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    I really feel your pain, I'm sorry you're going...

    I really feel your pain, I'm sorry you're going through this. I can understand that you want closure, who wouldn't? But the reality is, you don't always get closure.

    Every relationship is a...
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    We'll need some more information than that. I'm...

    We'll need some more information than that. I'm assuming you two broke up? What were the reasons for the break up? Does she want to get back together as well? Please provide us with some more...
  3. Question: Clueless

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    Kctiger is right, there seem to be a lot of...

    Kctiger is right, there seem to be a lot of unanswered questions. However, this guy has told you flat out that he doesn't date (ie no relationships) Are people capable of change? Of course. Maybe he...
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    I would probably have done the same thing as you...

    I would probably have done the same thing as you (just not in text form) It's too hard in a text to get across your emotions, and the person receiving the text could totally take it a different way...
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    I agree with CarrotTalker. When did you and your...

    I agree with CarrotTalker. When did you and your first love break up? Rebounds are not fair to anyone involved and never end well. Take some time to heal.
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    It really sounds like you care for him more than...

    It really sounds like you care for him more than just a friend. It's normal to be worried that if you open up and he doesn't feel the same way that it could possibly ruin your friendship, but are you...
  7. I agree with Rome - why did you two break up? ...

    I agree with Rome - why did you two break up?

    But from what I can tell, he's told you he can never love you again and he broke up with you. It sounds like he's made his feelings very clear to you....
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    I'm going to assume this is the same guy you were...

    I'm going to assume this is the same guy you were talking about back in February since you said in this post you've been dating him for a little over three months? With that being said, I'm confused...
  9. Any update? I'm curious as to what happened?

    Any update? I'm curious as to what happened?
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    I agree with The Original. This girl CLEARLY does...

    I agree with The Original. This girl CLEARLY does not know what she wants. But what I do think is that she is enjoying the attention you're giving her without having the responsibilities of actually...
  11. Of course you want to help her, but are you...

    Of course you want to help her, but are you willing to get back together with her just so she doesn't hurt herself? Then what happens in the future when she sleeps around on you again? Are you...
  12. I would strongly suggest you contact her parents...

    I would strongly suggest you contact her parents and tell them what is happening. There is no reason why you should have to be in a relationship with someone that cheats on you numerous of times,...
  13. Yes, exactly, words are just words. At the end of...

    Yes, exactly, words are just words. At the end of the day your actions are going to speak A LOT louder.

    Don't expect that you'll get back together or put too much stress on yourselves. Just take...
  14. I think that if you both truly want to get back...

    I think that if you both truly want to get back together you need to take things very slow. You need to be 100% honest with yourself (and her) about where you're at.

    You've realized that you need...
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    You have such low self esteem, I can't even...

    You have such low self esteem, I can't even imagine what you are going through, it sounds absolutely awful. What has he done to make you to feel like you can't trust him? You said that he has lied to...
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    Well, that's great that you've matured and learnt...

    Well, that's great that you've matured and learnt your lesson because I would hate to see you make this mistake again in the future. No, you may not have cheated physically, but you cheated on her...
  17. This relationship didn't sound healthy from the...

    This relationship didn't sound healthy from the very beginning. She was checking your phone, Facebook, emails etc. She had no reason to believe your were cheating on her, I don't care if she was 20...
  18. I agree with everyone else. Looks like she's...

    I agree with everyone else. Looks like she's moved on. You can't rely on someone to be the sole reason for your happiness... honestly, that's way too much pressure to put on someone.

    I suggest you...
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    Break ups are never easy. You should be very...

    Break ups are never easy. You should be very proud of yourself for being strong and getting out of an abusive relationship! Great job girl, that takes a lot of guts!

    All you need is time, and the...
  20. All this facebooking, poking,messaging and wall...

    All this facebooking, poking,messaging and wall posts are all very confusing.

    So, in January his ex is saying on Facebook that she loves him and loved speding time with him (I'm assuming they...
  21. Sorry, I misunderstood. I assumed you contacted...

    Sorry, I misunderstood. I assumed you contacted her SINCE you broke up 8 months ago.

    Basically what we're telling you because you're feeling all this guilt again, is to NOT to contact her. There's...
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    Well, how did it go? Like "I Wish" said, rebounds...

    Well, how did it go? Like "I Wish" said, rebounds are extremely unfair to everyone involved.

    Just make sure you're honest about where you're at what your intentions are.
  23. I agree with Tal. Just because you feel...

    I agree with Tal.

    Just because you feel guilty for the way you treated her, you need her to know you're sorry so that you can move on and no longer feel like crap.

    What about her? Do you think...
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    I wouldn't respond at all, and please don't...

    I wouldn't respond at all, and please don't accept his friend request. He'll get the hint. Trust me.
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    If you trust her, it shouldn't really matter if...

    If you trust her, it shouldn't really matter if this guy has feelings for her

    Its how she feels that's important.
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    Do you have any provocative magazines? How about...

