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    It's okay to be confused... it's okay not to know...

    It's okay to be confused... it's okay not to know or anticipate what to feel... you will have your own unique experience regardless of what everyone else says. You are not a virgin and there are...
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    No none of it. She is doing college and living...

    No none of it. She is doing college and living the college life... it has been 3 months since you broke up and your relationship lasted for 2.5 years. Must you always be on the pursuit? You need...
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    Something tells me for you not to sell it yet! ...

    Something tells me for you not to sell it yet! You will have to take it to a professional... I tried Google, Yahoo, and a whole bunch of ways but can't find anything... thing is this Spanish...
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    Yes it definitely a hard one! What I can say is...

    Yes it definitely a hard one! What I can say is that I did a lot of paintings... my names not much more ledgable :)... I am sure if anyone could read my writing and searched me down it would be...
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    What I did, is, even at just under the shoulder...

    What I did, is, even at just under the shoulder length hair... curled it! Dressed my hair and my makeup - dark, sexy, bedroom eye makeup (only in the evening - in the daytime it may look a little...
  6. If she is now hanging out with other people......

    If she is now hanging out with other people... telling you all about it - she is deliberately upsetting you. What would happen if you told her about your new friend? So, it would be okay for her to...
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    Yeah I get what your saying, I have Chestnut...

    Yeah I get what your saying, I have Chestnut Brown Hair, Hazel Eyes and Olive Skin... so I could get away with a lot of colors... I always say... if it is one color... accessorize!

    For you, have...
  8. You are not crazy. You're a guy, you want to...

    You are not crazy. You're a guy, you want to ensure the child is in a financially secure/stable home physically and emotionally. You are not sure if you can be a father right now and this is a...
  9. You should really get Rose to join and post...

    You should really get Rose to join and post herself.
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    Crappy haha... you HAVE to tell him before you...

    Crappy haha... you HAVE to tell him before you physically hurt him :eek:. So, over-doing it might not work... like buying him a baby blanket and a soother... haha! Just a thought because then he...
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    Well, he won't get it unless you tell him you...

    Well, he won't get it unless you tell him you don't like it. Honestly, just tell him, look I really like you and think you're a great guy but I don't like it when you talk to me like... and say it. ...
  12. Okay, if you post about someone else's issues...

    Okay, if you post about someone else's issues then your not being clear. You should be clear on your post that it isn't about you and who it is about... or they can post themselves.

    As it goes...
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    I didn't read any posts... just a quick reply. ...

    I didn't read any posts... just a quick reply. She might be dealing with trust issues... you two are great distances apart and she has no idea what is going on. She trusted you up till this point...
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    If your going to a ceremony (I don't mean...

    If your going to a ceremony (I don't mean reception) it is respectful to cover your shoulders in the church. You can still wear a strapless dress but maybe a shawl (weather permitting) or a light...
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    I find it odd that he isn't responding to you in...

    I find it odd that he isn't responding to you in any loving or sexual manner when you initiate sex or physical contact in any way. Most guys don't refuse sex and most guys respond with a hug or a...
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    Wearing your heart on your sleeve is a very hard...

    Wearing your heart on your sleeve is a very hard thing. You're an open book and you speak your mind. Very direct... sometimes people don't understand your approach and have such a strong ability to...
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    Talaniman Fan Here :p!!!

    Talaniman Fan Here :p!!!
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    No, because it takes our free will away :)... the...

    No, because it takes our free will away :)... the Government can place it as a martial law and what then? We have no choice. God gives choice... even if bad things happen; there is always a choice....
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    And I COMPLETELY concur. Isn't it nice just to...

    And I COMPLETELY concur. Isn't it nice just to discuss things :).



    If that's what you believe then at least you still believe there is a God. We both believe in God, just differently. ...
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    xoxaprilwine can't delete this spot??

    xoxaprilwine can't delete this spot??
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    I will have to write tomorrow!

    I will have to write tomorrow!
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    So you got my last point and if your happy now...

    So you got my last point and if your happy now then it's good. I have accepted it... because if it is good enough for you then so be it; I might be a little rigid around the corner but I guess I...
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    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/break-...

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/break-pateren-403966.html
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    *Confused* What are we talking about? Pattern...

    *Confused* What are we talking about? Pattern with her? Or most of your past experiences as well? What was the duration in length regarding the relationship? Provide more details if possible.
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    Well maybe you need to find someone "independent"...

    Well maybe you need to find someone "independent" and "stable" but with those qualities previously mentioned. Earthy composure - meaning a bit more grounded in personality, life decisions,...
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    Interesting, so it's the Western way of going...

    Interesting, so it's the Western way of going about talking about it! I guess we learn something everyday! I am sorry, I guess your fingers weren't too long and your keyboard is working. :)
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    Good, so you need someone happy and spontaneous...

