service of sorts. Praying etc.

The only problem is I don't believe in any religion. I was brought up to be a christian but a few...

I love animals, although some dogs are extremely annoying. My soon to be sister in law has a dog, one of those attention demon type always wanting to be petted and stuff.

I can only tolerate so...

Awesome news. Glad he made you blush. Just keep working at it.
I think many couples go downhill because they forgot that their relationship actually required active effort regardless of how many...

Why not?
I talk with my mother in law about my sex life. I have even asked for some tips. Perhaps its just demographics.
Also... most of you are doing very little good saying its him its him its...

Wow. For a moment I thought I was reading a post of my own life. Minus the kid and ex husband. My fiancé has had these deep rooted sex issues. Also ranting and raving about sex when my intention was...

I use to think the same thing in the beginning of my relationship. With time this will pass, the over wet issue.

As for your BF, he needs some real life talking to, by a peer. Someone other than...

According to the dictionary Luv is exactly the same as love.

Its strange. A few months ago I was convinced my fiancé is cheating on me. I was also convinced her mother helped her cover this up. Eventually without accusing my fiancé or ever mentioning my...

The problem is that you treated her like a queen. Most here will not agree with me, but fact is if you treat your wife/fiance/GF like a queen you will become the "good guy" or the "nice guy" and...

Thx people. Some good insight here. I will try to take everything and remember to keep it in mind. Things have calmed down a lot for now, but I'm pretty sure it will come back soon.

As said, I am...

As said already. Its your masturbation habit causing the problem of you not being able to finish.

I suffered from this and had to stop masterbating cold turkey. Even then it took about 5 - 12...

I must admit the yes dear thing works. But won't it backfire and make your girl lose respect in you, thinking you're a pushover?

"asking" this approuch of leaving the room sounds good, but I'm...

I know that feeling and I have not even been married. Still just engaged. I seem to lose communication in my relationship around the same time our sex life dies down. Then its fights over sex, where...

Its no good if she refuses to talk about it. Personally I would immediately think her lack to even discuss this is because she is feeling guilty. She could feel guilty about not giving it enough or...

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Please do not merge threads. Stating this because what i am about to describe and ask about sounds to be a general thing amongst women and i need advise on this topic alone.

Hope you...