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Thanks for all the advice guys. I feel helpless sometimes when it comes to my kids. I'm not able to do much from so far away but I definitely want to help with their medical expenses. I will take...

She is in North Carolina with the kids. I'm sorry but I didn't make it clear. My Ex does have an insurance plan but has a very high deductible - $5000.00. The reason I've been trying to add the kids...

Ok, making a long story short. 3 kids with Ex-wife. She moved out of state (1000 miles away) before our divorce was final without my consent but a judge allowed her temporary relocation rights until...

Update.. this is the text from what Ive been recording... the last few lines say it all.
Am I being paranoid? This is a guy she dated in high school. What is going on?
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Oh and yes, sorry. Since the posts earlier this year about my kids. Yes, things changed a little. She's OK with me having my 3rd child here to visit but he's not allowed in our home. When they come...

Yes, same woman. Wow you remembered. Since I wrote this there's been an update. Something I consider a pretty important update. A while back I had installed a spying program on her laptop to check...

She's my 2nd wife. We've been married for 3 years now. She has an older son, I have a girl and 2 boys from previous marriage and we have 1 little boy in common from our new marriage. She's very...

Well it's not that she doesn't show love for the baby. She's great with him when I do stop by her house. Not sure if it's an act but she's affectionate with him, plays with him and is normal in...

This is my 2nd question on this board. I got great advise on the first post which actually helped me with my marriage.

Now my 2nd question. This is something that has come up a million times in my...

Thanks guys

Update!! Finally I got a chance to update everyone on what's been happening. You are/were all right on the money. Much has happened but things are "temporarily" normal. Yes, we had a huge fight and...

Well the miracle here is that I never purchased a gun for the house. My bi-polar significantly crazy other told me flat out that she was so angry she would shoot me if we did have a gun. Given the...

Sounds like you've hit it right on the head. You must know my wife or you know exactly what is going on. Yes, she's always been a control freak and what you wrote above is almost exactly what I've...

Can she legally kick me out of the house? I mean, if she is determined to keep me out and refuses for me to get in what can happen? If I'm calm and simply want to get into my home can I be arrested?...

Her 11 yo son is staying at his grandmothers house this week since he is out of school for the holidays. The baby stays with my wife at home during the day. When I get home in the evening she goes to...

Well here's the deal with "her" house. She purchased the house originally with her first husband. After 1 year of living there he was also "kicked out". To purchase the house she had put her fathers...

Ok it's done. This did not go well at all, actually worse then I thought. Maybe my timing was bad but after all that planning to talk about it this weekend I put it off 1 day too long. J_9 I should...

Ok this is it - I've been thinking this over since I started posting on this site. With the advise you have all given me I am now ready to do this. I've already arranged for my mom to pick up my...

I really appreciate the advise. This is exactly what I've needed for a long time. I'm feeling good. Been thinking about this all day here at work. I have butterflies in my stomach just thinking of...

J_9 thanks for the post -

It's easy to just tell people what they should do but you don't really understand the situation until you have been in it yourself. It sounds like you lived through this...

There is a real man here. He's been hiding for a long time. I must have been blinded by her charm or something. I think my biggest problem is that I'm not really a very social person and don't have...

I know what I have to do but I don't understand why I am such a chicken about this. Right now we are getting along. She's usually hard to get along with. I feel like I don't want to stir things up...

I agree, she is not supportive. We have had this argument many times before and she just doesn't get it. Her idea of being supportive is helping feed the kids when they are visiting.
My problem is...

Christmas is coming. Typically I meet my ex 500 miles away to swap the kids so they can spend time with me. This only happens twice each year. Once during the summer and once during Christmas.

I...