    Do you have any provocative magazines? How about any DVD's? Do you throw these away when you get a girlfriend? I'm guessing no.

    The bigger question here is what were you doing looking through her...
  27. Hard to say. All you can really do is express to...

    Hard to say. All you can really do is express to him that the whole situation smells fishy. And it does.

    Your friend sounds like he is in a vulnerable spot and if this woman has bad intentions who...
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    You know that we can't possibly tell you anything...

    You know that we can't possibly tell you anything without some more information.

    What makes you think he is cheating?
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    I agree with everything the above posters have...

    I agree with everything the above posters have said, especially about breaking up over text or email.

    This is mental,emotional and physical abuse. It is only a matter of time before the physical...
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    Hard to say where you stand, why don't you just...

    Hard to say where you stand, why don't you just ask her what her intentions are? It's not fair to you for her to continue to play mind games.

    She's may have turned 18 recently, but you're still...
  31. By finding love elsewhere I didn't mean look for...

    By finding love elsewhere I didn't mean look for another guy. You're obviously not getting the love you need from this guy so don't stay with him hoping things will change.

    You need to separate...
  32. One-sided love is not fair to either person....

    One-sided love is not fair to either person. Also, relationships are hard enough to keep even when both people are actively in love with one another. You cannot make it happen on your own.

    It...
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    Just say what you told us, approach her,...

    Just say what you told us, approach her, introduce yourself. You could tell her you were wondering if you could maybe get her number or grab something to eat sometime together. Keep it light and...
  34. Well if you've asked him and he's told you to...

    Well if you've asked him and he's told you to 'stop being silly' and you still don't believe him then your options are limited really.

    What is he doing that is making you feel this way? Are you...
  35. You're both in college for heavens sake. Aren't...

    You're both in college for heavens sake. Aren't you old enough to just tell each other if there are feelings there?
  36. You live in Utah, correct? I believe there is no...

    You live in Utah, correct? I believe there is no law against the two of you dating (no sex involved) However, since you are under 16, if your parents do not approve they can take legal action to...
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    Wow, this is all very intense for 2.5 months. He...

    Wow, this is all very intense for 2.5 months. He needs space and is going through a rough time. He isn't willing to let you in to help him out, so there's really not much else you can do.

    This...
  38. You need to stick to you values. If him going to...

    You need to stick to you values. If him going to a strip club goes against your values then I really think he should at least consider your feelings, if not respect them completely. However, if this...
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    I think that you need to look at why you cheated...

    I think that you need to look at why you cheated on her. You knew that this would really hurt her, and did it anyway - as a matter of fact, you had plenty of time to think about it since the...
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    I would also tell her. You really shouldn't start...

    I would also tell her. You really shouldn't start the marriage with this on your conscience, nor do I think you want to.

    If she were to find out later think about how much worse it would be. This...
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    I think that's really great about having the guys...

    I think that's really great about having the guys as bridesmaids! I will probably have the same thing if I ever get married! ;)

    I suppose the only thing I don't understand is why you think...
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    I defend the idea of me drinking with other guys...

    I defend the idea of me drinking with other guys when my boyfriend isn't around because I have a lot of very close guy friends and my partner is 100% okay with me drinking with them (or casually with...
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    Jamie90: Guys come up and flatter me compliment...

    Jamie90: Guys come up and flatter me compliment me all the time too, they also do it when my boyfriend is around. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with someone complimenting you or flattering...
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    I don't agree with this at all. I'm sorry. I...

    I don't agree with this at all. I'm sorry. I agree that relationships have boundaries, but this sounds ridiculous to me. I've never felt the need to have to protect my boyfriend from the tempation of...
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    The only person that can help you with this one...

    The only person that can help you with this one is him. You really need to sit down and have a good chat with him and really find out whether you can trust him. Because if you can't, there's no...
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    No, she broke up with you, I wouldn't call her...

    No, she broke up with you, I wouldn't call her every few weeks to let her know you're thinking about her and hope she's doing well... I'm sorry to say (and I apologize if this sounds harsh) but I'm...
  47. Wow, how irritating! Is she kidding?? So,...

    Wow, how irritating! Is she kidding??

    So, basically, she decides when she's had enough of the relationship, then she decides also when you're going to forgive her and take her back?

    This girl...
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    According to her past, it sort of seems like she...

    According to her past, it sort of seems like she rushes into things (marriage) a little too fast, wouldn't you say? Or she just has terrible luck, I'm not too sure.

    She might have rushed into...
  49. While I agree she should definitely not be...

    While I agree she should definitely not be calling the shots, I definitely still think meeting next weekend WOULD be better than this weekend... just for the sole reason you shouldn't rush into...
  50. I think, if you both do want to meet, that you...

    I think, if you both do want to meet, that you should wait until the next weekend.

    She's right, this isn't something you should rush back into. Give it another week, hopefully her emotions will...
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