    Good, so you need someone happy and spontaneous but that can also maintain her earthly composure and be down to earth. Independence is a must. She should also be able to draw out your crazy side...
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    Recognizing the issue you have is the first step....

    Recognizing the issue you have is the first step. Acknowledgment of your contributions is the second. Look at your relationship with your mother and her relationship with your father (or whatever...
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    She knows all about it. She doesn't want...

    She knows all about it.



    She doesn't want to hear about it anymore. She moved on. But I liked it and agree.
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    This is a nice perspective but she is not as...

    This is a nice perspective but she is not as easily influenced by other people as she say's and is stronger then she claims not to be :).
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    Wow, some unavoidable points here as presented by...

    Wow, some unavoidable points here as presented by Elliot. Simply at it's best: "What does not kill you makes you stronger" even if it is at the cost of millions…there is always a result and hope...
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    Yes but you can't control people, places or...

    Yes but you can't control people, places or things at all times. His influence is in you, in me, in your neighbor right now, being a good person and committing good deeds, he is there to provide...
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    I did read the definition. So, I stand and have,...

    I did read the definition. So, I stand and have, that if there is no proof of his influence to you then equally there is proof of his influence to others. I am sorry if I read too much into it; but...
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    I get it but you kind of confused me because...

    I get it but you kind of confused me because first you say why he doesn't intervene but with that statement you said he created cancer. Isn't that intervention? That doesn't make sense…why would...
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    How can you not be blaming God when you say "God...

    How can you not be blaming God when you say "God created it" when he didn't - cancer is caused by all the lovely toxins we created. God DOES desert non-believers, but he is forgiving and patient...
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    Yes, of course, when some time passes on and you...

    Yes, of course, when some time passes on and you have allowed for complete detachment things will get easier. Just think how silly it sounds when you say you will never find someone like him or...
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    You can't blame God (or...

    You can't blame God (or anyone/anything/situation) for all your problems or losses (if you believe in God) and I know it is hard not to be angry with him with all these things but maybe praying and...
  38. Well you just started seeing this guy. I would...

    Well you just started seeing this guy. I would leave the emotional stuff out until you and he have surpassed a certain time to be able to be comfortable with discussing emotional issues. Or at...
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    It is clearing your mind. Jesus use to go to the...

    It is clearing your mind. Jesus use to go to the Desert and I think he was there for a while and talk to God? Satan also approached him but Jesus refused his temptation. I don't get it? What...
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    The concept of Birth, Death to Rebirth is...

    The concept of Birth, Death to Rebirth is anything but Religious... it is a concept. I don't recall involving religion in that particular post. Though when you talk about God it is hard not to...
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    Well you can live... but you can live without...

    Well you can live... but you can live without purpose... or you can live for the future and not today... we grope about how life sucks when we should embrace it, learn and grow from it. Until you...
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    In death there is rebirth. I am sorry for your...

    In death there is rebirth. I am sorry for your suffering. I have been told by many elders that the closer you are to death; the closer you become to God. Only when you can face death; you can...
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    Of course they are going to die, they have no...

    Of course they are going to die, they have no natural resources... we do. We where given everything for survival... poor ants they are in a glass relying on the owner to provide.
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    We can ultimately believe anything and have right...

    We can ultimately believe anything and have right to but how can you believe without some sort of faith even if it is blind and not timed? No proof; just faith - to some it is next to impossible and...
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    There where a few things going on for her: ...

    There where a few things going on for her:

    *She won't see you for 6 months*
    *She is confused*
    *She used bad judgment*
    *She was drinking*
    *She may have issues in her relationship that make her...
  46. Unfortunately yes. It sounds like you work in...

    Unfortunately yes. It sounds like you work in the criminal industry and it "should be" against policy to obtain records about friends, family, acquaintances or anyone you know unless it was advised...
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    It always is about control. Unfortunately, you...

    It always is about control. Unfortunately, you will have to deal with her as per some of my recommendations. I know it has worked BUT your house or your car are a worried thing... guaranteed she...
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    There is no point bottloling it up and then...

    There is no point bottloling it up and then making excuses for her.

    Talk about it from your heart and most importantly, talk to her. You two spent three years together and am sure some sort of...
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    I agree, she shouldn't have said that......

    I agree, she shouldn't have said that... especially after a 3 year relationship. It doesn't matter how drunk she was she should have never said "I don't love you" or "I am not into you anymore"......
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    Holly cow! Well, I have family that had a friend...

    Holly cow! Well, I have family that had a friend like that... but... not so crazy! This lady has a husband and kids and she still behaves this way? Well I know your friends with her sister and I...
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