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    True or not, something like that shouldn't be...

    True or not, something like that shouldn't be taken lightly. Ok so lets say its true.. he's a cheater and a liar, now lets say it's not true... that makes him a liar. Look this guy is NO good for...
  2. Question: What to do

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    If you are questioning it for a second, then...

    If you are questioning it for a second, then there are obviously trust issues. Take the time to talk to her.. see what she says. I think it is time you decide who it is you trust... them or her??
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    Yes, time to let this one go! Until he can get...

    Yes, time to let this one go! Until he can get things straight in his life, he'll never be able to have a healthy relationship with another.
  4. Question: What do I do now?

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    You are correct.. she is definitely "having her...

    You are correct.. she is definitely "having her cake and eating it too," and you my friend are an enabler. If you stay in her life (hang out with her, take her places, etc) than why would she get rid...
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    Think of a time in your life (not this incident)...

    Think of a time in your life (not this incident) that you would have sworn your life was over. You are still here now... and you will be long after this guy is out of your mind. It's hard at first,...
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    I hate to hear anyone going through this however,...

    I hate to hear anyone going through this however, I don't feel you are making it any easier on yourself by waiting around. She clearly stated that she wans to be single, so give her that. You love...
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    Ever heard the saying "With friends like that who...

    Ever heard the saying "With friends like that who needs enemies?" I think this friendship is causing more stress than anything, and that's the last thing you need. You seem like a bright, beautiful...
  8. Question: Advice needed!

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    I hate to be the one to tell you this, but...

    I hate to be the one to tell you this, but sometimes the only way to know if you are really meant for someone is to let them go. She wants to move on and explore other possibilities and you need to...
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    Sadly, in my experience I've found this to be...

    Sadly, in my experience I've found this to be very normal. My brother for instance NEVER calls unless he needs something from my mom or dad. My best friend was the same way when she moved out. This...
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    99% of the time I say that what is best is a...

    99% of the time I say that what is best is a CLEAN BREAK aka no contact. However in this situation the contact has already been made. If you do choose to meet him, don't take this as a chance to "try...
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    You obviously don't love this guy with all your...

    You obviously don't love this guy with all your heart because your heart is way to occupied with holding on to the past!!

    First off, as said below, it is NOT your place to say who is or isn't...
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    Wow... what personality characteristics makes a...

    Wow... what personality characteristics makes a man attractive to me? When I think of the perfect man, he is first and foremost easy to talk to. I feel comfortable being myself with him and him with...
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    Wow, I don't even know where to begin here. First...

    Wow, I don't even know where to begin here. First off you are right in asking him not to do this. If he truly wants to test his theories and "gain credibility" then he needs to tell another man his...
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    Whether she is joking is irrelevant. This...

    Whether she is joking is irrelevant. This obviously is bothering you and she should respect that. Tell her how you feel and explain to her that you told her those things in confidence. If she is...
  15. Question: I like a girl

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    Good idea... take care of you! If you all are...

    Good idea... take care of you! If you all are meant to be together it'll happen. Just do as your doing. Worry about your schooling, yourself, let everything else work itself out.
  16. Question: I like a girl

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    I hate to be the one to tell you this babe, but...

    I hate to be the one to tell you this babe, but this relationship (or lack thereof) is all wrong. The long distance thing rarely proves to be successful and then on top of that she has an on...
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    Yes dear you definitely need to see a doctor as...

    Yes dear you definitely need to see a doctor as soon as possible. Not only for the lumps but also for the abnormal period. My period is abnormal as well (not as bad as yours though.. I'm talking...
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    In the same sense maybe he is feeling this way...

    In the same sense maybe he is feeling this way to. Believe it or not there are people who aren't "that" into sex. Maybe him being one of those people makes him feel like the "girl" in the...
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    I would suggest normally in person, but...

    I would suggest normally in person, but considering the circumstances I would say a phone call is probably better. Let him know when you talk to him on the internet that you want to talk to him and...
  20. Parents so often get caught up in the discipline...

    Parents so often get caught up in the discipline and forget to reward you for the good. Sit down and tell her how you feel. Like said below, say it calmly, don't yell (even though sometimes it seems...
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    Keep in mind this simple rule... If you let a guy...

    Keep in mind this simple rule... If you let a guy know that you are going to wait on him, he will probably make you wait. If you honestly think he still has feelings for you and you are SURE you want...
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    Sounds as though you are into this guy and it...

    Sounds as though you are into this guy and it seems he may very well be into you. Unfortunately, if neither of you jump, you'll never know. You can either flirt and beat around the bush, or be...
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    Looking at porn is one thing. Going to sexual...

    Looking at porn is one thing. Going to sexual dating sites is another. Not to mention the fact that he is blatantly lying about it does not make him look any more trustworthy. If you have any desire...
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    I can tell you aren't a bad person, things...

    I can tell you aren't a bad person, things happen. No matter how unfortunate they may be, they happen. If you intend on staying at your job, you must find a way to separate your professional life...
  25. Question: I lost my love

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    Unfortunately I don't think this is yours to fix...

    Unfortunately I don't think this is yours to fix now. She has made her decision and wants both of you to move on. If you get back together it will have to be on her account. It doesn't seem fair but...
  26. Question: I lost my love

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    First to answer your question I do NOT think you...

