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Don't let her "I was being discreet" comment eat you up so much buddy. Your intuition told you something was wrong and in the end it was confirmed. She is feeling guilty and looking for some closure...

Do you HAVE to be at this function? If not I would say just skip it. With her always trying to hurt or punish you on the phone, I can imagine the hurtful things she is planning when she sees you in...

Ahhhhhhhh, I see. Had one of those (stalker) they can be annoying. Even more reason to NC. Good Luck, Sounds like your almost there.

Just so it is clear... Bam there she is, where? In you head? In your House? Calling you?

I think you already made up your mind about contacting this mystery girl. That being said, once you find out who this person is, and if you are convinced it is your ex then you need to realize a few...

Your situation is too familiar to mine. Why stay? Why love? Why Everything? Your so called love got COLD feet and kicked you to the curb. Those are facts right? It is really hard to get rejected, I...

So where are you now? No Post usually means spending all your time with the "other" Personally, I am backing off my girl. She is acting like a sponge lately. Takeing everything for granted and not...

I feel for you pal, You are stuck in a really weird place right now. I mean lets weigh out the pro's and con's of this whole thing. Feel free to add to this list, because I am just using the...

When you call her tonight, as it seems you have already made up your mind about that... Explain what happened with your phone, and that you are disappointed that you missed her call. Tell her that...

Slow down, wait a few days for her to respond. Wait, Wait, Wait. I know you are excited to talk to her, but remember what I said about equality. Let her make the next move. Don't rush it, or you will...

First off I believe you should check out the "Dating" section of AMHD for good tips from allot of people going through the same thing as yourself. This is the "Relationship" section and it takes...

As hard as it would be to consider, could she possibly have a thing for your friend? With you the common link? Also, you can change your VM,IM message to away while you are on your trip.

Are you seeking answers that went ignored during the breakup? Because what you are doing is trying to piece together what really happened in her eyes. Asking yourself is there somebody else? Etc,...

For me the worst thing is not knowing what is going on with our relationship. 6 months ago I could wake up in the morning and know that my fiancé is in love with me. Now I wake up and wonder if my...

I am so sorry for your pain. I have posted on here because my Fiancé is acting all weird towards me, and we are in the process of working it all out. I have just read your whole story and hope I'm...

I've said this before. Don't move out of your place, Let her move. This is all her idea why should you move? Give her some time to relocate. She is the one that wants out, let her go.

I think that the 1st break up caused more issues than it resolved. I just wonder if it is too late to get it back. I try, but get frustrated when it's not returned.

It's her "whatever" attitude...

Thanks for all the great advice in the past, I hope to get more right now.

Brief summary of my history: been with my girl for almost 7 years. Engaged 1 year. Had some rough times but never talked...

Now that your 70% over your last relationship, why would you wan't another one? Take some time to heal in your hometown, not CUBA. Vacations are awesome, but sadly... distractions.

I think you should confront your current BF about the issues you have with him before you go any further with the other guy. If he is unable to give you the attention, time that you seek then you...

I think you can avoid this by deleting her from ALL IM's. This way you won't feel tempted to do this anymore. Better yet, you can ignore her user name so even if she is trying to contact you, the IM...

Now, that should actually make it easier for you to move on. Here's why If Kristi keeps the baby, they will have a lifelong commitment with each other as parents. She will contantly in your business...

When you text her back, and reading the history involved tells me you will give in... I hope the text say's something like "Thanks for the offer but I have other plans". I'm doubting your NC skills,...

As far as leaving the house, Don't do it. If she needs a break let her make arrangements to sleep elsewhere. She seems like she is close with her sister, well let her live over there while she is...

Start No Contact immediately. I have been where you are right now and I understand the pain involved. But you must keep your dignity. I know you want to be there for her during her mothers surgery,...

As a guy, I would suspect that you may have fell for a player. I don't have much info to go on, but anyone that don't answer calls & text would either have found something better to do or just not...

Thanks for the advice so far. I guess "the talk" needs to happen. I was hoping to avoid this due to the fact I'm afraid of the outcome. But, for my own sanity I need to have it.

I've seen this so many times it hurts. Not knowing why is the worst feeling of all. DO NOT call her anymore. If she calls you, don't answer until the 2nd or 3rd time. If you feel the need to ask her...

First, Joanne gave you some good advice. If you still can't figure it out, just try to forget about it.

The question I have is... Does your current BF know about this? Do you think is is fair to...

I am confused about my relationship right now. I have posted on here a couple of months ago seeking help about my fiancé needing space, you all helped out so much that I am back for more.

My...

Amen, and I'm not even a church goer.

Let her have her space and while your at it take some time to reflect about yourself. She may be "perfect in your eyes" as my almost ex was. But it wasn't...

As much as you would hate it... go spend a few hours with your friends and watch a BB game. Not only will you be proud of yourself, you will enjoy the time as an INDIVIDUAL. Forget them feelings for...

You told her what to do , she listened and now you are heartbroken... 80% of the guys on here (including me) did the same thing. We knew in some way that we wanted them (her) to be happy. We didn't...

Thanks Nick... again. I think that I will never know the real reason for her departure. And I will never take for granted that she came back. She asked me if I needed more time alone to figure things...

Your quest to change her mind about how she feels about you can only start with your actions from this day forward. And once you are over her, and made yourself that "guy she fell for" is available...

I'm thinking move on. I think what I read was that there is physical abuse here. If so, can't really help you too much. Maybe find a case worker that is educated about this type of relationship. Good...

Brian, did you live with the person doing all the quick break/unbreak situations? In my situation we have slept together every night for the last 5 years. I want to know because, if this is a pattern...

I let her back in my life and I may still need professional help. LOL. I think that co-dependency may be a issue here. She left because she wanted me to feel the same pain she did when I asked her to...

As it turns out, she wants me to iron out my issues. I do have some and I have accepted resposibility about them. She is back in my life and I am happy about that. She has moved back home and I plan...

It helped me, made me feel normal once again. Breaking the Habit & Somewhere I belong. Check it out

Hmmm

WOW, there is hope. Faith can work. She spent one night without me and left a VM the next AM while crying, stating that she could not sleep because I was not next to her.

(I turned off my phone...

The truth will work in your case. You don't have to lie. I'm sure he will be happy knowing you want to look your best when he gets out. Have you been waiting 5 years for him? If so 11 days will be...

Maybe you can give us some background info so we can help. Sounds like he is either really mad at you or don't care. Much more info needed.

There are really a lot more questions than answers from this post. Such as: Is your current BF a rebound from your Ex? When you went out with the new BF did you want to make your ex jealous? Do what...

Does she know that you know about her lying? If so, she may be stuck in a revolving door of lies that she can't get out of. I suggest backing away from her give her some space. Don't ask so many...

Hang in there Man. After reading your post, I thought to myself what a mature kid. Hey I can call you that I'm 20 years older than you... lol. You stated that some of the effects of this may become...

My thoughts exactly. I think she didn't expect me to make it so easy for her to go. I just hope that if she does return, that I won't be so resentful that we will have to go through this again. But I...

There are still a few more questions open, i.e. was the relationship based on mutual happiness or did she start to distance herself lately? Was this 'surgery' necessary or cosmetic? I know you see...

Thanks Nick