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    JudyKayTee, do you have children?

    JudyKayTee, do you have children?
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    Thank you all for your responses. I do not want...

    Thank you all for your responses. I do not want to tell my kids that there is or is not a god; I want them to make that decision on their own. I am just afraid my (future) wife would continually try...
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    She wants to get married in a church and I do...

    She wants to get married in a church and I do not.
    She wants to send our (future) kids to a church school and I do not.
    Whether we get married in a church is not that big of a deal to me. The...
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    Opposing religious beliefs.

    I am an atheist and she is catholic. How would you go about resolving issues, such as, where to get married, whether you send your kids to church, etc etc.
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    Does you being possessive mean you're clingy?...

    Does you being possessive mean you're clingy? What is it? We need more information.
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    Take the chance. Talk to him about it.

    Take the chance. Talk to him about it.
  7. It's a good thing you didn't see her. She now has...

    It's a good thing you didn't see her. She now has a boyfriend which means she's OFF limits. I suggest finding someone that loves you and ONLY you.

    Initiate NC. Embrace the pain, learn from it,...
  8. Question: Bad sex life

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    COMMUNICATE. This is definitely a red flag. ...

    COMMUNICATE.

    This is definitely a red flag.

    "I do everything my girlfriend asks of me." You're not her child. Sex isn't an incentive for you to do things for her.
  9. Sooner or later, your paranoia will steer her...

    Sooner or later, your paranoia will steer her away from you.
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    How old are you two?

    How old are you two?
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    Elaborate?

    Elaborate?
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    Why don't you start by saying hi?

    Why don't you start by saying hi?
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    I'm not a believer in "meant to be."...

    I'm not a believer in "meant to be."
    Relationships take work, and if the both of you share good chemistry with trust and communication on top of that, I don't see why not.
  14. Aw, how sweet! How about taking her out on a...

    Aw, how sweet!
    How about taking her out on a nice date?
  15. Are you currently employed?

    Are you currently employed?
  16. I've seen numerous relationships ruined solely...

    I've seen numerous relationships ruined solely because of social-networking, and on the flip side, I've seen relationships blossom through social-networking.

    As the saying goes,

    Guns don't...
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    It sounds to me like you already know what to do....

    It sounds to me like you already know what to do. Yes, it's going to be hard. Will it be worth it? Definitely. Stick around and vent when you need to, we will be here for you.
  18. Question: Alone? Forever?

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    You are eighteen years old. You need to relax....

    You are eighteen years old. You need to relax. Focus on school, and keep doing all the things you're doing, everything will fall into place eventually.
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    Give her space. If she truly loves you like you...

    Give her space. If she truly loves you like you say she does, she will be back. Until then, don't wait.
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    She's confused. Give her space. Most importantly,...

    She's confused. Give her space. Most importantly, give yourself space. She has already told you she doesn't want to be in a relationship, so accept her wishes, and in my opinion, cut all contact with...
  21. Oliver1, I suggest you check the dates on the...

    Oliver1,

    I suggest you check the dates on the threads you're posting in.
  22. You deserve better. Never settle for less. Never...

    You deserve better. Never settle for less. Never talk to him again.
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    If you learn how to build a life for yourself...

    If you learn how to build a life for yourself that you're happy with and enjoy, chances are you'll find a guy eventually. Hang in there, stop worrying. The past is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and...
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    You're no longer together. You need to consider...

    You're no longer together. You need to consider your feelings first and foremost.

    My advice? Go NO-contact.
  25. I assure you that life is too short to be treated...

    I assure you that life is too short to be treated like a door-mat.
  26. Angry Oliver, Good advice was presented to the...

    Angry Oliver,

    Good advice was presented to the OP and he may choose to take it for what it is, as you should do so as well.

    You're a new member here, and already stirring up trouble?

    To the...
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    Leave him a lone. Date someone that's a bit more...

    Leave him a lone. Date someone that's a bit more mature.
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    If you're honestly that naïve, you have bigger...

    If you're honestly that naïve, you have bigger problems than you have presented us with.
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    I think I know what you're referring to.. but,...

    I think I know what you're referring to.. but, before I answer your question.. How old are you two?
  30. I love your idea. I'm sure he'll love it as well.

    I love your idea.
    I'm sure he'll love it as well.
  31. Chat speak is prohibited on this website. Please...

    Chat speak is prohibited on this website.
    Please try to type in coherent english.

    Anyway, from what I could decipher.. Before you met your boyfriend you were a player and a liar? And, because of...
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    You need to fertilize your own grass instead of...

    You need to fertilize your own grass instead of thinking of jumping over to someone else's lawn.
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    What sort of advice are you looking for? Do you...

    What sort of advice are you looking for? Do you want us to tell you she'll come back one day with open arms begging for your forgiveness? What do you want to hear? Because, obviously, the reality is...
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    In these four months that you two have been...

    In these four months that you two have been separated has she expressed any feelings of wanting to get back with you?
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    Are you honestly that naïve? She doesn't want to...

    Are you honestly that naïve? She doesn't want to be with you. Open your eyes and look at this vicious cycle you're stuck in.
  36. Question: What should I do?

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    You're so young. There's no need to get tangled...

    You're so young. There's no need to get tangled up in so much drama with a control freak.
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    Perhaps you should find an outlet for your...

    Perhaps you should find an outlet for your emotions...

    Jiu Jitsu
    Boxing
    Muay-thai
    Cross-fit

    I've benefited from all of it.
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    Feeling one way is normal, acting on it is...

    Feeling one way is normal, acting on it is completely different.
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    Those feelings are temporary. But, what won't be...

    Those feelings are temporary. But, what won't be temporary is, you losing her because you're being so insecure,

    TRUST HER.
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    Stop being so clingy or you will lose her. It's...

    Stop being so clingy or you will lose her. It's as simple as that.

    You've been together for two years. From what you've posted, she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her. The foundation of...
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    You came here for advice. Based on our past...

    You came here for advice. Based on our past experiences, we gave you what we honestly believe will make you a happier better person in THE LONG RUN. But, it is a free country and you're allowed to do...
  42. Question: What should I do?

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    How old are you two? We're not going to tell...

    How old are you two?

    We're not going to tell you what to do, but, there are many alternative options to abortion. Ask a doctor.
  43. Leave him alone. You know you're getting used,...

    Leave him alone.
    You know you're getting used, but yet, you tolerate it?
    No Contact.
  44. Question: Broke up

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    Why did you two fight? How old are you two?

    Why did you two fight?

    How old are you two?
  45. Stick with NC.

    Stick with NC.
  46. Question: One sided love?

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    It's hard to comprehend your problem when it's...

    It's hard to comprehend your problem when it's written very poorly. But here's my 2 cents,

    Once you cheat, that trust that was once there can never be replaced. There will always be doubt in the...
  47. A nineteen year-old in love with a fifteen...

    A nineteen year-old in love with a fifteen year-old? That seems very sketchy.. It would be best to discuss this with your parents. When your trust with them is broken, it is very hard to repair it.
  48. Everyone is going to have a different opinion on...

    Everyone is going to have a different opinion on the matter, as for mine, I'll leave you with a quote...
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    More reason to let it go. Initiate NC and remove...

    More reason to let it go. Initiate NC and remove him from your life.
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    How old are you two?

    How old are you two?
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