    First to answer your question I do NOT think you should contact her when you get to Vegas. She can contact you if she chooses to. I know that at first she just asked you to give her space, but it...
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    Ending a relationship sucks no matter how it...

    Ending a relationship sucks no matter how it happens. It's probably better for you that she is moving on because this will give you the incentive to do so. There is no need to jump right into...
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    That white gold chain isn't going to keep you...

    That white gold chain isn't going to keep you warm at night, be that shoulder you need to cry on, or share in your happiness, so no.. it definitely should not change your decision or even be brought...
  29. Question: Stuck in a pickle

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    I agree... you need to wait it out. As for being...

    I agree... you need to wait it out. As for being friends with him... you are breaking NO friend code by doing that. I know that Cait is your best friend, but you can have more friends. I've always...
  30. Question: Dating but not?

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    If you don't make him commit or at least attempt...

    If you don't make him commit or at least attempt to, he's never going to. I answered almost this exact question just minutes ago and I'll tell you the same thing. Why would he change anything if he...
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    You need to first decide your priorities... how...

    You need to first decide your priorities... how important is this career to you and how much are you willing to sacrifice for it? You mention all these great qualities he has in being a "potential...
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    As talaniman said (sorry Tala... can't rate your...

    As talaniman said (sorry Tala... can't rate your answer yet) you are giving him no reason to have to commit. It's the perfect relationship... all the perks no commitment. Unless you are completely...
  33. Question: Am I weird?

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    LOL there is nothing wrong with you babe! You...

    LOL there is nothing wrong with you babe! You are just at an age (one that I am extremely close to) where you don't really know what you want or who you want to be with. I didn't have my first...
  34. I agree with talaniman. She is trying to move...

    I agree with talaniman. She is trying to move on. I understand your families want you together, your friends want you back together, you want to be back with her, but none of that matters. What...
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    If you go to the following link, you can change...

    If you go to the following link, you can change the city and state (next to where it says "add your business") as many times as needed to get local advertising contact information from each. Good...
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    These are the parents who save lives, and not...

    These are the parents who save lives, and not just their child's. At walmart's in Alabama they've started a new punishment for minors who steal. They have to march back and forth in front of the...
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    lol nope, speak only from experience. It's all...

    lol nope, speak only from experience. It's all opinion, that's all I've got to offer. Let's put it short and sweet. Figure out what you want, weigh out the consequences, then go for it or don't =)
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    I don't think flattery is what I would call it,...

    I don't think flattery is what I would call it, but don't be grossed out either. Boys will be boys (and they get worse as they get older lol). If you do really like this guy, find out what types of...
  39. Do you realize that many of your friends probably...

    Do you realize that many of your friends probably feel this way about themselves, even if they don't show it?


    You shouldn't ever have to depend on others to compliment you. Low self esteem is...
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    To truly love someone the way you are talking,...

    To truly love someone the way you are talking, you have to be able to give your heart to them. If you give your heart to both this female and your boyfriend your heart is inevitably broken, no...
  41. Question: My ex-girlfriend

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    As everyone else is saying, leave her alone. She...

    As everyone else is saying, leave her alone. She isn't the one for you. You need someone who cares about you the way you care about them and she can't do this. Let her live your life and you live...
  42. Question: Ex- boyfriend

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    Jessika, It sucks being in the situation you...

    Jessika,

    It sucks being in the situation you are in. I've not been in the exact situation, but one similar. You don't deserve the way he is treating you. You need to find you a man that isn't...
  43. Question: I miss him

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    You say that you both like each other, then why...

    You say that you both like each other, then why haven't one of you taken the initiative to ask the other out? I know that sometimes situations can be a little overwhelming. Look I'm going to be...
  44. Question: My ex-girlfriend

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    Move on baby. This chapter of your life has come...

    Move on baby. This chapter of your life has come to an end. She is prepared to move on and now you must do the same. You can't force someone to be with you no matter how hard you try.

    <3 Leslie
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    You are in a relationship with her......

    You are in a relationship with her... unfortunately it's not the type of relationship you are looking for. She's made it quite clear that you are like a brother to her. She loves you as her best...
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    Sometimes it takes losing something to know...

    Sometimes it takes losing something to know exactly what you've got and what you are willing to do to hang on to it. It sounds to me like he is giving an honest effort to try and earn her love and...
  47. Question: Confused about ex

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    First off I want to say congrats on getting off...

    First off I want to say congrats on getting off the drugs. That is a great accomplishment not to be taken lightly... now onto the situation at hand. She's married... it doesn't matter why she...
  48. Question: Oh boy! She bites

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    This is NOT in any way, shape, form, or fashion...

    This is NOT in any way, shape, form, or fashion how you approach ANYONE, especially someone you don't know. Did you honestly think that this was going to get you very far? She told you she didn't...
  49. First off, don't ever stay with anyone so that...

    First off, don't ever stay with anyone so that you don't lose touch with mutual friends. This action is unfair to both you and your boyfriend. If they are truly his friends they would be more mad...
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    Like Talaniman said, you can't just sit around...

    Like Talaniman said, you can't just sit around and fantasize. Thinking about ways to not think about him is still in turn thinking about him. Stop making it about him and go out and do something...
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