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Seems like you have been doing really well - don't beat yourself up because you broke your no contact - seems like she got a little jealous cause she thought you were in a new relationship, maybe a...

Exactly - don't waste your time - move on and upwards, remove the confusion - HIM! Go off and be happy and leave the waster in the dirt! :)

Enigmagnetic - Cheeky! ;) hahahaha!

Swordfish - be great to carry on chatting - ride the waves together and all that! I lookforward to hearing from you! WR xxx

Just be yourself and go with the flow of things - don't push anything and it will all fall into place naturally! The pair of you have obviously clicked so just get on getting on!

Good luck xxx

I would ignore him he's playing games with you by the sounds of it - don't be his friend he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve having his new relationships shoved in your face - shows what a...

I use no contact because I want to get over the person more quick and move onto with my life, not in the hope they will miss me enough to want to get back together because what would be the point of...

Your very welcome hun! Keep up the good work :)

Ahh thanks hun! Been 3 weeks now and no more contact from him, think he may of got the message!! Thank god! Bike riding eh? Id love to do that too!! Hey I think I might learn! Keep your head up,...

Of course you did the right thing! Im very proud of you and I'm sure everyone else on here will agree! Start looking after number one... THATS YOU!! My opinion is that cutting contact is the only...

Enigmagnetic... Ok your on!! But ud have to catch me first!! Haha!

But in all honesty hun you'll be fine given time and after all its his loss and oneday he will realise that - by that time...

Congrats I'm glad you have gotton round to this way of thinking - there's only one way to go from here, and that's up! Well done and be proud of yourself! Let us know how u progress... :)

I agree no contact is the best way - its been 2 weeks since my break up and its been hard but I feel so much stronger and everyday I feel better because by no contact I have my power back, he's been...

Well done you - be strong and keep it up, don't waste your time on anyone that isn't willing to waste time on you! :)

If I were you id not call until she makes the effort to call you, if she really thinks anything of you then she will be in touch, even if it's a text message... Hard to do I know but give it a go and...

Id like to help as well - we all need a shoulder at times and this site helped me a lot - there's a lot of good people in this world after all! So let me know what's going on??

Ahh mate! What happened to the no contact rule you told me about?? You should have deleted her off your Facebook straight away like I did! Its only been 2 weeks for me and I've still made no effort...

Thank you xxxx

Right well he text back - just put - I'm so sorry x

what a loser I have deleted and will never reply again - go me!

Sorry I'm just venting my anger, and need some words of encouragement!

Got yet another text last night - saying that he doesn't deserve the silent treatment and there isn't a day that goes past when he isn't thinking of me xxxx
I did reply this morning just to make him...

KICKBOXING!!

I started it within 2 days of my ex boyfriend splitting with me and it's the best thing I've ever done!

Ive added you on msn...

Another quick question - why am I feeling bad because I haven't let him know I'm OK?? Surely I shouldn't be wanting to ease his guilt, plus I'm not OK so that would be a...

It certainly does!! Do it at Ashdown Leisure Centre!
Thanks for the wise words, it certainly helps - how are u by the way??

Yes Jiser - I've been out in our lovely town all weekend having fun - I've started kickboxing, massive stress release - I recommend that to anyone!! I've deleted myspace, I've deleted numbers, msn...

He said he didn't have the love feelings for me just that he really liked me, enjoyed my company, liked me a lot and that it was the hardest choice to let me go - I'm not the type of person to beg...

No don't concern yourself with his worries - concentrate on yourself - after all you are number one! :)

OK so I've had more texts and emails over the weekend - and I read and deleted all of them with no replies! He was begging to let him know I was OK - I was quite upset and almost felt guilty about...

Yeah I agree let someone else get your things from him, hell he doesn't even deserve to see you!!
May you continue to be strong - oneday ull look back on this when your happily settled with the...

Wow - personally I think your amazing to not have contacted him and your very strong - give yourself a big pat on the back for that one! :)

As to contacting him - my opinion would be not to it...

Just to add to the comments - my boyfriend of 7 months split with me 5 days ago - he never loved me, just said he liked, cared and wanted to be with me, obviously I developed feelings over time but...

Hi

Just wanted to vent really - I got dumped 4 days ago by my man of 7 months - reason being that he didn't love me or ever did, the guy wasn't nasty at all in fact seemed quite upset about it...